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begging or silence? - 12/31/2007 11:44:56 PM

tommycuckold

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Ladies-- since we subs are constantly trying to hone our serving skills, we'd like to ask U a question-- do U like begging or silence during sex or a session?-- i figure most Gals might say they don't mind it during sex with their man, but i have a feeling that most Pro's won't like it very much-- personally, i adore begging at a Womans feet-- the thought and reality of crawling on my belly to kiss Her heels and look up at Her Divine Pulchritude... i weep-- Regards, tommy

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RE: begging or silence? - 1/1/2008 2:31:01 AM

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You are asking a question that can't really be answered because it's completely situational. I can give you opinions about what I like and when - but that can change depending on what I am doing and who I am with.

If she's told you to shut the fuck up ... begging probably not a good idea.
If you've been instructed never to have an orgasm without begging for it, probably should start begging.
If she's demanded silence, shut up.
If she hasn't and you feel the need to grovel at her glorious feet, feel free.

I assume the woman you are with at the time will direct you as to her personal preference for your behavior.

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RE: begging or silence? - 1/1/2008 5:13:27 AM

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If she's told you to shut the fuck up ... begging probably not a good idea.
If you've been instructed never to have an orgasm without begging for it, probably should start begging.
If she's demanded silence, shut up.
If she hasn't and you feel the need to grovel at her glorious feet, feel free.

lmao ...noice....

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RE: begging or silence? - 1/1/2008 6:30:43 AM

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I agree begging is much better than silence unless pet is told otherwise. Silence to me can be a bit creepy, unless somthing for the occasion has changed. If I'm upset then silence is expected. To hear my pet beg for various things, to beg to be Dominated...there's nothing better in the world.

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RE: begging or silence? - 1/1/2008 7:29:54 AM

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I don't know what pros want -- I'm not one.

As to what non-pros want that is a matter of personal likes and dislikes as well as the situation (as other posters have said).

In my house if I say "beg" then begging is good but otherwise not. However verbal feedback and noise is almost always welcomed even if I've gagged my slave or submissive.

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RE: begging or silence? - 1/1/2008 11:28:20 AM

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Begging is too close to whining. Asking is fine. Silence? I want to be aware that he is alive and feeling what is going on!

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RE: begging or silence? - 1/1/2008 2:28:12 PM

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Every Lady is going to be different, but my personal preference is pro begging. I absolutely adore begging. Begging to cum, begging for me to stop, begging for kisses. . .I make my boy beg for all kinds of things because it is hot hot hot!

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RE: begging or silence? - 1/1/2008 4:42:07 PM

darchChylde

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hmmm, i simply can't see myself begging; and i'm not very convincing as pathetic... i'm not saying that i would never beg, but that it's really not in my makeup; Ma'am knows what i desire and i will get it when She decides it suits Her, begging won't change that

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RE: begging or silence? - 1/1/2008 5:05:52 PM

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I like feedback, myself. Of all kinds. But the intensity of the feedback should be appropriate to the situation. And I have to admit that given a choice between "please stop" and "please DON'T stop" begging, I would always much prefer the latter...

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RE: begging or silence? - 1/1/2008 5:25:16 PM

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Depends, if you are told to beg, beg properly, if you are told to be silent then you very well better obey or all the begging in the world will not save you!

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