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tygertoy -> A womans mind (8/23/2005 1:28:49 PM)
For the most part, I find that women tend to be more about Domination on an intellectual level, Rather than a sexual one. Why is that?

lonewolf05 -> RE: A womans mind (8/23/2005 2:00:22 PM)
why is that? i am TOLD in 9th grade science many many years ago it is due to estrogen vs testosterone. it's MY only answer. Females are emotional and males are physical. wolfie

Indigoandkarbon -> RE: A womans mind (8/23/2005 4:23:46 PM)
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saret -> RE: A womans mind (8/23/2005 4:31:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tygertoy For the most part, I find that women tend to be more about Domination on an intellectual level, Rather than a sexual one. Why is that? How is intellectual different from sexual? Sex starts in the mind. -S-

Nuke718 -> RE: A womans mind (8/23/2005 4:38:44 PM)
I knew a Domme who was upset becasue potential male subs seemed more humg up on the PHYSICAL aspects of the relationship rather than the EMOTIONAL. Is that an accurate break down of the 2 aspects? I agree with saret that Intellectual is not seperate from Sexual. Regardless of the definition, there is some truth to the stereotype that men and women view D/s differently. And of course like every stereotype there are a bunch of exceptions. For example, a RL couple I new were comprised of a Femdom and a malesub. He was the most authentic emotionally submissive sub I ever met. He cared all about service and pleasing his wife/Domme. It carried into their 'nilla life as well, were he was known as thoughtful, kind, and polite but never other than masculine. To answer why your research finds it different, I don't know it could be luck or the places you are looking. Nuke }:-

tuttalila -> RE: A womans mind (8/23/2005 4:41:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: saret How is intellectual different from sexual? Sex starts in the mind. -S- I hope it's all right if I take your words saret -- which I totally agree with BTW -- and spin them just a bit... To be in control of the body without touching the mind ... I guess it's theoretically possible. It just doesn't seem that fulfilling, at least from my point of view. Any other opinions on this? Lila

MistressGrace07 -> RE: A womans mind (8/23/2005 4:44:43 PM)
since I'm a virgin... I believe that D/s is more about sensual/emotional/intellectual... those three need to have a "unholy trinity" in any good D/s relationship... people who put sexual above all else... are automatic write offs in My mind

LadyJulieAnn -> RE: A womans mind (8/23/2005 5:12:29 PM)
It's both intellectual and sexual for me, which is why I choose to have an exclusive partner, rather than many play partners. Be well, Julie

LadyHibiscus -> RE: A womans mind (8/23/2005 6:35:07 PM)
It's true that d/s or even s/m is not sexual for me in the least, rather more about the pleasure of power.

MsWhip -> RE: A womans mind (8/24/2005 2:23:15 AM)
How many books have been written about this difference between men and women? A trillion? It's a well studied theory that women intellectualize sex more than men. I learned there is a hormone relased during sex, not orgasm - just sex, in the woman that is the same hormone that is realsed during breastfeeding. This hormone, apparetnly, fosters the bond between mother and child. Adult men don't feel it, of course, and women do, which would explain why women feel so attached to their sex partner even after just one romp.

lonewolf05 -> RE: A womans mind (8/24/2005 6:14:06 AM)
quote: To be in control of the body without touching the mind ... I guess it's theoretically possible. It just doesn't seem that fulfilling, at least from my point of view. Any other opinions on this? Lila ============= doesn't seem fulfilling? define it then please. what is fulfilling to you may not be the same as anyone else. indeed someone else may find it worthwhile. like, maybe, someone not interested in emotional and only wants the physical. your view is your right. just know there are those unlike you. and this is my opinion of it. as to examples? ME! i am NOT of the emotional. MY Mistress is married and i am NOT interested then in emotional ties........JUST physical service. i am in domestic service. no sex, no romance love...just physical service. She controls MY body and does NOT touch me mentally or emotionally. wolfie

FTopinMichigan -> RE: A womans mind (8/24/2005 6:20:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lonewolf05 why is that? i am TOLD in 9th grade science many many years ago it is due to estrogen vs testosterone. it's MY only answer. Females are emotional and males are physical. OMG, then...I must be a MAN!!!!! [:D] My pleasures are derived from the phsycial interactions with my guys. Sure there's some emotional attachment, or I wouldn't be with them. I'm purely there to enjoy! I've always said that I enjoy the S&M over D/s, with an emphasis on the physical over the mental. I'm not into TPE, except to satisfy my sadistic pleasures. What I've discovered is that most men I've had contact with are actually more into the mental aspect, over the physical. Just goes to show that generalizing doesn't work well all the time. :) K

FTopinMichigan -> RE: A womans mind (8/24/2005 6:27:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lonewolf05 ME! i am NOT of the emotional. MY Mistress is married and i am NOT interested then in emotional ties........JUST physical service. i am in domestic service. no sex, no romance love...just physical service. She controls MY body and does NOT touch me mentally or emotionally. When I read the final statement here, I could only think...."How sad!" While my own enjoyment is on the physcial pleasures, that can only happen with at least some type of connection to that person, whether it be a friend or a lover. I'd be wasting my time if I didn't care for my partner (or was attached somewhat emotionally), and it surely would be a waste of his time, if he didn't care for me. (Not talking about casual play party scenes though, as they can be fun with strangers...sometimes.) If there's absolutely no emotion...what's the point of being together? K

lonewolf05 -> RE: A womans mind (8/24/2005 6:38:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FTopinMichigan quote: ORIGINAL: lonewolf05 ME! i am NOT of the emotional. MY Mistress is married and i am NOT interested then in emotional ties........JUST physical service. i am in domestic service. no sex, no romance love...just physical service. She controls MY body and does NOT touch me mentally or emotionally. When I read the final statement here, I could only think...."How sad!" While my own enjoyment is on the physcial pleasures, that can only happen with at least some type of connection to that person, whether it be a friend or a lover. I'd be wasting my time if I didn't care for my partner (or was attached somewhat emotionally), and it surely would be a waste of his time, if he didn't care for me. (Not talking about casual play party scenes though, as they can be fun with strangers...sometimes.) If there's absolutely no emotion...what's the point of being together? K ============= If there's absolutely no emotion...what's the point of being together? it's called total 100% service. Mistress is married. She has no room for lovers. and "I" am not interested in BEING one. it is also a.... form-of....cuckolding. i am more-or-less, a eunich. i serve physically but i am not in love with Her nor will i ever be. i am a domestic service slave.........ONLY. THAT is the point. i PREFER physical service. i do not WANT to be emotionally attached. i had 3 wives. enough of THAT b.s.! i am not EVER going to be looking for a love-interest again. thank You wolfie

FTopinMichigan -> RE: A womans mind (8/24/2005 7:17:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lonewolf05 it's called total 100% service. Mistress is married. She has no room for lovers. and "I" am not interested in BEING one. it is also a.... form-of....cuckolding. i am more-or-less, a eunich. i serve physically but i am not in love with Her nor will i ever be. i am a domestic service slave.........ONLY. THAT is the point. i PREFER physical service. i do not WANT to be emotionally attached. i had 3 wives. enough of THAT b.s.! i am not EVER going to be looking for a love-interest again. wolfie, don't you get pleasure from serving her? Do you get feelings of satisfaction, and happiness, from serving her? Do you look forward to seeing her, and doing what she requires of you? Don't you care for her? Does she care for you? (She must, if she continues to enjoy your service) Perhaps I look at things differently than you do. :) As I see it...being emotionally attached to someone, or sharing an emotional connection, doesn't mean that you have to be "in love" with them. K

fastlane -> RE: A womans mind (8/24/2005 7:21:09 AM)
Shiat, all women like to fuck with your head....FemmeDomme or Pure Vanilla. A Mind Fuck first.....then the kiss me, fuck me, make me feel cheap[8D]

MsKyln -> RE: A womans mind (8/24/2005 7:56:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fastlane Shiat, all women like to fuck with your head....FemmeDomme or Pure Vanilla. A Mind Fuck first.....then the kiss me, fuck me, make me feel cheap[8D] LOL fast lane ... I must disagree ... WOMEN ... "FemDomme or Pure Vanilla" need a REASON ie... intellectual and emotional connections . MEN, rather Dom or Pure vanilla, only need a Place and an orifice .[8D] Thats my opinion, and I'm sticking to it MsK

lonewolf05 -> RE: A womans mind (8/24/2005 8:13:26 AM)
wolfie, don't you get pleasure from serving her? *******yes. i never said or implied i did not. or i would not be here. Do you get feelings of satisfaction, and happiness, from serving Her? ****yes of course. Do you look forward to seeing Her, and doing what She requires of you? ******yes of course. Don't you care for Her? **define, care for. i worry about Her health and welfare, but i am NOT Her husband so "I" am NOT responsible to/for Her. Does She care for you? (She must, if she continues to enjoy your service) ***to a point. i am sure. but She DOES have a husband and HE is Her MAJOR concern and MAJOR part of Her life. Perhaps I look at things differently than you do. :) *****probably so. this is the s/m side of d/s...cuckolding. i am sexually celebate, as in i have not had intercourse since 2001. and i am promised i will get a prince albert and a guiche piercing soon,...which i crave for. i enjoy more of the being denied than i do being allowed. As I see it...being emotionally attached to someone, or sharing an emotional connection, doesn't mean that you have to be "in love" with them. *****no i am NOT in-love with Her, nor do i WANT to be. i care about Her as my Mistress...of course. She IS human. She is my entire world. i use l u v vs love...as my attachment...it is non romantic. it is servitude. and as i said, there is/are no DEEP attachments. merely surface attachments.<------------------------------ if i was told to leave today, i would be a bit miffed but i would not be all torn up over it. i just move on down the road to the next Mistress until i find one SINGLE that WANTS me AS a male love interest. THEN we discuss THAT but "I" never heard of a SINGLE one YET. ALL dommes "I" ever found ALL have someone already. and i myself am not in-the-mood presently to worry about it. i do not care if i EVER have another love-interest. i do NOT want to lose a love AND a domme in one move. one or the other but NOT both!!!!!!!!!!!! take care m'Lady. wolfie

lonewolf05 -> RE: A womans mind (8/24/2005 8:19:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fastlane Shiat, all women like to fuck with your head....FemmeDomme or Pure Vanilla. A Mind Fuck first.....then the kiss me, fuck me, make me feel cheap[8D] ================================================= maybe for a stereotype? but i know a few females that are as logical and level headed as we men...... wolfie

LadyHibiscus -> RE: A womans mind (8/24/2005 8:41:06 AM)
OH gosh thanks, Wolfie! :)

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