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RE: Changing Master - 1/5/2008 12:40:26 AM   
PrizedPosession


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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

He is not perfect

He has flaws

I wouldn't change him though...

I love him unconditionally, and if I would change a hair on his head, that to me is not unconditional love. I accept him, flaws and all. I love even his flaws, because in my mind his flaws are part of the rich tapestry that makes him person who he is as a complete whole. I love all of him, not just the parts that first attracted me. I am not infatuated and nor do I look upon him with rose colored glasses. I suppose having had our relationship tested makes me love him all the more, even though I now see him as the complete human being that he is...It is rather hard to live up to the illusions that others create about you, and rather tiring too I would imagine...

He told me last night what he longs for most is acceptance... and it is what I strive most to give him....





100% agree.Master and i went through the period where We both thought the other was perfect and in the end it hurt us. Now we accept each others flaws and love each other for them because they make us who we are.

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RE: Changing Master - 1/5/2008 8:23:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		there's nothing i would change about Daddy however my SO, there are a few things i would change about him.

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RE: Changing Master - 1/5/2008 9:42:13 AM   
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I often refer to my Master as deliciously flawed. I wouldn't change anything.  I think I've also said once, "I love him because of -- not in spite of."  And I do.

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RE: Changing Master - 1/5/2008 5:57:02 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

He is not perfect

He has flaws

I wouldn't change him though...

I love him unconditionally, and if I would change a hair on his head, that to me is not unconditional love. I accept him, flaws and all. I love even his flaws, because in my mind his flaws are part of the rich tapestry that makes him person who he is as a complete whole. I love all of him, not just the parts that first attracted me. I am not infatuated and nor do I look upon him with rose colored glasses. I suppose having had our relationship tested makes me love him all the more, even though I now see him as the complete human being that he is...It is rather hard to live up to the illusions that others create about you, and rather tiring too I would imagine...

He told me last night what he longs for most is acceptance... and it is what I strive most to give him....




hmm... that last sentence i pretty much said last night.  that 'why do people fall in love then want to change the person they're with?' question. 

the only things i'd change about Daddy is how often i get to see him, his health, and his finances.  he worries about his finances, so i'd change that so he could be happy.  i'd change his health so he would feel better.  and how often i get to see him because i miss him when its been a while.

other than that, i cant think of anything that i would want to change about him.

kitten, feeling awfully lucky to be loved as much as she  is

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RE: Changing Master - 1/5/2008 7:22:31 PM   
daddysblondie


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It seems to me though that the list of things he might want to change about me is a lot longer than the list of things I'd want to ever change about him.

Really though, I adore him for who he is.

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RE: Changing Master - 1/5/2008 8:11:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: littleone35
Does anyone wish they could change something about their Master?


He farts too much.

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RE: Changing Master - 1/5/2008 8:19:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yes. There's things I'd change about him. Not to many things I'd say about 5 things, only with the most important being on the top and less important lower on the list. 
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ORIGINAL: littleone35

Does anyone wish they could change something about their Master?

Matt's littleone

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RE: Changing Master - 1/5/2008 8:23:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		OMG you made me laff so hard I cried at that one .... good thing I wasnt drinking anythign at the time .. I would have lost a monitor.... lol

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RE: Changing Master - 1/5/2008 8:27:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		The only thing I would change about my beloved Owner is the 585 miles that currently keep us apart. Everything eles is just a part of a wonderful man who while isn't perfect is wonderful and loving so I'd never change him.

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RE: Changing Master - 1/5/2008 8:36:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tricia

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I often refer to my Master as deliciously flawed. I wouldn't change anything.  I think I've also said once, "I love him because of -- not in spite of."  And I do.


That is beautiful tricia, and totally true.
It is our flaws and imperfections that make us who we are.



< Message edited by Kellendra -- 1/5/2008 8:38:49 PM >

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RE: Changing Master - 1/5/2008 8:49:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: wisteriaV

Master snores! He saws enough logs to build a major condo complex most nights. I would curb the noise level to a softer snore. I rather adore his soft snoring..its comforting at times..guess being together as long as we have I have mostly gotten used to it.


Has he ever had a sleep study done? My ex snored like that and I insisted he have one. He had horrible sleep apnea and was stopping breathing 40 times an hour. The CPAP machine stopped the snoring, he gets a better night's sleep and is no longer in danger of stopping breathing indefinitely in his sleep.
 
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RE: Changing Master - 1/5/2008 9:29:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		There are things about Master that drive me nuts, but that is part of his charm. I do not think I would change anything about him, even if I could. He is special and everything about him is what makes him who he is. I know he is human and has faults just like the next guy, but I love him nonetheless. What I would like to change is the way I sometimes feel about his shortcomings!

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