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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 10:33:21 AM   
faerytattoodgirl


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They were somewhat impressive, but looked like fake ones. I like my real ones.


I would love to agree with you, but I haven't seen them yet.


Well, you can kind of see them on my one requisite cleavage shot on the profile. As someone said in the Seinfeld episode, They are real and they are spectacular! LOL



That was elaine who said that to jerry at the end of the episode.

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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 10:33:56 AM   
OldBastardly1


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Status: offline 		I couldn't see enough of them to tell. Perhaps I need a better pic, lol. But from what I could see, I would agree with you.

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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 10:39:40 AM   
Rushemery


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ORIGINAL: r0gue

why is it that Dom/mes think they are above everyone else?

They think they are something special some superior being better and bigger than any other person on the scene be that male or female, Dom/me sub or switch.

Why when you give them honnest answers that they dont like it and start name calling because they think as a sub you shouldnt be talking to them like that?








I have had a few women resort to this even after I told them I have no use for people who cant be polite when we disagree lol, I feel its a maturity level they havent quite reached yet, I also feel if you cant be respectful online you wont be off line

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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 12:11:09 PM   
came4U


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why is it that Dom/mes think they are above everyone else?


maybe because you 'allow' it. No one can just take power from you (online), you must be passive enough to allow it.

oh, and the name calling? well, once he/she does that then you regain your power, don't ya.

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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 12:16:37 PM   
MsPleasure


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Status: offline 		Sweetie, don't lump all Dominants into one bunch.  Knuckle heads are in all groups.  I see you only have 5 posts, just use your Block feature and keep moving. 

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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 12:33:15 PM   
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Hey Red! I like your new avatar...you're a cutie!


Me too Red, and after seeing your hair I'm convinced that the cherry or strawberry jello will go just fine.

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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 1:06:13 PM   
MystressDream


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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

Get used to the fact that many "dominants" on Collarme are in fantasy land. Many will never experience real life and simply get their jollys by playing an online game (game being the operative word). When they don't get the response/result desired from the sub they resort to name calling because they haven't a clue in the first place. Please, no flames, this is strictly my opinion.


I couldn't agree with this post more.  I believe that the vast majority of people on CM (NOT the message boards, but the other side) are only there to fulfill their online fantasies.  This problem is obvious on both sides of the whip.
 
The hot wanna be dominants who don't have a clue, but think if they buy a latex outfit and a flogger and demand men grovel at their feet, and the subs declaring their loyalty and submissiveness to the point of groveling at the cyber feet of a woman begging for her collar when they haven't ever even met her.... both are annoying, but, it's the Internet. 
 
I have given up on finding a slave here on CM.  I am instead meeting potential slaves at events and the local community get togethers.  In all my years on CM, I have only come across two men who actually meant what they said and met me in person when requested.  The rest all disappeared as soon as they were faced with meeting real time.
 
Whether "Dominant" or "submissive", the vast majority are game players.  YES THERE ARE GOOD ONES OUT THERE.  But, they are few and far between for a Dominant of my age and experience, and I have given up on finding one.
 
I am a real person.  I want a man who has at least one foot planted firmly in reality.  The OP's problem is the opposite of mine.  I am dismissed regularly because I am NOT a bitch, not demanding enough, and believe knowing the person as a person comes before the fetish.  I won't "dom" someone online or long distance.  So, I get lots of brush offs... and that's fine.  <smile>

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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 1:07:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		The true situation is, everybody can be anybody online/phone.One of the most powerful things about the mind is you can be what you think you are. But to achieve greatness (or simply improve) you must invest the time to learn and make mistakes, and learn more.. Because the internet is a level playing field, many including myself simply either avoid situations or come VERY HEAVY HANDED.Avoiding does nothing, being harsh causes flame mail (I get ton's).  

When I was younger I would go to munches to seek out the "grand puba doms" and usually would not see the same persona as they offered online. At the time I was more of a pissing contest alpha dom IDIOT. Always wanting to crush others who claimed to be more than they were.NEVER lost on a face to face meeting. what did it prove, nothing. Just showed I was an idiot looking to crush.and did.  FEW, very few are as they say and or think they are. I know my abilities and my inabilities. I am greatful that as I grow older I choose my fights and hope I have grown.

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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 2:26:28 PM   
Rushemery


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Status: offline 		You right Tiger, many people loose steam in real life or when confronted lol. I tend to be more reserved in real life at least until midnight

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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 3:04:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MsPleasure

Sweetie, don't lump all Dominants into one bunch.  Knuckle heads are in all groups.  I see you only have 5 posts, just use your Block feature and keep moving. 


"Hasty generalization" was the first thing I thought of when I saw the OP. We don't ALL have a superiority complex, and "bestride the narrow world like a colossus." Many of us don't lack the self-confidence of the "petty men" who insult you for being honest. (A big thanx to one W. Shakespeare for the quotes!)

Les (Purveyor of Fine New Year's Kink)

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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 3:08:55 PM   
meticulousgirl


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Status: offline 		Not all of them do but, yes i see what your saying and that's called having a big ego, and at least for me, it's the biggest turn off in the world...it's the one thing that will make me hit block user above anything else.

~meticulous~

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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 3:11:29 PM   
unforegvn


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ORIGINAL: r0gue

why is it that Dom/mes think they are above everyone else?

They think they are something special some superior being better and bigger than any other person on the scene be that male or female, Dom/me sub or switch.

Why when you give them honnest answers that they dont like it and start name calling because they think as a sub you shouldnt be talking to them like that?




Name calling because of an honest answer - well I never....
I am a Superior Goddess in a world filled with immortal submissives and slaves; I sit proudly on my pedestal as I pass judgement on all that adore me, yes it is hard to be humble.

Seriously, if you are asked a question and you respond honestly what do you care what they say or think...

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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 3:45:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: OldBastardly1

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1



They were somewhat impressive, but looked like fake ones. I like my real ones.


I would love to agree with you, but I haven't seen them yet.


Well, you can kind of see them on my one requisite cleavage shot on the profile. As someone said in the Seinfeld episode, They are real and they are spectacular! LOL



That was elaine who said that to jerry at the end of the episode.



I don't want to nitpick, but it's an interesting fact, I think, that it was actually Teri Hatcher (!) as a guest star on the show who said it to Jerry as she walked out the door.  One of the best exit lines ever! 

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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 3:58:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ksub4u

I don't want to nitpick, but it's an interesting fact, I think, that it was actually Teri Hatcher (!) as a guest star on the show who said it to Jerry as she walked out the door.  One of the best exit lines ever! 



Do I get bonus trivia points if I know that it was not Teri Hatcher, but the guy she dated after she stopped dating Jerry?  His name was Jackie Chiles, and it was his exit line to Jerry.

Cali

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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 4:05:34 PM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: r0gue

why is it that Dom/mes think they are above everyone else?

They think they are something special some superior being better and bigger than any other person on the scene be that male or female, Dom/me sub or switch.



You mean Dom/mes are not above everyone else?

But but but.. it says it right here in my handbook  "Domming for Dummies" that we are the superior of others.





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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 4:14:40 PM   
ksub4u


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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 6:29:47 PM   
wisteriaV


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Status: offline 		Here's a concept for you. We are all humans that post here and all of us have assholes. At times ALL of us not just those that take on Dom/me switch roles speak out of our assholes..its called being human....NO one is perfect, not even God other wise he would have made the penis permenently hard !

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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 6:42:28 PM   
Rushemery


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NO one is perfect, not even God other wise he would have made the penis permenently hard !



lol thats the best

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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 6:58:04 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1



They were somewhat impressive, but looked like fake ones. I like my real ones.


I would love to agree with you, but I haven't seen them yet.


Well, you can kind of see them on my one requisite cleavage shot on the profile. As someone said in the Seinfeld episode, They are real and they are spectacular! LOL



That was elaine who said that to jerry at the end of the episode.



I don't want to nitpick, but it's an interesting fact, I think, that it was actually Teri Hatcher (!) as a guest star on the show who said it to Jerry as she walked out the door.  One of the best exit lines ever! 



Elaine accidentaly fell on the breasts and that is how she knew and told jerry later in the episode.

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RE: above yourselfs? - 12/31/2007 7:31:26 PM   
Griswold


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ORIGINAL: r0gue

why is it that Dom/mes think they are above everyone else?

They think they are something special some superior being better and bigger than any other person on the scene be that male or female, Dom/me sub or switch.

Why when you give them honnest answers that they dont like it and start name calling because they think as a sub you shouldnt be talking to them like that?



It's quite simple;

You're a chic, so you might not understand this.

They have tits.

They're women.

(They're not men).  Allow me to explain;

(See above if you have any questions).

They're chics.

(See above if you have any questions).

See....they're chics.

(See above if you have any questions).

They're chics.

(They have tits).

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