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RE: Is this something you have encountered? - 12/31/2007 7:04:35 PM

azropedntied

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Personaly i used to get some gay male mail and they were rather blunt and rude , i changed my weight to some massive figure like 900lbs and they seemed to slow down then i posted on my journal about not wishing to be convered .After that they stopped , and just as in my profile and journal i have no intrest in gay or bi males for an exchange so maybe that is what needs to be added .I also posted though i do not judge hate or think ill of any gay anyone its just not what i am searching for .
I have an alt profile as well but mainly use it for local chat and keeping in contact with people i know in the community .I do not get mail and i guess thats fine , no mail is better than rude unwated mail .I know several Women who tell me all about the massive amounts of mail and unwanted dick pics ,rudeness , and general disrespectfull mailings .In the end though thats what the delete button is for .
Your cock and abs story reminded me of a Domme on here who mailed me saying i needed to be her money slave and i should send her cash on a bi-weekly basis .I though wow the nerve then i said oooh ok please Goddess give your address to me right away and i shall send you some cash .Amazingly enough she " maybe it was a he who knows lol " sent it .So in turn mailed her an envelope filled with board game money and plastic coins , with no return address . Oddly enough i did not get that request a second time .Maybe she is still try'n to spend it /?
I still say the best way to meet people that you may have a common intrest with is get out in your bdsm community maybe attend some functions and munches .
Best wishes on your journey ..

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RE: Is this something you have encountered? - 12/31/2007 7:23:11 PM

petpete

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Dear eevin. If you take every tom dick and harry serious on any of the sites you will only go crazy. Just like in real life it takes time to built some relationship and some trust between people. Weed out the bad and keep the positive ones.. Happy new year to you..

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RE: Is this something you have encountered? - 12/31/2007 7:29:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: eevin
MissMagnolia: i find it difficult, myself, to message a Person without first being contacted or given permission by Them in some way, so it seems outragious to me that someone who would call themself a submissive would contact someOne like that, expectcially with demands which is VERY unsubmissive like in any way.

That's my point. It IS outrageous to bother a Domme with demands. I personally never contact subs, except one little treasure, who I still speak to regularly.

A nice, polite email never goes astray with a Domme/Dom, so don't be afraid to make the first move.

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RE: Is this something you have encountered? - 1/1/2008 9:42:11 AM

azropedntied

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Ya know i am ALWAYS polite ,and respectful and more when and if i do make contact with a Domme , I have met some wonderful and amazing people on c/m , and i have met some real darwin award winners too , and some total jerks in the mix too .I have reached out in that first effort and gotten nothing in return not even a hi thanks for the mail kiss my ass nuttin .
In the end many different types on here from diamonds to dirt balls and everything inbetween .
Yes you will go crazy if you park on here mass mail people and wait .Stop killin yourself mailing people off a site should not be a full time job , you get mail great you dont thats ok too ,your getting creepy mail rude mail delete and block sender .
ENJOY .. remember this is supposed to be fun .Now have fun or i swear i will turn this car right around and we can just stay home .

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RE: Is this something you have encountered? - 1/1/2008 9:48:26 AM

FullCircle

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ORIGINAL: eevin
i either recieved mesages from gay men asking me to have sex with them (quite blatently), or from Femanazi-type Mistresses who told me that because i didn't have rippling abs and a 10 inch cock, i wasn't good for anything but being castrated and abused.

Some people have all the fun.

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RE: Is this something you have encountered? - 1/1/2008 10:20:11 AM

beeble

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MissMagnolia wrote: I'm a Domme and have male Dom's demanding I submit to them, males emailing me to demand I dom them online, will I shit in a jar and send it to them,etc etc., despite my clearly defined profile preferences.

To be fair, you profile says you don't switch and says you don't dominate online but... well... see, it doesn't explicitly state that you won't shit in a jar and send it to people.

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RE: Is this something you have encountered? - 1/1/2008 10:41:42 AM

backseatbebe

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lol beeble

eevin...your chances increase when you make the first contact because you will message people you already have an interest in. so you have a 50% chance they will respond positivly. waiting for the right people to message you means an inifity% because there is a full world out there of wierdos and creeps wanting to make contact (and sometimes if youre really lucky they will message you twice!!)
as for the uncooth comment, making anything easier for the Dommes is submissive, and all you need to do is say hello. It's hard for them to search through the numerous unowned submissives on here, so making first contact is a service to them as long as you arent wasting their time and are respectful.

as for alt, ive had both good and bad experinces from both sites. but im not suprised by that, they both have their own ups and downs. for example i like alt's chat rooms. good way to get to know more kinky locals. but here i can message people not online.

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RE: Is this something you have encountered? - 1/1/2008 12:13:43 PM

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i've had bad encounters on ALT as well, which is why, in my personal opinion, i won't suggest it to anyone. i'm glad though that your having better encounters on here :)

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RE: Is this something you have encountered? - 1/1/2008 1:17:51 PM

KindLadyGrey

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I've certainly gotten my share of strange messages here, but Alt.com was 100% more insane. I think I technically still have a profile over there, but I never check it and alt.com mail goes right to my trash folder.

I've had a lot more fun on CM, and met a lot more interesting and real people. I met my boy here, and made some friends on the forums and in chat.

So stick around. CM is the place to be ;)

PS: As a Domme, I will second the advice of other posters. . .DO message women who interest you. Most of us don't go looking for male subs because so many of them deliver themselves to our doorsteps (sometimes literally). It's up to you to be proactive in making contact.

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RE: Is this something you have encountered? - 1/1/2008 2:49:40 PM

DesFIP

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Alt's weird.

However I might revamp your profile. It's full of fantasy. The truth is that slavery or 24/7 submission will not magically convert you into a person with no human traits. You will not suddenly think only of her, and be entirely selfless.

You would do better to describe yourself honestly. Talk about what you do and don't enjoy in life, not in the sex/play area. Because most of our lives is spent dealing with work, ums, car/household upkeep, etc. Few of us spend all day in latex catsuits waving a flogger, or having one waved at us. More's the pity.

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RE: Is this something you have encountered? - 1/1/2008 4:03:16 PM

eevin

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Alt's weird.

However I might revamp your profile. It's full of fantasy. The truth is that slavery or 24/7 submission will not magically convert you into a person with no human traits. You will not suddenly think only of her, and be entirely selfless.

You would do better to describe yourself honestly. Talk about what you do and don't enjoy in life, not in the sex/play area. Because most of our lives is spent dealing with work, ums, car/household upkeep, etc. Few of us spend all day in latex catsuits waving a flogger, or having one waved at us. More's the pity.

lol That's funny, DesFIP.

i'm not entirely sure how to make my profile look better. i've NEVER been good about filling those things out. i usually spend hours just blinking at the bare boxes wondering what i should write, and come up with a lot of things that sound corny or just stupid.

i do like how we can list O/our interests. And, personally, my life is a lot of 'fantasy' type stuff. i role play in chat rooms and in Dark Age of Camelot as well as belonging to the Society for Creative Anachronism (its a middle age/rennaisance group, for anyone interested). So that aspect of my life is very much a part of who i am.

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