I need help. (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Master



Message

DecemberRayne -> I need help. (1/6/2008 6:57:01 PM)

Okay, I had a girl e-mail me on CM this morning and she kept sending chat requests, so I responded to one of her e-mails and told her I was interested in a poly household, and she kept bugging me and bugging me by sending e-mails to try to get me to like them.. I do not, I have found out that 70 percent of women are Backstabbers, and women do not turn me on at all, Well, I have blocked her and she made a new name and she is still Harrassing me .. what should I do? I'mma feel like an idiot for posting this.

But.. She also wanted me to give her my phone number and i wouldn't I do not under any circumstances give out my number online for various reasons and im pretty sure most of you wouldnt.

--- December



TNDomDiscipline -> RE: I need help. (1/6/2008 7:00:47 PM)

Be bluntly honest... Maybe encourage her to purchase a copy of "I'm Just Not That Into You!"...



SirMIkeSD -> RE: I need help. (1/6/2008 7:07:03 PM)

Just ignore the requests/email/etc and sooner or later she (it could be a guy, you don't know) will go away.

Mike



DecemberRayne -> RE: I need help. (1/6/2008 7:13:45 PM)

I sure hope whatever this thing is go's away, The person is really buggin me. LOL!



takenbyjohnr07 -> RE: I need help. (1/6/2008 7:33:51 PM)

When i met my Owner i still had my original profile up that i was available. i responded to one man very nicely telling him that i had met someone ans was not available. He thanked me very politely and went away. The next day he contacted me asking me are you still with him? Politely i said yes, thinking that this was the end of it. well, every day for about two weeks, every day he would ask the same question. it was very annoying. So, both my Owner and i changed our profiles and that was the end of that. i hope yours goes away that easily.



DecemberRayne -> RE: I need help. (1/6/2008 7:44:19 PM)

I also hope she goes away easily, She hasnt emailed me for about an hour or so, so we'll see. lol



domiguy -> RE: I need help. (1/6/2008 7:44:35 PM)

You are facing a dilemma that will ultimately lead to your death. You are doomed. They don't know where you live or have your phone number...God you are so screwed. There is no way that you can possible ignore them. What if they keep making more and more fake profiles and continue to contact you? You will be forced at some point to respond, you really have no other choice!...God I would hate to find myself in your shoes right now!!!

It is obviously time to contact those that are closest to you and for you to tell them how much you care and love them. Clean up your house. Dispose of any incriminating dildos, porn, vibrators etc. Don't want your relatives after they have endured the pain of identifying your body to have to find out what a kinkster their little girl was.

It's to late for you but hopefully others will learn a lesson in your passing. No one can help you now.

If it's of any solace, you might be missed.



domiguy -> RE: I need help. (1/6/2008 7:46:10 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DecemberRayne

I also hope she goes away easily, She hasnt emailed me for about an hour or so, so we'll see. lol



By posting on an open forum is always a great way to discourage someone who's only goal at this point is to probably only bother you....You will be missed...Maybe.



LoveAndDS -> RE: I need help. (1/6/2008 7:56:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DecemberRayne

Okay, I had a girl e-mail me on CM this morning and she kept sending chat requests, so I responded to one of her e-mails and told her I was interested in a poly household, and she kept bugging me and bugging me by sending e-mails to try to get me to like them.. I do not, I have found out that 70 percent of women are Backstabbers, and women do not turn me on at all, Well, I have blocked her and she made a new name and she is still Harrassing me .. what should I do? I'mma feel like an idiot for posting this.

But.. She also wanted me to give her my phone number and i wouldn't I do not under any circumstances give out my number online for various reasons and im pretty sure most of you wouldnt.

--- December



That sounds like a guy posing as a girl.  Or a really horny chick lol



KatyLied -> RE: I need help. (1/6/2008 8:01:04 PM)

quote:

what should I do?


Ignore her.  Is that so difficult?  If so then maybe you should consider why you are so involved in the dysfunction of a stranger.



TemptingNviceSub -> RE: I need help. (1/6/2008 8:51:37 PM)

When you see she e-mails you something ,delete without reading..saves you much angst and I think it will show ,you deleted, without reading..hence she knows there is no communicating..if she changes names again..lather, rinse repeat..Tempting



kinkypuppy2 -> RE: I need help. (1/6/2008 11:23:55 PM)

Ignor them, or just block them on your site.



MissMorrigan -> RE: I need help. (1/7/2008 2:21:18 AM)

People choose to what degree they get involved with someone. You need to ask yourself why it is you are buying into this drama instead of taking the logical action, as KatyLied, has said, which is to ignore them especially when the functions via email/instant messenger are there and user-friendly.
quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied
quote:

what should I do?


Ignore her.  Is that so difficult?  If so then maybe you should consider why you are so involved in the dysfunction of a stranger.



parttimehotty -> RE: I need help. (1/7/2008 7:03:43 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kinkypuppy2

Ignor them, or just block them on your site.



Exactly!  Why haven't you blocked "her" & hidden her profile?  Or do you enjoy the chase?



carlie310 -> RE: I need help. (1/7/2008 7:19:12 AM)

I agree with the block and delete advice.  You're fresh meat here, you're going to get lots of attention and not all of it will be nice.  For some reason (maybe I read too many rants against subs that don't answer emails?) I wanted to answer everything I got.  After a few abusive responses to my "thanks, but no thanks" generic email, I realized that no answer is indeed an answer.

With that in mind, I would recommend that you take a look at your profile & maybe remove some of the more identifying markers.  I don't think that you want some idiot emailing your station manager with the link, or worse, taking a few more minutes with Google and showing up on your doorstep with his or her feelings still smarting.  Better to save those details for after you've exchanged a few emails.



domahpet -> RE: I need help. (1/7/2008 7:41:19 AM)

what a very bizzare profile [sm=ofcourse.gif]

looks like two different people wrote it

how long does it take for comments to be approved?
im dying to hear what domiguy has to say



Owner4SexSlave -> RE: I need help. (1/7/2008 11:40:33 AM)

How do you really know she's a women?  Perhaps it's a T-Girl or some guy that is just getting their jolly off.    Perhaps a scam artist, and the list goes on and on.

Some people, love to play video games to keep themselves entertained, some people love to play head games online as well as offline. 

The trick is not to react to the games.  Just simply ingore it and not feed into it at all.




CalifChick -> RE: I need help. (1/7/2008 4:10:16 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LoveAndDS

That sounds like ... a really horny chick lol



Now I'm going to say this as nicely as I possibly can.  Y'all just need to HUSH and stop screwing with my romantic interests.

Cali



Dnomyar -> RE: I need help. (1/9/2008 12:01:09 PM)

I hope that you dont out me CalifChick. I still love you I think.



CalifChick -> RE: I need help. (1/9/2008 12:03:02 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

I hope that you dont out me CalifChick. I still love you I think.


You know you do, Ray, you know you do. [:)]

Cali



Page: [1] 2   next >   >>

Valid CSS!




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy
0.046875