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bindable -> Chastity (1/4/2008 2:44:16 PM)
I have been wearing "The curve" since 7pm yesterday (21 hours now). How long will i last? Yes, this would be more fun if i had a keyholder, but thats a discussion for another thread! edit for my poor spelling :(

RedMagic1 -> RE: Chastity (1/4/2008 3:30:57 PM)
Have fun.... but take this seriously, dude. I just had a long conversation with a woman who has an active "seeking sub men" profile here. We were talking about our respective searches. She told me about a man who approached her. He hadn't masturbated for 15 years, though he had had nocturnal emissions. ("My body betrayed me," was how he phrased it.) She told him she wasn't interested, because he was no longer in touch with how to be pleasurable. A sub male recently posted on these boards how damaged he was, and how much work it was for him and his current Mistress to put him back together, because he had been conditioned that he could only come when he received a former Mistress's permission -- and he hadn't been in a relationship with her for many years. Chastity control is edge play. A lot of people don't realize this.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Chastity (1/4/2008 3:48:46 PM)
Remember that you are going to change how you react to things as well. Both my boys are chaste by choice, and neither cum without me around. Fox never goes log, Angel can go for weeks at a time. Problem is, the longer it goes without playtime, the more problematic it becomes to enjoy play when we do get there. Enjoy and at the beginning, dont ignore your body. If you suddenly NEED to release, youmight want to think about it. You do need release, though not nearly as often as most people take it. DV

SubmissiveAK -> RE: Chastity (1/4/2008 3:52:55 PM)
As long as you tell yourself to? Honestly, I've been pondering purchasing a CB but... without someone to control it... is it really as fun? Its like this ball gag im wearing right now. Its not locked, nobody is commanding me to wear it... its nowhere near as fun for me. :( ~submissiveAK~

bindable -> RE: Chastity (1/4/2008 4:33:29 PM)
Don't worry, I'm very aware that i will eventually have to take it off. I sincerely doubt that i will still be wearing it come Monday assuming i that my willpower doesn't fail me tonight alone. The concern and warnings are appreciated though.

Prinsexx -> RE: Chastity (1/4/2008 4:41:22 PM)
Chastity.....this is obviously not my kinda thread......

stripmymanhood -> RE: Chastity (1/4/2008 6:07:57 PM)
for me...chastity for chastity's sake leaves me cold...if you had a keyholder who wanted you chaste....that is what would make it worthwhile for me.

slavekal -> RE: Chastity (1/4/2008 8:06:45 PM)
How did you sleep?

bindable -> RE: Chastity (1/4/2008 8:47:57 PM)
I slept well except for waking up at about 5am with some obvious discomfert. Not a huige issue for me as i am supposed to wake up relativly early. It was far more interesting going to work while wearing it. My slacks couldnt quite hide it so i was sure someone was going to notice it.

Griswold -> RE: Chastity (1/5/2008 9:33:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bindable I have been wearing "The curve" since 7pm yesterday (21 hours now). How long will i last? Yes, this would be more fun if i had a keyholder, but thats a discussion for another thread! edit for my poor spelling :( 4 days, 11 hours, 26 minutes. (Unless of course, you have a flight to catch, then significantly less).

cbtok -> RE: Chastity (1/5/2008 10:50:57 AM)
quote: Unless of course, you have a flight to catch, then significantly less. Actually there are ways to secure the male plastic chastity cages with a serial-numbered plastic lock that, when tampered with will be obvious. And the TSA officials are most uninterested in the inspection of genitalia. I note this as a person who always sets off the alarms due to metal within my body. The folks who make and/or market the plastic units sell all of them with these plastic locks. I have always been of the opinion that this kind of play should be accompanied with relentless teasing.

Xmen1 -> RE: Chastity (1/5/2008 5:34:26 PM)
My Husband wore CB6000 for a couple of weeks. He was much more attentive to my needs. By the way, You could also use cable ties with a plastic CB if you needed to catch a flight.

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