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IronBear -> RE: Question (8/24/2005 7:53:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bulletproof isn't money changing hands illegal? by what loopholes are people able to do that? SAY WHAT!!!!!? You mean thast when we purchase food, fuel and evry thing we need and have to pay money for is ILLEGAL???????? Ahhh I see you mean pay money for sex! You really had me going for a whole RWL

kc692 -> RE: Question (8/24/2005 8:09:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pinkpleasures quote: RE: When did this lifestyle become a meat market or an ... - 8/23/2005 3:34:32 PM quote: Any desire (short of legal boundaries) that is expressed in a profile here should not diminish anyone's value, dignity or worth. If it does not match Y/yours, don't contact the person described. E/everyone is entitled to be treated with respect and dignity, unless they do something outside the pale..and then the Mods can handle it. pinkpleasures quote: Sound familiar??????? kc692 Was there a point you sought to make, kc692? i did not follow your thinking. pinkpleasures quote: i am told by members that another BDSM site is now overrun with prostitues. Gawd, not here, i hope. pinkpleasures My thinking was you should treat everyone with respect and dignity,as you suggested on another thread, instead of saying you hope they didn't overrun the site. I toally agree with your earlier post, EVERYONE, (and that includes both of us) deserve to be treated with respect and dignity. It was a simple comment, and I stand by it. This is not directed at you, but, often times, you see a poster say something in one thread, only to say something totally conflicting with an earlier statement they made on another thread. This is not a flame, only an observation in my opinion, and I will drop it, as I do not wish to hijack the OP's thread.....

pinkpleasures -> RE: Question (8/25/2005 8:08:33 AM)
quote: My thinking was you should treat everyone with respect and dignity,as you suggested on another thread, instead of saying you hope they didn't overrun the site. I toally agree with your earlier post, EVERYONE, (and that includes both of us) deserve to be treated with respect and dignity. It was a simple comment, and I stand by it. This is not directed at you, but, often times, you see a poster say something in one thread, only to say something totally conflicting with an earlier statement they made on another thread. This is not a flame, only an observation in my opinion, and I will drop it, as I do not wish to hijack the OP's thread..... kc692 i agree that women and men who are engaging in prostitution (anywhere) are deserving of the respect and dignity due all people. i am always dismayed when a prostitute is arrested but her john is let go..to me that's a double standard. collarme.com prohibits speaking about/promoting illegal activites on the message baords or in profiles. Prostitution is illegal in all 50 states insofar as i know. i have no more information about prostitutes than anyone else, but i would like to see my city offering services such as drug rehhab and skills training to woman and men arrested/convicted of prostiution. However, my city tetters on the brink of bankruptcy, so new programs have virtually no chance of being approved and funded. Does this answer your question? pinkpleasures

LadyAngelika -> RE: Question (8/25/2005 8:13:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OscarHargraves I haven't seen any of that yet here........... but then I'm a 'Newbee' here so.......... I have seen very few, and I've been here for a while. - LA

Mercnbeth -> RE: Question (8/25/2005 8:40:37 AM)
quote: Prostitution is illegal in all 50 states insofar as i know. perhaps you forgot the great state of Nevada? quote: NRS 201.354 Engaging in prostitution or solicitation for prostitution : Penalty ; exception. 1. It is unlawful for any person to engage in prostitution or solicitation therefor, except in a licensed house of prostitution. 2. Any person who violates subsection 1 is guilty of a misdemeanor. (Added to NRS by 1987, 2027; A 1991, 462)...http://www.sex-in-nevada.com/Bashful/THE_LAW/NRS_201_354.html

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Question (8/25/2005 8:48:06 AM)
There are definitely prostitutes/call girls around. In fact there are a lot more out there than most people think. If you check out craigslist, or the erotic review, or other sites, there's an entire "middle class" of independent sex providers in the world today, people who live and work normal lives but do escorting for extra money.

LadyNyneve -> RE: Question (8/25/2005 11:17:54 AM)
quote: i have no more information about prostitutes tahn anyone else, but i would like to see my city offering services such as drug rehhaband skills training to woman and men arrested/convicted of prostiution. Well, I do have some information about "sex trade workers" and I can assure you that not all of them need anyone to offer them drug rehabilitation nor do they need skills training. You are assuming that people who work in the sex industry are victims and need to be saved from themselves. You are also presuming that professional dominatixes prey on weak, depraved clients. Let me assure you, nothing could be further from the truth. There are clients who do not prefer to live the lifestyle 24/7, who do not wish to disclose their particular kink to their partner, but who require unique services provided in a safe environment. Maybe the city could turn its attention to the legalization of services that are consensual and non-threatening, services which generate a good cash flow which in turn could enrich city coffers.

pinkpleasures -> RE: Question (8/25/2005 3:05:01 PM)
quote: Maybe the city could turn its attention to the legalization of services that are consensual and non-threatening, services which generate a good cash flow which in turn could enrich city coffers. LadyNyneve This is all i'm saying on the subject; as i said, collarme TOS prohibit discussion of illegal activites. pinkpleasures

sultryvoice -> RE: Question (8/25/2005 3:47:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyNyneve Well, I do have some information about "sex trade workers" and I can assure you that not all of them need anyone to offer them drug rehabilitation nor do they need skills training. You are assuming that people who work in the sex industry are victims and need to be saved from themselves. You are also presuming that professional dominatixes prey on weak, depraved clients. Let me assure you, nothing could be further from the truth. There are clients who do not prefer to live the lifestyle 24/7, who do not wish to disclose their particular kink to their partner, but who require unique services provided in a safe environment. Maybe the city could turn its attention to the legalization of services that are consensual and non-threatening, services which generate a good cash flow which in turn could enrich city coffers. I agree here since I do ProDomme work occasionally now..I used to do it more often but I just didn't want to do much with it anymore..I now just help out with a friend who makes her living as a ProDomme..I see no problem being paid for services rendered.. Respectfully, sultry

Tempestspet -> RE: Question (8/25/2005 3:55:43 PM)
I'll chime with the group that would like to see prostitution legalised. (Disclaimer.... you and your used in this post are meant in a general way, and in no way am I pointing or insinuating that it's being used to describe one person or the next.) I don't see a big deal about it. If a couple is married and one partner sneaks off to a prostitute, unless you are the other partner.... it's not your business anyways. So stay out of it. If it's a single guy, girl... looking for a good time... easy sex, whatever... as long as they are an adult... and it's not you..... mind your own business and stay out of it. I look at it this way, a guy can take a girl out, buy her dinner...drinks.. all with the hope of having sex later, or he can simply spend around the same amount of money, and go get what he wanted. Sex. When said guy is ready for a relationship, he'll find one. Same goes for women. Personally, I'd go with my husband to a Bordello. I think it would be neat first off.... laughs. We lived in Germany for awhile, where prostitution is legal. It's regulated (yes, no matter what it is...people will find a way around it) and safer I would think than the alternative (that being unregulated). I guess after all that, I believe that my morals, my choices....are just that. Mine. (Well in my case...lol.. they are Master's but...ya'know) It isn't for someone to come sticking their nose into my relationship, and my business...again, so long as that person is an adult. I don't go sticking my nose into anyone elses..... your kink, and your business are yours. It may not be my kind of kink or whatever...but hey..... it doesn't matter cause it isn't me doing it, or being made to do it. I just wish more people would take that stance on things instead of saying you can do what you want...but if it isn't what I like,..... well you should stop it, or listen to me rant and gripe about how it's disgusting, and wrong....etc. Ok, awfully PMS'y today...sorry I do look forward though to discussion....thank you Sincerely, Tempest's pet jennifer

Ojedieu -> RE: Question (8/25/2005 7:50:08 PM)
There's a book that has a well thought out (even if it's not wonderfully written) argument about consensual "crimes" and why they need to be done away with. It's a long, but good read (and you can skip around thru the chapters if you want). It's called "Ain't Nobody's Business If You Do" Very enlightening and very well thought out.

Tempestspet -> RE: Question (8/26/2005 2:31:47 PM)
Thank you Ojedieu. I'll take a look around for it... smiles...prob now, as I am alomst done with my current book. Tempest's pet jennifer

StarAndRock -> RE: Question (8/26/2005 5:10:11 PM)
I haven't seen it here in the couple weeks I've been browsing around but it doesn't surprise me to hear it's out there. Personally, I wouldn't ask for a money tribute and I certainly wouldn't give one - but that's just me. What anyone else is willing to do, well, that's just them.

Delvin -> RE: Question (8/26/2005 5:25:09 PM)
YKIOK !! Your kink is okay :) a great statement blurted out some time ago, "Let he who has not sinned throw the first stone",. my catholic days are a bit rusty, but it works. We find ourselves judging others, even when we try not to be that way. Its part of the human selection to find like-minded people. We hurt with rummors, we gossip, we do alot of mean things to one another, and most of the time, never intentionally. Perhaps the best way to stay out of the "nillia" label is to not be like everyone else :) kinda like what we all love to do anyway. D

pinkpleasures -> RE: Question (8/27/2005 10:07:02 AM)
quote: There's a book that has a well thought out (even if it's not wonderfully written) argument about consensual "crimes" and why they need to be done away with. It's a long, but good read (and you can skip around thru the chapters if you want). It's called "Ain't Nobody's Business If You Do" Very enlightening and very well thought out. Ojedieu That is the "asserted" premise of the Republican party; the smallest possible government, handling purely governmental problems, such as national defense. Unfortunately, the party is overly-influenced by the religious right who wish to regulate everything..and so some strange things are proposed by Republicans. Makes me a bit p***ed off. pinkpleasures.

ehlovindom -> RE: Question (8/28/2005 6:21:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Thepanther Does anyone else see a large number of profiles from domme, and sub, females asking for sums of money for a BDSM relationship or encounter? Does that seem to be more asking for a "sugar daddy", or offering an escort like service, more then anything else? Or is it an acceptable practice? Interesting how there are few if any profiles from MALE Doms or even male subs offering their "services" for money. Simply put, even in the lifestyle, women, even submissives can control Men's wallets!

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