ravenna
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TearCollector, you ask such a serious and important question, and i think it's much more universal than it might seem. You are an unusual man with uncommon desires in an out of the way corner of the world, seeking what seems to be an unusual type of woman; so exactly how unusual is she, and if she does exist, where and how might you find her and capture her devotion and submission. But don't we all confront the same question, to some extent? We're all unique, to a greater or lesser degree, we all of us here are seeking (or have found, thank God) something unusual, out of the mainstream of society, or we wouldn't be here, and surely everyone, in BDSM or not, has felt himself or herself at times as isolated as if on an island with an immense gulf of ocean between yourself and the person right across the table from you. And you have the ability to travel the world, so you may be much less isolated than many of us. All i mean to suggest is that though you may be a unusual man, your situation is perhaps not as unusual as it may seem. And i think many submissive women might actually be more drawn to sharing your place in the world than to, say, a townhouse in suburbia or an apartment in an urban highrise. Your location certainly complicates the sort of hit-and-run speed-dating that many people seem to like to do, but that doesn't seem to be what you want anyway. Who and what you are and what you want and the way and place you have chosen to live your life will surely be overpoweringly attractive to the right woman. And where to find her? Ah, you've stumped me there! You're probably looking in some of the right places already. But i bet she'll turn up in the least likely place; just a woman's intuition.
And are there really "no-limits" slaves? i'll just second sub suzanne, that there certainly are, but i'm not sure that's always the best term for us. My master and i think of me loosely as a "no-limits" slave because i have no safewords, i never say no to him (unless the question is something like Are we out of champagne, slave?), and i never refuse any command or request that's within my power to obey, either from him or those in whose hands he places me, but in fact i have many limits. For example, i would simply freeze solid if ordered to commit suicide or become addicted to drugs or do irreparable harm to his property, such as my body, or to kill or maim another or to abuse a child or an animal, just to take it to the most violent extremes. But sexually and socially, my limits are far more extreme than my owner's, he takes much better care of my body and heart and soul than i ever could. So in practice for me "no limits" simply means that my limits are HIS limits, my personal limits are irrelevant because of who he is, i trust him with my life and he knows my few limitations are very unlikely to actually impede his use of me. i think many subs and slaves would be much more comfortable with that definition of "no limits" than with saying they truly have no limits whatsoever.
Thanks for wading patiently through this long post, sir, if you did. ;-) i wish you all the best in your search, and i'm sure some lucky slave is also searching for you right now, without even realizing it...
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