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TheInstrument -> RE: My parameters have changed... (1/1/2008 8:28:22 PM)
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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx
I do not have anything against switches, but, if I am going to submit to someone, I want them to be ....uhm....I guess in the same mindset I am....but...totally the opposite...*lol*
Sorry but that just sounds terribly goofy. Knowing that she's a switch doesn't give you any insight into where her minds at, so how do you know it's not where you think it should be? Secondly, if a Dom/me's actions were based on where a sub thought their head should be, that would kind of defeat the purpose no? Having standards is great, letting them hold you back is not. I think the chances of this working out are very slim because obviously this is something that's waying on your mind heavily and it's hard to put those feelings aside to truly focus on reality as opposed to what goes on in our own heads.
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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx
Any switches out there; please don't take my posts in the wrong way. There is nothing wrong with your feelings and/or orientation. I have just not evolved enough to understand it yet, that's all.
And, personally, I took it the wrong way quite a few responses ago. Not understanding it is one thing but the way you state it ("never did understand the whole 'switch' mentality") makes you sound very un-objective. Maybe it's the quotation marks that give me the feeling of you seeing switches as THOSE people, over there - aka not me and not in my circle - aka one with whom I cannot relate.
And your use of the word evolve - a clever way to walk on eggshells.
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