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theonly1 -> introduction (8/23/2005 8:38:03 PM)
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Hello all,
I am a submissive woman .. just understood it three years ago and have NO problems with who i am.
Sadly, my husband of more than 20 years will not be my Dom any longer.
He tried..and did very well.. but then got tired of it or whatever..( he cannot explain why) and so there is no D/s in our lives. I cannot sit on the pillow next to him, I cannot sleep with my collar on.. so on and so on... He made this choice about three months ago.
When he was good .. he was very ,very good. He is ADD and is on meds and seeing a kink friendly doc..and keeps his appointments... but I doubt that he will ever go back to the wonderful Dom that he was.
there is not a chance that we would divorce.. we have been married for so long.. I do still love him .. as hard as that may be to understand.
No BDSM is not a reason for divorce/// IMHO
SO i am looking to hear from other people in the same place.. as we are.
There are no easy answers..if there were, I would have found them!
Be well
Lea
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