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What in the world do slaves want. - 8/22/2005 11:19:19 PM   
kinkyohiocpl


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Status: offline 		We have been looking for a slave for a good while now and have had very little interest. We are both dom's and both visit this site under this name.

Maby slaves just dont like us because we don't lie and are down to earth. It just seems so weird because we thought that was one of the main thing slave looked for is honesty.

We are about to get our first house and would love for nothing more than to have a slave.

Oh well I supose this is just ranting but maby some one will have some idea's.
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RE: What in the world do slaves want. - 8/23/2005 12:39:37 AM   
IronBear


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From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia
Status: offline 		G’day guys,
Just was looking at your profile. One of the problems you may encounter is that you are both very young. Whilst I don’t see age as being a problem as such, and I can only comment from my own experience and talking to both submissives and slaves (including a number of kajirae), Most appear to be looking for a Master/Mistress who is well experienced in M/s, Gor and/or BDSM. Remember slavery is a complete commitment where as for many (I think but I may be wrong) Subs tend to often be on a part time basis with their own life to lead. A slave wants, no Needs a Master/Mistress who is strong and who will take control. Unless you have the flying hours up or won your spurs, I could suggest that you may want look at a sub (even as a live in situation). If she is right for you and you for her, there is no reason that her submissiveness may turn to her begging your collar as a slave.


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RE: What in the world do slaves want. - 8/23/2005 12:52:50 AM   
kinkyohiocpl


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Status: offline 		That probably is true. Though we do not see age as a big deal eather. We know we can take full time controle of a slave but I guess it dose not matter as the slaves wont beleave it because of age.

Wate this sounds just like the hierarchy of a high school lol.

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RE: What in the world do slaves want. - 8/23/2005 1:34:45 AM   
imtempting


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Status: offline 		Maybe spelling correctly would help show your serious and educated.

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RE: What in the world do slaves want. - 8/23/2005 2:25:21 AM   
trickytrixs


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Status: offline 		.... *smiles exakaly wot duz spelin av ta do wiv it............
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RE: What in the world do slaves want. - 8/23/2005 2:48:39 AM   
Leonidas


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Status: offline 		Chocolate. Slaves want chocolate. If you're planning to alter your profile based on the advice that you get here, my best recommendation is to make sure that all of your profile pictures include a big bowl of Hershey's Kisses in the background.

Kidding aside, be realistic about who you're seeking. If you're a "down to earth" couple, seek a slave who is similarly "down to earth". This site, like most sites of its type, is overrun with men seeking sex or naughty chat. An even reasonably attractive woman who posts a profile with a picture here will get responses from these within seconds of posting it. The sad truth is that there are lonely men out there clicking the refresh button, trying to be the first one to send mail to the "hot" girl, hoping that she'll respond to them. A very attractive girl will rack up a dozen or more mails an hour. Even if she wanted to respond to you, she'll probably have trouble picking you out of the crowd.

You might have better luck participating here on the boards (with posts other than yet another "why can't I get a date" post). Many of the more serious minded (read not just looking for quick sex) people on the site do. Maybe you'll meet one of them.

Good luck.

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RE: What in the world do slaves want. - 8/23/2005 2:51:07 AM   
imtempting


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quote:

ORIGINAL: trickytrixs

.... *smiles exakaly wot duz spelin av ta do wiv it............
trix


I have no reply what so ever for that :| Also you look like an ex a bit older but you look like her.

She was my mistress. How weird....

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RE: What in the world do slaves want. - 8/23/2005 6:20:35 AM   
kinkyohiocpl


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Status: offline 		As you pointed out spelling is not a strong sute of mine (the male of the couple).

I'm sure girls get lots of emails thats one of the reasons we figured we would perticipate in the forums to show that we are actualy real if any one cared to check. Thanks for the input from every one.

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RE: What in the world do slaves want. - 8/23/2005 6:26:43 AM   
pinkpleasures


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IronBear, Sir, i have a question. i am a pleasure submissive "with slavish tendencies"; but i wanted a collar too. Is it only reserved for full-time slaves? Are submissive women not given a collar? i know it's a symbol, not a relationship; but i have been daydreaming about a collar for awhile. i just wanted to know if submissive women are given collars too?

pinkpleasures

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RE: What in the world do slaves want. - 8/23/2005 6:26:59 AM   
lonewolf05


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Status: offline 		assuming You are seeking female only? i know "I" had a real bear finding my new present Ms for the last year.
i am STILL strictly domestic. no sex. no romantic love. no involvement.
i am not much different now than i was with my 1st Ms.
i do not know and You failed to say, what You are expecting from slaves,......so i cannot say what maybe part of the problems are,..and as to honesty? i know it is difficult and far too many people are do-me's. all they want is sex fantasy, and not just the guys do it.

good luck to You.
it took me a year to find my new Ms. and actually SHE found ME. She emailed me FIRST and it took off from there.

wolfie


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RE: What in the world do slaves want. - 8/23/2005 6:28:13 AM   
IronBear


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From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia
Status: offline 		Ok guys (kinkyohiocpl) spelling isn't always my best suit either. Very large fingers and dyslexia doesn't help too. So may I sugest they you write everything in Word which has an excelent spell checker and grammar checker too. then all you have to do is do a cut and paste onto the posting box here. It wont fix everything but it will sort out most of the problems.

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RE: What in the world do slaves want. - 8/23/2005 6:36:14 AM   
IronBear


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From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia
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quote:

IronBear, Sir, i have a question. i am a pleasure submissive "with slavish tendencies"; but i wanted a collar too. Is it only reserved for full-time slaves? Are submissive women not given a collar? i know it's a symbol, not a relationship; but i have been daydreaming about a collar for awhile. i just wanted to know if submissive women are given collars too?

pinkpleasures


Hi pink. Am sitting here fresh out of the fastest bath you have ever seen and almost nakid <RWL> Well knees are wrapped...

Hmm back to your question. Any submissive can be collared by a Domminant and the meaning/restrictions etc of the collar should be set out clearly before the collering. (going to make you blush now) Pitty you aren't living in Queensland

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RE: What in the world do slaves want. - 8/23/2005 6:48:49 AM   
sultryvoice


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quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

Subs tend to often be on a part time basis with their own life to lead. A slave wants, no Needs a Master/Mistress who is strong and who will take control.



IronBear...did you really mean this as it is written and like it sounds? I thought you were more versed in all this and would not write something this nature..I do not mean to offend but this was just a shocking statement to me..

Respectfully,
sultry

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RE: What in the world do slaves want. - 8/23/2005 6:59:20 AM   
MsSonnetMarwood


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From: Eastern Shore, Maryland
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quote:

I'm sure girls get lots of emails thats one of the reasons we figured we would perticipate in the forums to show that we are actualy real if any one cared to check. Thanks for the input from every one.



Age may not mean much but maturity certainly does.

It takes a fairly high amount of maturity to make the level of commitment of being a Dominant with a live in slave, and being that live in slave.

So when you use words like "girls", it's a little off-putting to females who have matured into women.

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RE: What in the world do slaves want. - 8/23/2005 7:04:21 AM   
IronBear


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sultryvoice

quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

Subs tend to often be on a part time basis with their own life to lead. A slave wants, no Needs a Master/Mistress who is strong and who will take control.



IronBear...did you really mean this as it is written and like it sounds? I thought you were more versed in all this and would not write something this nature..I do not mean to offend but this was just a shocking statement to me..

Respectfully,
sultry


No lass I meant just what I said based on the subs I know here and on other forums/communities. Those who I have talked to, mostly have their own lives and often only see their Master once or twice a week, thus the term “part time”. I.E. They only are in their full submissiveness part of the time, the rest they are living an independent life. Experience wise, I’ve never had a sub. My ideal preference for a long-term relationship is for either a slave or a sub who wants to be trained as a slave (In both cases they would be trained as a Gorean slave ~ kajira.) However I was not deriding the subs but just showing one of the differences between the two. One other difference is that many slaves and certainly Gorean ones will have few if any hard limits but their owners are more likely to place limits themselves to protect their property.

“A slave wants, no Needs a Master/Mistress who is strong and who will take control.” Again, most slaves I know have this as a prerequisite, certainly Gorean slaves expect their Men to be strong and strict. I’m not saying that subs want less but if TPE is considered then that strength is important for, if nothing else, the girl’s safety.

If the brevity of my original post was the cause of confusion or offence, I do apologise. I often tend to write forgetting that not everyone actually knows me and my line of thinking.


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RE: What in the world do slaves want. - 8/23/2005 7:32:06 AM   
OsideGirl


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From: United States
Status: offline 		I'm a submissive collared to my Master 24/7. It may be a regional thing, but our circle of friends consists of a majority of submissives in 24/7 relationships.

To the OP:

I guess the first thing is that men outbumber women 3 to 1 in this lifestyle. So, after you've taken out the Dominant females, the number of women that are interested in couples is very small. Because of that, it's difficult to find the person to fit your relationship. It took us 3 years to find the right person for us.

Even though you're both Dominant, this is still a poly relationship and you will need to deal with the issues that a poly relationship brings up. Some of those issues are what keep submissives from poly relationships.

Good luck in your search.


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RE: What in the world do slaves want. - 8/23/2005 7:35:45 AM   
imtempting


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quote:

ORIGINAL: trickytrixs

.... *smiles exakaly wot duz spelin av ta do wiv it............
trix


Check further down the posts and people have said spelling too :P

I still think you look like an ex Mistress... I still find it hard to disagree :| Which is weird...

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RE: What in the world do slaves want. - 8/23/2005 7:45:55 AM   
JohnWarren


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ORIGINAL: imtempting

Maybe spelling correctly would help show your serious and educated.


There is a valid point to that. This is, after all, a text medium. The only thing people see of us is our typed words.

I find it amazing that people won't bother to check spelling and grammar online but wouldn't think about going out of their house in dirty clothing with hair uncombed and smelling of stale sweat.

In the face to face world, people first see you. In this world, they first see your words.



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RE: What in the world do slaves want. - 8/23/2005 7:57:47 AM   
DesertRat


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kinkyohiocpl

As you pointed out spelling is not a strong sute of mine (the male of the couple).

I'm sure girls get lots of emails thats one of the reasons we figured we would perticipate in the forums to show that we are actualy real if any one cared to check. Thanks for the input from every one.


Recognizing a weakness--like poor spelling--and working on improving it shows strength, in my opinion. Conversely, acknowledging it and taking no action suggests laziness. If I were a slave, I would not want a lazy Dom/Domme.

Bob

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RE: What in the world do slaves want. - 8/23/2005 8:04:02 AM   
Fawne


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Perhaps telling a bit more about what type of person you seek, what her duties would be, and what you have to offer as Dominants, what you would like to explore, what do you want on your pizza, favorite movies, music.. just who you are.

fawne

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