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Halifaxslave -> RE: Loosing the Collar (8/22/2005 9:54:26 PM)
I sometimes poke myself in the eye when I forget that I am not wearing my glasses lol With my last sub, because she couldn't wear a collar 24/7 (and not everyone has a 24/7 relationship anyway, love the "In the real world" comment Ms ;) I made her a collar that she was to put on anytime she was in the mood to play. I still started play now and then but for the most part I enjoyed her coming to me with the collar on...a kind of wordless begging to play. My only mistake is perhaps letting her keep the collar when she seperated from be for a guy her own age; but I did make it specficaly for her so I couldn't see anyone else wear it. Of course if it was one of those expensive metal collars, yeah I would have reused it. So I lost the sub but gave the collar away [:D]

IronBear -> RE: Loosing the Collar (8/23/2005 12:53:27 AM)
quote: From the real world... things get lost, things get found. Pick it up, pat off the dust, and put it back on when the time is right. Am I missing something here, or do you think there NEEDS to be a major protocol for something so simple. It's not a holy relic fer cripes sake. If it comes off the neck, it's an object just like any other. What it MEANS between two people varies, but all-in-all, the piece of leather/metal/ropes or whatever is just an object. If you have a ritual for putting it on, then do it, if you don't, then don't. Why make a big whoopteedo out of simply picking something up and putting it where it belongs? Is there more to this question? Purr For heavens sake Purr, lighten up a tad. Read the whole post and you will see that Fangs stated clearly that this was a hyperthetical situation. Its always good to get people's responces to situations which they may never experience and fun too. quote: Uhh mark a specific place to keep it so you don't lose it again? Same reply to you two ES2, why does every thing you respond to have to be so serious? Just relax and enjoy the flow of such topics.... <<<<<<<<< has flame proof bear skin....

pinkpleasures -> RE: Loosing the Collar (8/23/2005 5:44:32 AM)
quote: anyway... my response and thoughts don't mean to much since i'm not really bdsm-experienced at all. ~ but.. your question sparked some thoughts inside of me.. so i decided to respond. ragdoll Your opinions matter as much as anyone else's ragdoll; there's no caste system here, with the Old Guard standing atop the heap. i thought what you said made alot of sense. It's always bad to lose something entrusted to you for safekeeping...and it can be very hard to replace the object. Your thoughts on responsibility, etc., were great. pinkpleasures

lonewolf05 -> RE: Loosing the Collar (8/23/2005 6:28:09 AM)
lost? misplaced? hellfire. i wear mine 24/7.......what is this lose stuff? wolfie

RiotGirl -> RE: Loosing the Collar (8/23/2005 8:46:21 AM)
quote: We have some friends who are traditionalists. They switch and indicate it by who is wearing the biker cap so people who meet them know what orientation they are in. Thanks i always wondered

Mercnbeth -> RE: Loosing the Collar (8/23/2005 8:55:20 AM)
quote: We have some friends who are traditionalists. They switch and indicate it by who is wearing the biker cap so people who meet them know what orientation they are in. Does the bike cap indicate the dom or sub persona? Is the cap labeled to indicate the orientation? And how does this reflect "traditionalism"?

pinkpleasures -> RE: Loosing the Collar (8/23/2005 10:28:58 AM)
quote: beth's neck has never been sans collar since she and I became us. she has a variety of "collars" from formal necklaces, to leather with a variety of rings. When one is removed to be replaced by another, appropriate for our activity, there is a ritual. (YEAH I Know, I know, - We have a "ritual" for everything - SO SHOOT US!) Only I have removed her collar since the first day I put it on. So baring that event described it just couldn't happen. Mercnbeth O, what a lovely, simple way to convey a beautiful relationship, Sir. Thank You so much. pinkpleasures

pinkpleasures -> RE: Loosing the Collar (8/23/2005 10:33:22 AM)
quote: I kinda like that idea, throw the collar in the ring and may the best switch win. Ron <Prefers the green jello pool, LMAO> pinkpleasures

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