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She's asking for a real beating... - 1/2/2008 2:25:31 PM

erebus

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I've met a woman through a local group. She's well known apparently and has played a long time.

Here's the situation. She is looking for (and has problems finding) Doms to abduct her in broad daylight, take her to a warehouse or other location, be beaten soundly and for a long time, and then 'raped', and then dumped out somewhere public.

No wonder she has a problem finding someone to do this! I can see many problems with a scenerio such as this. She is quite keen on doing this, and has be able to find men to throughly thrash her, beating her soundly. However, everyone is concerned about being accused of, well, everything outlined above.

I told her I'd love to watch such a scene, but I just couldn't bring myself to participate in the activities myself. Just being somewhere where a woman is screaming her head off (part of the supposed scene) while being punched, kicked, hit with fists etc is almost (and maybe) too much of a risk.

Is this even an uncommon situation? It's all consensual, blah, blah, blah, but is it too risky?

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RE: She's asking for a real beating... - 1/2/2008 2:32:47 PM

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Since she is local, I would ask around about her or ask for references. If they are all good then I don't see a problem.

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RE: She's asking for a real beating... - 1/2/2008 2:44:45 PM

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It can be risky; yes; though not impossible.

Like already mentioned though, I would ask around about the young lady first and get a real good idea about her and how trustworthy ( in regards to play ) and how heavily she is into play of this kind. As you said, the fall out from a single bad word to the authorities can be astronomical in a situation such as this.

On another note, I can understand her saying that no one would wish to go this far into a scene with someone on a casual basis. I am a very heavy pain player...I like punching, kicking...the whole works...and I know for a fact ( in my case anyway ) that there is no one within the local clubs that would participate in a scene of such with me simply because it is too dangerous; physically on my side; and legally on theirs.

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RE: She's asking for a real beating... - 1/2/2008 2:47:25 PM

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RE: She's asking for a real beating... - 1/2/2008 7:09:08 PM

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A public abduction like that where the general public see's a woman getting stuffed into a van against her will ,not knowing it is in fact consensual is very risky .I can see the first problem= a good person seeing this and calling 911 , then you get to meet the local law enforcement .Also check your local laws i know here there are no consent laws , meaning even if i say yes beat me there is no consent in the laws eye .All parties need that protection for a good exchange and no ooops or suprises .

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RE: She's asking for a real beating... - 1/2/2008 9:08:12 PM

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The only way to do such a scene would be if all the potential witnesses in the immediate vicinity when she is kidnapped were also in the lifestyle (unbeknowst to her) and in on the fact that it was a scene. However even under such conditions I would hesitate to do it, for the reasons stated by others.

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RE: She's asking for a real beating... - 1/2/2008 9:57:33 PM

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I"ve known of people doing this type of scenario with folks that the gal knew but they were masked.

Clearly you don't know her well, and yet she is asking you to play as if you are abducting and raping her. hmmmmmmmmm, I can see the meeting at the munch now....

"Hi, I'm Miss X, nice to meet you. I wonder if you would be free Saturday afternoon to kidnap me in public, take me to a deserted location, beat and use me hard while I scream bloody murder."

Now I know it was more than that, but I bet it boils down to that more or less. Frankly, I wouldn't want to do such a heavy scene without a very trusted friend/lover of the gal directing it. I'm wondering if there is a reason she doesn't have her own Dom... If she did, I would think he would set this up with his and her friends. Perhaps, just perhaps, she may be someone that doesn't have a relationship for a reason? Maybe she is consciously or unconsciously scaring people away with questions like this? (and don't bite my head off - I also don't have a Dom).

just a thought - one of I'm sure a thousand possibilities.

Sounds like a risk - particularly if you like having a job, a good record, respect in your community, etc. You could lose all that for some gal you don't even know well. Stil, only you can determine if it is TOO risky for you. I for one wouldn't do it.

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RE: She's asking for a real beating... - 1/2/2008 11:10:49 PM

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One thing has not been mention about this particular subject. You are NOT out of risk if you merely watched a scene such as this. A lot of places call it a crime if you stand by and allow a "crime" to happen. So if this thing went bad and you were just there you could still get seriously screwed. This sounds like a fantasy that could use a little modification if she's up to it. Maybe a home invasion or something.
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RE: She's asking for a real beating... - 1/2/2008 11:37:35 PM

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There was another thread on here a few months back, I tried to find it but could not, that a woman wanted to be abducted by someone that she did not know (her husband was to set it up) in public and not taken far to be "raped" her fantasy involved a crowd in the area. that was a bit more extreame than what you are discribing, I can think of a couple of ways your story would work with little modification, but I would not touch the other one for anything...

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RE: She's asking for a real beating... - 1/3/2008 1:35:18 AM

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There are Doms who do kidnap and rape scenes- but not that kind of violence! Kicking and punching, there's too much that could go wrong and she could end up dead or very badly/ permanently injured.
Turn and run away from this.
After this woman gets dumped- what does she do? Crawl out to be found and taken to the ER for attention and sympathy? In the age of DNA I wouldn't be shaking this womans hand. You don't know what the story would be afterwards.
While I understand kidnap and rape fun, the hard beating is really a red flag. This is not TV, and people really do die by slips, bad falls, head bangs, ect. Jaws break, spleens burst, and you should go volunteer at an ER for a while erebus. I think you'll get back in touch with some harsh realities. Like why this woman is shopping every new member for this scene and why people with a lick of sense don't do this.

Actually, if it does go down and you know about it and don't report it- you may be accessory if something goes wrong.

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RE: She's asking for a real beating... - 1/25/2008 3:39:21 PM

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Thanks for the responses. She is quite real and well known locally. Obviously she's described what she is looking for because she doesn't get enough 'volunteers' to kidnap her, beat her severely, and then rape her. I've declined though I've talked to her a few times. She is quite normal looking and one wouldn't guess, etc. etc.

I know others who know her and vouch for her.

It's still too dangerous unless one was certain one could do this without running into trouble. I think the "woman lost in the deserted cabin" might work.

I worry, too, about skating that fine line while beating her.

Obviously I've thought a lot about it, but that's it...

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RE: She's asking for a real beating... - 1/25/2008 3:41:38 PM

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Send her to Nebraska!

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RE: She's asking for a real beating... - 1/25/2008 3:59:06 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: erebus

I've met a woman through a local group. She's well known apparently and has played a long time.

Here's the situation. She is looking for (and has problems finding) Doms to abduct her in broad daylight, take her to a warehouse or other location, be beaten soundly and for a long time, and then 'raped', and then dumped out somewhere public.

No wonder she has a problem finding someone to do this! I can see many problems with a scenerio such as this. She is quite keen on doing this, and has be able to find men to throughly thrash her, beating her soundly. However, everyone is concerned about being accused of, well, everything outlined above.

I told her I'd love to watch such a scene, but I just couldn't bring myself to participate in the activities myself. Just being somewhere where a woman is screaming her head off (part of the supposed scene) while being punched, kicked, hit with fists etc is almost (and maybe) too much of a risk.

Is this even an uncommon situation? It's all consensual, blah, blah, blah, but is it too risky?

While Diane was doing pro work we did several of theses situation...I for one would be very wary of doing this again...Just think of the trouble that awaits for some unlucky soul...IF this should go wrong it could spell big time trouble....Especially dropping her beside the road and she be found by the cops ,if pressured by the authority's who knows what may come from her lips...
My last one I met this girl at the airport in Roanoke with a van,She enter I stripped her ,gaged and blindfold her,chained her down and covered her with a tarp,needless to say my one hour trip home kept me busy checking out the rear view mirrors,I just knew that I was going to be caught redhanded,I looked guilty and if stopped for any reason then the shit would have hit the fan.I kept her in the barn for the weekend,caned her and used her well.My very last adventure of this type for sure...bounty

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RE: She's asking for a real beating... - 1/25/2008 7:33:31 PM

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Ava Taurel, a very very wise Domme and Woman once told me "Just because somebody wants something done to them, doesn't mean it's a good idea."
This would fit into that catagory.

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