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RE: How did it happen? - 2/13/2008 4:22:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: Maya2001

Offering him advice is likely a waste of time since he no longer has a profile

Oh, bloody hell. Now you tell me. *snorts in a DISgruntled fashion*

Well, the small passages about some of my experiences are still true, and hold a bit of encouragement for anyone else who may at times feel weary of searching. So take it as you will, y'all.

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RE: How did it happen? - 2/13/2008 7:20:51 PM

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Since Master is currently in Houston and his computer time is limited, I can tell you how we met. we both had profiles on another alterantive web site, but oddly enough never came up for each other due to the age restrictions we had listed

I am 15 years older than he. We both however belonged to another type of Social Organization and I came down with my then husband to a gathering at Master's house. 42 oz's soda on the trip and a 1.5 hour drive, I was ready for a bathroom as soon as we arrived. I was introduced to him by the person who had invited us..said "Hi..I'm (_) where's your Bathroom?" He said "Welcome and you'll have to use the one in the Master bedroom as the guest bath is occupied, follow me." I did..he left me there, and as I exited and walked down the hall I spotted the Playroom.. "Nice St. Andrews!" "Thank you I built it, would you like to see the rest?" 'Sure"

We spent the rest of the evening pretty much monopolizing each others time (free form function). My husband said if you want she can stay "She's Free White and Over 21, her choice" We both declined, but he come up to visit for that Memorial day and we have been together ever since. That was 4 years ago and we have been married for 2 of them going on 3rd anniversary.

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RE: How did it happen? - 2/13/2008 8:40:00 PM

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Sir and I met on Alt. I was actually the one that initiated our correspondence. When I see something good I go for it... and dayum.... is He good!

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RE: How did it happen? - 2/13/2008 9:58:26 PM

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Man, tough question. You asked about how I met my "other" my slave my poen. Well we met through the Camarilla an organizaton that has people pretending to be vampires on the weekends which amazngly has a lot of kinky people in it. Now like most my poen was not my first BDSM partner or relationship. Counting only those I have physically tied up and experienced in the real world the following source spawned them:

Camarillia: 3

Chat Rooms: 3

Alt: 2

Aquaintance: 1

Yahoo Profiles: 1

Munches: 0 (Way too much politics)

Collar Me: 0

Now I was wedded to the slave I love about the time I joined CollarMe and I have not been actvely searching or seducing slave/subbies, so don't let the goose egg discourage you. These days I am just looking more for friends and conversation. If the unlikely perfect match for my household (me and poen) falls into my lap I will not turn down a poly relationship, but that is highly unlikely. But let me tell you it took a lot of work, a lot of energy, a lot of resources and a lot of purple prose for each of those experiences to come to reality. I am pretty sure the pursuit cost me over $20,000 over the years just to go through the process. If you are not willing to devote 5 hours a night to study and practice of the craft or you are not willing to put the necessary resources into meet the people in person then your chances of success dwindle. Each prospect takes up time and effort to court and seduce often with only one or two at a time to do it right. BDSM in the flesh is still person to person (though the Second Life Goreans are starting to get scary) and you can make a much bigger impact face to face. All that being said my slave poenkitten unexpectedly showed up at my door with no expense or effort of online seduction at all, and my 8' St Andrews cross built to hold an elephant broke the ice and spoke to her inner wants and desires. The unexpected does happen but you can find partners online it just takes work, money and dedication to the pursuit of this kind of happiness.

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RE: How did it happen? - 2/13/2008 10:32:45 PM

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I met Sir here on CM November 2005 when I added him to my admirers, he responded 2 days later chastizing me for not emailing him. My first thought was, the arrogant bastard.

We met a few times then stopped talking for another 6 months till we reconnected in September 2006. We got to know one another as friends this time and it just took off from there. In 4 months I will be moving to SC to be with him once the Um is finshed with school. YAY no more every two to three week visits!

Getting to know Sir as a friend has allowed us to learn more about each other and how much we truly have in common. The only thing that will be 24/7 about us will be us cohabitating but that can change. We both enjoy the vanilla things in life along wth the power exchange in and out of the bedroom.

I have met some really nice people on CM and on bondage but my search ended here.

Off to eat one maybe two pieces of Godiva chocolates Sir sent me for Valentine's day...

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RE: How did it happen? - 2/14/2008 7:30:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: darkpassenger434

How did you meet your other?

I've shared a few times, but I'll share again. I went to high school with her. We were pretty good friends back then (never dated. Damn), and finally got back in touch with each other over the summer. We were just chitchatting online and putting off meeting for lunch, when I made a little innocuous comment. She said she was going to take a shower and I told her to leave on her webcam, and it really confused her to no end. Apparently I'd never said anything sexual to her before.

So we started talking about more...err..."adult" pursuits and realized we had some compatible interests, and the rest is history. Since we previously knew each other and got along well, we could jump into things and transition much more quickly than other people who just met.

The word for this is "serendipity".

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RE: How did it happen? - 2/14/2008 6:05:31 PM

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MasterK and I met online. I had posted a question to Paddle's yahoo group, and he responded. Later in the
year (2005) I visited NYC for an unrelated reason, and met him in person at that time. We just hit it off. Now almost 3 years later, I don't want to imagine life without him.

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RE: How did it happen? - 2/15/2008 12:24:12 PM

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I've made several r/l friends on CM, but never any lovers. I've met one lifestyle g/f at an MS walk as in Multiple Sclerosis. Notice the MS? lol. I've met other lifestyle g/f in college, and another on a vanilla dating website. I think all of my g/fs were in varying ways submissive especially in the bedroom. I think that if things click in the vanilla world, they usually click in the bedroom and lifestyle.

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RE: How did it happen? - 2/17/2008 12:19:27 AM

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She was my boss. I walked into her office, and I knew I was going to fuck her.

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RE: How did it happen? - 2/17/2008 12:41:25 PM

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Beloved Master we were wed a year before..our 2nd anniversary was only a few days after your joined.

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RE: How did it happen? - 2/17/2008 6:58:30 PM

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Master and I met here through cm. We both had been though the ringer with meeting people. We gave each other a chance and the rest is history.

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RE: How did it happen? - 2/17/2008 8:03:45 PM

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Answered a craiglist ad thru the hundreds of responses she answered mine. Met exclusively women the last ten years thru online ads. I also play at the various BDSM venues in my area so I fortuately have a wealth of playthings to show my sadist and enlighting nature to.

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