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Fawne -> Advice on hiding profile (8/22/2005 10:15:35 AM)

Hi
What do you do about having your profile show to let people know who you are and maybe share ideas etc... but have found what you are looking for? Is there a way to show on forums.. but hide on the other side?

I enjoy this messege board and want to be part of it. But as a (submissive) woman.. don't want be shown on the side for personals. Too much mail, too many apologies, not enough time. I should not complain, I know I am lucky. But... I hope you can relate or understand.

My Dominant prefers (strongly) I keep hidden from the personals, but supports my participation here on the message boards. Boards aren't his thing, and I would rather keep hidden then ask him to "bodyguard" me. I need other things more than to "show" and I will not press this on him. If he was a poster too.. that would be different, as I see those involved with "posters" say.. I am with so and so and the big guy will get ya if ..

Sigh.. any ideas appreciated. Thanks for being part of CM forum..and putting up with this rambling.
fawne




MistressFire70 -> RE: Advice on hiding profile (8/22/2005 10:23:58 AM)

You must have been successful, as your profile is not found when I click on your name from here. Also, when I search for "Fawne" there, I get no results.

Fire




Fawne -> RE: Advice on hiding profile (8/22/2005 10:30:58 AM)

Thanks, MistressFire

i knew I was rambling! i mean i'd like to "show" here and let people here see my profile, but be blocked from the main page online list... Wait! If I use the forum profile i can still hide the main profile? OK! TY!

best to you, fawne




Nuke718 -> RE: Advice on hiding profile (8/22/2005 10:45:54 AM)

Sorry Fawne, I think it's all or nothing.

I have a local friend whose account is hidden (she calls it deactivated). She can log in, reply to e-mail, read and post to the forums etc. But nobody can view her profile or send her an unsolicited e-mail.

So it looks to me like therre are no "sides" to it, your profile is your profile and either on or off.

Sorry,

Nuke }:-

PS- Congrats on finding what you were lookin for!




Fawne -> RE: Advice on hiding profile (8/22/2005 10:55:56 AM)

Nuke,

Thank you. I love CM forum.. very thought provoking!

Good too: I wrote this question, put it out and realize I am trying to find a way to wiggle around his decision. priorities revealed.... [:D]

I can write out and will do so more in the future.

Take care and a smile, fawne




NakedOnMyChain -> RE: Advice on hiding profile (8/22/2005 12:03:01 PM)

I really don't have any idea how to do that, other than put absolutely nothing of interest in your profile, and don't answer mail. But if you figure out a way to do it, let me know. Good luck!




pinkpleasures -> RE: Advice on hiding profile (8/22/2005 3:58:23 PM)

Fawne, put your profile on the other side, explain in 12 or 14 point type that you are collared, and set your mail controls to eliminate men. You can browse through your "Bulk Mail" if you want; it's not lost; just not annoyingly sent to your in-box.

pinkpleasures




sub4hire -> RE: Advice on hiding profile (8/22/2005 6:39:41 PM)

Considering this is a non issue at this point. You've deleted your profile.

Would'nt it only be common sense since we are now posting in collarchat.com instead of collarme.com that they would be two seperate entities?

I don't know for sure but that is what I'm assumed.




pinkpleasures -> RE: Advice on hiding profile (8/22/2005 9:22:38 PM)

quote:

Considering this is a non issue at this point. You've deleted your profile.

Would'nt it only be common sense since we are now posting in collarchat.com instead of collarme.com that they would be two seperate entities?

I don't know for sure but that is what I'm assumed.

sub4hire


Huh? What happened? Are we not in Kansas anymore, toto?

pinkpleasures




Fawne -> RE: Advice on hiding profile (8/23/2005 6:26:15 AM)

sub4hire:

I'm still here :)

Profile says deactivated, but it's just hidden.
I'll see what I can do because i likes y'all..

fawne

Thanks




pinkpleasures -> RE: Advice on hiding profile (8/23/2005 6:29:14 AM)

And we like Fawne.

pinkpleasures




sultryvoice -> RE: Advice on hiding profile (8/23/2005 6:42:05 AM)

Like was said before..change mail controls and put in your profile that you have found what you want..also, you can put in you are only intersted in the mnessage boards and your profile is only for the benefit of those others on the boards to know who you are. Just don't put anything that can be miscontrued as as "personals" wording..or just stay deactivated..

Respectfully,
sultry




sub4hire -> RE: Advice on hiding profile (8/23/2005 11:37:46 AM)

quote:

I'm still here :)

Profile says deactivated, but it's just hidden.
I'll see what I can do because i likes y'all..


Whatever the case it seems to be working.




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