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The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/1/2008 5:48:54 PM   
DominantMan4f


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Hi I have been looking for female slave(s) on here for a while with no luck. I do much better off line, is there anything that works well in finding slaves on here. I notice the females on here get overwhelmed with messages. If you know of any ways to find real female slaves message me.

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RE: The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/1/2008 5:57:28 PM   
MsLadySue


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Since you do fine offline in your search for slaves, why bother with this site?

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RE: The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/1/2008 6:05:59 PM   
DominantMan4f


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Because it is a free site, with a lot of females on it.

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RE: The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/1/2008 6:09:55 PM   
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You have to spend a lot of time looking for others who feel the same way you do. You have to be yourself; which is (hopefully) interesting, clever and fun. Narrow your interests down to one or three who are good matches, and then continue to pursue them until it works or it doesn't. If it doesn't, move on to other possibilities. Expand your interests when necessary, and don't assume anything.

Good luck to you!

~Christina

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RE: The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/1/2008 6:15:44 PM   
Aileen1968


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I think you'd do better to post some more casual shots of yourself to back up your profile picture.  It (the picture) comes across as being fake to me.  I could be wrong, but that's my first thought in viewing your profile.  From there I'm not inclined to believe anything you write

edited because I have a sticky "c" on my keyboard.

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RE: The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/1/2008 6:17:12 PM   
CuriousLord


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I just go out into the social arena and by myself.. holding back the dominant nature a little less. Girls who aren't interseted show interest. Girls who are intersted may, and some eventually do.

But, well. You kinda just do your own thing and submissives come to you. That's how being dominant works.

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RE: The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/1/2008 6:21:49 PM   
masterlink65


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most people on here dont even bother to answer mail sent to them. not uncommon. most seem to be here to chat, and belittle others. i have had so called straight doms contact me to be outted and switched, but they never email again. but i have yet to have a female sub/slave respond to my mail sent to them. i think it is rude and disrespectful myself, but that happens from time to time

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RE: The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/1/2008 6:24:18 PM   
Prinsexx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DominantMan4f

Hi I have been looking for female slave(s) on here for a while with no luck. I do much better off line, is there anything that works well in finding slaves on here. I notice the females on here get overwhelmed with messages. If you know of any ways to find real female slaves message me.


I am real. I notice your profile says you are interested in brain washing. I am perfectly happy with my mind being filthy....................

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RE: The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/1/2008 6:31:19 PM   
RedMagic1


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I've had quite a few women answer my mail.  I've had several mail me first.  One time she included her phone number before I contacted her.

I have not viewed masterlink65's profile, and he hasn't asked for advice, so I have nothing to say there.

However, I will say to the OP that I don't think I'm GodsGiftToFemaleSlavesBowDownRightNow.  And it sure sounds as though you think you are.  Not a winning strategy.  I also agree with Aileen that your profile looks totally phony.  Who are you?  What do you like to do when you're not fantasizing about kinky sex?  What is your life in vanilla?

It's stupid I know, but the chicks seem to dig knowing that shit for some reason.

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RE: The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/1/2008 6:38:20 PM   
Aylee


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Well, your pic does not look like you are 42 years old.  You use the words "True Master."  And you seem to be looking for anything with a pulse. 

For an online female slave, I would suggest:  www.slavesrus.com




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RE: The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/1/2008 6:43:17 PM   
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Order one from the "sub shop"?

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RE: The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/1/2008 6:57:40 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Ok, first, I have to say that I felt the pic was probably not a true depiction of the person posting.
Secondly, I do know a lot of people who ARE in their 40's who look similar in age to the picture. As we all know now, 40 is the new 30...(thank goodness for that, huh?!!)
And many of us do not post personal pics for a variety of reasons. I do, and think it should be done at least once a year, because some of these people have had the same pics for...ever...*lol*
but, assuming (whether the pic is legit or not) that this is a person who would like to meet someone, how can we advise him/her on how to meet a decent, real sub-type girl?

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RE: The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/1/2008 7:13:19 PM   
dogobedience


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First believe that honest peolpe do exist here. THEN dig.dig.dig and never give up until you find one for you.

The internet allows for all of us to get together, most are not what you want but some are.dig,dig,dig. 

As to face to face, my success level is greatly improved. BUT unless I am at a BDSM function, I am wasting my time. I can get kinky easy sex anywhere. I need more, I need the lifestyle.

I do see a point to be online, you have a vastly larger population to draw on, and someday you will find one who clicks with you.

BTW you or I stand no chance against "the perfect liar dom", they always get first crack at the newbies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1   

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RE: The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/1/2008 7:18:53 PM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

I think you'd do better to post some more casual shots of yourself to back up your profile picture.  It (the picture) comes across as being fake to me.  I could be wrong, but that's my first thought in viewing your profile.  From there I'm not inclined to believe anything you write

edited because I have a sticky "c" on my keyboard.


I have to agree, it appears to be a very old photo from the hairstyle and the shirt he is wearing.

I remember once a dominant that I had been talking to emailed me a photo of him in a tux that was vogue in the mid 80s and the furniture was vintage 1970s... I lost his email addy


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RE: The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/1/2008 7:25:29 PM   
Missokyst


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Seems to me that if you have better look finding women offline than free is irrelevant.  A lot of nothing which is free is still nothing. 
Oh.. and your pic does look like it was taken in the late 50's early 60's.  Do you really want to project that image?
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ORIGINAL: DominantMan4f

Because it is a free site, with a lot of females on it.


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RE: The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/1/2008 7:26:33 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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please define the word "real"?  what is a "real female slave"to you?  is it like searching for a "twue submissive"?

this inquiring mind would like to know


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RE: The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/1/2008 7:33:54 PM   
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After reviewing all 13 of your posts since 05, i would say this has been an on going problem for you...

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RE: The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/1/2008 8:21:32 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Well to repeat another poster..just because this is a free site does not explain why you are here if you have better luck in R/L..after all, isn't that where it all begins anyway?..in R/L?...second of all..gotta go with the picture seems deceptive..but, who knows!...again, another reason R/L is preferred...then we get down to the criteria thing...ok...you seek, it seems, slaves.(this is what you have printed in bold in your profile..sex slaves..etc etc etc)...so thus most SUBMISSIVES (I would) would bypass you..I identify as submissive not slave..(as far as my own interpretation of what a slave consists of)..you seek poly..that eliminates the monogomous ones(and I am also monogamal, so I would not contact you)...then you state ,you seek attractive women..well what do you consider attractive?..everyones idea of attractive vary..since I myself do not consider myself extremely attractive ,again, I would give you a miss.. Now, I am not saying you should change theses criteria, they are what you seek..I am simply pointing out that with each criteria the choices narrow.....Tempting

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RE: The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/1/2008 8:31:05 PM   
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I'm with dawntreader. If you have had absolutely no luck on here in two years, despite your actually seeking, it's probably not going to happen.

I also question your looking online at CM. If you are having much better luck offline and finding female slaves in the real world, why do you want any from here?

I'd like to say that my enquiring mind wants to know, but we all know I don't really care.

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RE: The Best Ways To Find A Good Female Slave. - 1/2/2008 1:30:24 AM   
batshalom


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Mm. Yeah. With your post here, and your extremely generic profile, perhaps the difficulty lies in expressing yourself in a way that would attract a submissive / slave to you. I don't know how many girls you've contacted or what you've said to them in your messages (and thus I am not able to help you there) but I agree that the pic needs a little updating (where's the gray hair??) and you might reword the profile.

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