breezie126
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this internet as a medium Odd as it might seem i believe many souls get accustomed to all the flattery, the new interesting faces, the enticement of this net. a false imagery of you would like life to be... a commercial designed to captivate your intrest will make somone rich... just not you.Yet many probably do meet up, and hopefully create a future together, do they then opt out away from such an influence?Or.. does all the attention, flattery, and intrest, become a part of their lives to a point they cannot refrain from it. Thus it offers one or both of them an easy out... somone new to take thier place? readily availiable, making it all the more enticing to spread wings and fly.If this internet becomes such a steadfast need in somones life to feel more special than they can be in real life, i think many will be sewn up into a digital imaginery future, never fully warming the heart the way love is supposed to be. there will always be an outside influence or force captivating the intrest of somone in the relationship.also if a person is content and happy alone at home as long as they have this net, it will become easier to (play) here rather than step out into the real world and hug real people thus never again experiance a real living relationship. when this net becomes somones norm, they are hooked! it fills a need , albiet attention, a mode to find a mate, a way to pass time, it still becomes a need as it becomes a norm.the lure of getting to know somone might take weeks or months via this net, to really know the real person, yet.. if i walk into any real public place, i know right now what they look like, sound like, what their eyes reveal, and body language, ... what would tie up weeks online to know... all in a single moment.statistic wise... if 2 people meet in this net and if it takes longer than 2 weeks to meet in person, statistically ..they will never meet... thus a huge waste of time.also.. what if.... many people are more attracted to the chase, the imaginery excitement... than an actual relationship? somone gets hurt is my guess. having sooo many faces to choose from so readily availiable, but only in the net. not so in real life. now if a person has 50 friends online, and they can now only (offer) to you 1/50 th of thier time, all good if it is only friendship in passing, perhaps not too good if somones feelings get attatched. they must know there are and will be (others) in that persons life in some way, thus removing any exclusive attention to you. (even if you live with that person)would you pay an employee full pay if they only gave you 1/50 th of the work day? and would you buy a company if it had a 98% chance of failure?not I. if somone has a mate and things are good, then any time spent on this net would be better spent (the same amount of time) putting effort into that relationship. be it clean the house , prepare a special somone an un -expected meal, wash their car windows... all of which would support the present relationship rather than remove your time away from what matters most... the heart/s you have right there at home. remember the time you spend online IS time removed from special somone you love.If there are problems in a relationship, then so be it, there will be heartache no matter, yet... if you do find a new relationship, i suggest you openly make a decision, do we keep the internet or not, at the possible cost of a great loving forever relationship.ridding of the price of the internet service and huge cost of loosing such a rare love... i'd choose dropping the net and keeping what is real. real life touches you in human form, is there by your side, is talking to you in real time sharing real sex. not imaginery wishfull thinking.look at how much you could accomplish in real life utilizing the exact same amount of time you spend on this net !think about it, those of you who have a special somone at home right now would absolutly be pleased to come home to a spotless house, a great well planned meal, a warm and loving mate and no outside persons trying to get in your pants on a daily basis all over little more than your picture.look at the relationships this net has more than likely ruined... many! and all because it afforded what many probably thought was an easy out, or a better replacement. ill tell you, there are always going to be better looking, better sounding, or better (acting) people in this net than whoever has captivated your interest today. why else would you be looking at 3 right now rather than learning just one soul?thus, you are more than likely going to be somone elses history soon, as they also spend time and effort getting to know somone else who also is learning somone else who is also learning somone else.do you want that in any relationship? in the REAL LIFE .. a look, a gesture, a touch, a verbal tone is also communication. sex is real. how do you know this person doesnt explode in rage if somone passes his car ..unless you ride with them in the real?why waste all that time for somone who might have thier best picture in life posted, a buddy in the background laughing at you being taken in, or even a psyco who stole somone elses pictures rehearsing how to manipulate others?only some of the things i been thinking of, in my decision .... do i really want to be a part of this imagination lifestyle so many are adapting their whole lives around....no, that’s why I state in my profile I am just looking for friends....
< Message edited by breezie126 -- 1/5/2008 1:22:19 PM >
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