Imajican
Posts: 39
Joined: 8/6/2007 From: Lincoln, Nebraska Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: LadyKarin Who could use a male slave for sex!? This must be something in a man's mind. A male slave will always be held cuckold, in chastity, and perhaps milked, but always strictly being anxious, that he does not enjoy that. A male slave would immediately forget who he is and loose submissivity. Should he have an orgasm by accident, the Mistress should have locked him in chains for the next at least 24h with no means of any communication whatsoever. Lady Karin Oh how I read this and hoped, *hoped* that you were being facetious. Please tell me you are, please? If not, well, I don't think I read this in the Domme manual somebody tried to get me to read, once. That and I must've gotten a different release of the female dominant's SOP. Oops. No joy in Mudville, it'd seem, and what's the point of that? The thing is, my boy is sexualized and used and sexualized some more and, when he has an accident, I punish him as I see fit (though never by ignoring him as I find that to be a lazy way to punish anyone, especially when they're disappointed enough that I'm disappointed) then tell him I love him and move forward. He's in chastity as a symbol of my owning his cock and any pleasure it should give him, not because his cock isn't fun to play with when and how I wish to. I want him to want things and beg for things and thrill when I say that yes, he may have those things. He's good enough, smart enough, and gosh darnit I'm going to use him for all he's worth. Doing so has emphasized just how submissive he is to me. I haven't had to beat him down, rob him of status as an individual, or tell him that he's unattractive or undesirable or anything of the sort. He isn't a submissive, *my* submissive, because I go about stuffing him into some box to get him to be, but rather by handling hiim as I do. He reacts to me just as I react to his reaction. It's a lovely mode for a relationship, if you ask me. At least that's how things work on my side of the fence. Your side of the fence (enclosing the grass in whatever shade of green you prefer) may vary.
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