Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

I need help.


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Master >> I need help. Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
I need help. - 1/6/2008 6:57:01 PM   
DecemberRayne


Posts: 7
Joined: 1/6/2008
Status: offline 		Okay, I had a girl e-mail me on CM this morning and she kept sending chat requests, so I responded to one of her e-mails and told her I was interested in a poly household, and she kept bugging me and bugging me by sending e-mails to try to get me to like them.. I do not, I have found out that 70 percent of women are Backstabbers, and women do not turn me on at all, Well, I have blocked her and she made a new name and she is still Harrassing me .. what should I do? I'mma feel like an idiot for posting this.

But.. She also wanted me to give her my phone number and i wouldn't I do not under any circumstances give out my number online for various reasons and im pretty sure most of you wouldnt.

--- December
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: I need help. - 1/6/2008 7:00:47 PM   
TNDomDiscipline


Posts: 9
Joined: 2/18/2007
Status: offline 		Be bluntly honest... Maybe encourage her to purchase a copy of "I'm Just Not That Into You!"...

(in reply to DecemberRayne)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: I need help. - 1/6/2008 7:07:03 PM   
SirMIkeSD


Posts: 613
Joined: 3/16/2007
From: San Diego, Ca
Status: offline 		Just ignore the requests/email/etc and sooner or later she (it could be a guy, you don't know) will go away.

Mike

(in reply to TNDomDiscipline)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: I need help. - 1/6/2008 7:13:45 PM   
DecemberRayne


Posts: 7
Joined: 1/6/2008
Status: offline 		I sure hope whatever this thing is go's away, The person is really buggin me. LOL!

(in reply to SirMIkeSD)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: I need help. - 1/6/2008 7:33:51 PM   
takenbyjohnr07


Posts: 787
Joined: 11/26/2007
Status: offline 		When i met my Owner i still had my original profile up that i was available. i responded to one man very nicely telling him that i had met someone ans was not available. He thanked me very politely and went away. The next day he contacted me asking me are you still with him? Politely i said yes, thinking that this was the end of it. well, every day for about two weeks, every day he would ask the same question. it was very annoying. So, both my Owner and i changed our profiles and that was the end of that. i hope yours goes away that easily.

_____________________________

i am the sole property of Johnr. He is the love of my life and the greatest Owner and i will live to serve and, please him only every day of my life.

(in reply to DecemberRayne)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: I need help. - 1/6/2008 7:44:19 PM   
DecemberRayne


Posts: 7
Joined: 1/6/2008
Status: offline 		I also hope she goes away easily, She hasnt emailed me for about an hour or so, so we'll see. lol

(in reply to takenbyjohnr07)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: I need help. - 1/6/2008 7:44:35 PM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline 		You are facing a dilemma that will ultimately lead to your death. You are doomed. They don't know where you live or have your phone number...God you are so screwed. There is no way that you can possible ignore them. What if they keep making more and more fake profiles and continue to contact you? You will be forced at some point to respond, you really have no other choice!...God I would hate to find myself in your shoes right now!!!

It is obviously time to contact those that are closest to you and for you to tell them how much you care and love them. Clean up your house. Dispose of any incriminating dildos, porn, vibrators etc. Don't want your relatives after they have endured the pain of identifying your body to have to find out what a kinkster their little girl was.

It's to late for you but hopefully others will learn a lesson in your passing. No one can help you now.

If it's of any solace, you might be missed.

_____________________________



(in reply to takenbyjohnr07)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: I need help. - 1/6/2008 7:46:10 PM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: DecemberRayne

I also hope she goes away easily, She hasnt emailed me for about an hour or so, so we'll see. lol



By posting on an open forum is always a great way to discourage someone who's only goal at this point is to probably only bother you....You will be missed...Maybe.

_____________________________



(in reply to DecemberRayne)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: I need help. - 1/6/2008 7:56:34 PM   
LoveAndDS


Posts: 39
Joined: 11/19/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: DecemberRayne

Okay, I had a girl e-mail me on CM this morning and she kept sending chat requests, so I responded to one of her e-mails and told her I was interested in a poly household, and she kept bugging me and bugging me by sending e-mails to try to get me to like them.. I do not, I have found out that 70 percent of women are Backstabbers, and women do not turn me on at all, Well, I have blocked her and she made a new name and she is still Harrassing me .. what should I do? I'mma feel like an idiot for posting this.

But.. She also wanted me to give her my phone number and i wouldn't I do not under any circumstances give out my number online for various reasons and im pretty sure most of you wouldnt.

--- December



That sounds like a guy posing as a girl.  Or a really horny chick lol

(in reply to DecemberRayne)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: I need help. - 1/6/2008 8:01:04 PM   
KatyLied


Posts: 13029
Joined: 2/24/2005
From: Pennsylvania
Status: offline
quote:

what should I do?


Ignore her.  Is that so difficult?  If so then maybe you should consider why you are so involved in the dysfunction of a stranger.


_____________________________

“If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.”
- Albert Einstein

(in reply to DecemberRayne)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: I need help. - 1/6/2008 8:51:37 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


Posts: 3054
Joined: 10/1/2005
Status: offline 		When you see she e-mails you something ,delete without reading..saves you much angst and I think it will show ,you deleted, without reading..hence she knows there is no communicating..if she changes names again..lather, rinse repeat..Tempting

_____________________________

I have greatly enjoyed the second blooming...suddenly you find at the age of 50, that a whole new life has opened before you.........Agatha Christie.

You must make tracks into the unknown~~Thoreau

(in reply to DecemberRayne)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: I need help. - 1/6/2008 11:23:55 PM   
kinkypuppy2


Posts: 345
Joined: 11/4/2007
Status: offline 		Ignor them, or just block them on your site.


_____________________________

See nic "Kinkypupper" also as "slvseeker" As I cannot reply to any posts or log into collarchat under that name I had to create this profile.

(in reply to DecemberRayne)
Profile   Post #: 12
RE: I need help. - 1/7/2008 2:21:18 AM   
MissMorrigan


Posts: 2309
Joined: 1/15/2005
Status: offline 		People choose to what degree they get involved with someone. You need to ask yourself why it is you are buying into this drama instead of taking the logical action, as KatyLied, has said, which is to ignore them especially when the functions via email/instant messenger are there and user-friendly.
quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied
quote:

what should I do?


Ignore her.  Is that so difficult?  If so then maybe you should consider why you are so involved in the dysfunction of a stranger.

(in reply to KatyLied)
Profile   Post #: 13
RE: I need help. - 1/7/2008 7:03:43 AM   
parttimehotty


Posts: 4002
Joined: 11/19/2007
From: Virginville
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: kinkypuppy2

Ignor them, or just block them on your site.



Exactly!  Why haven't you blocked "her" & hidden her profile?  Or do you enjoy the chase?

_____________________________

Resident Virgin
Official Mommy of Jolly & Jilly

Nobody is 'dead' until nobody remembers them
http://www.chkittyclub.com/pages/home.html
http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/home.faces?siteId=3&ThirdPartyClicks=ThankYouCar

(in reply to kinkypuppy2)
Profile   Post #: 14
RE: I need help. - 1/7/2008 7:19:12 AM   
carlie310


Posts: 256
Joined: 9/23/2007
Status: offline 		I agree with the block and delete advice.  You're fresh meat here, you're going to get lots of attention and not all of it will be nice.  For some reason (maybe I read too many rants against subs that don't answer emails?) I wanted to answer everything I got.  After a few abusive responses to my "thanks, but no thanks" generic email, I realized that no answer is indeed an answer.

With that in mind, I would recommend that you take a look at your profile & maybe remove some of the more identifying markers.  I don't think that you want some idiot emailing your station manager with the link, or worse, taking a few more minutes with Google and showing up on your doorstep with his or her feelings still smarting.  Better to save those details for after you've exchanged a few emails.

(in reply to parttimehotty)
Profile   Post #: 15
RE: I need help. - 1/7/2008 7:41:19 AM   
domahpet


Posts: 1505
Joined: 12/3/2006
From: Santa Rosa
Status: offline 		what a very bizzare profile

looks like two different people wrote it

how long does it take for comments to be approved?
im dying to hear what domiguy has to say

(in reply to carlie310)
Profile   Post #: 16
RE: I need help. - 1/7/2008 11:40:33 AM   
Owner4SexSlave


Posts: 1311
Joined: 4/4/2007
Status: offline 		How do you really know she's a women?  Perhaps it's a T-Girl or some guy that is just getting their jolly off.    Perhaps a scam artist, and the list goes on and on.

Some people, love to play video games to keep themselves entertained, some people love to play head games online as well as offline. 

The trick is not to react to the games.  Just simply ingore it and not feed into it at all.


(in reply to DecemberRayne)
Profile   Post #: 17
RE: I need help. - 1/7/2008 4:10:16 PM   
CalifChick


Posts: 10717
Joined: 10/28/2007
From: California
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LoveAndDS

That sounds like ... a really horny chick lol



Now I'm going to say this as nicely as I possibly can.  Y'all just need to HUSH and stop screwing with my romantic interests.

Cali


_____________________________

AKA "The Undisputed Goddess of Sarcasm", "Big Bad Cali" and "Yum Bum". Advisor to the Subbie Mafia, founding member of the W.A.C. and the Judgmental Bitches Brigade, member of the Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair-a's and Team Troll

(in reply to LoveAndDS)
Profile   Post #: 18
RE: I need help. - 1/9/2008 12:01:09 PM   
Dnomyar


Posts: 7933
Joined: 6/27/2005
Status: offline 		I hope that you dont out me CalifChick. I still love you I think.

(in reply to CalifChick)
Profile   Post #: 19
RE: I need help. - 1/9/2008 12:03:02 PM   
CalifChick


Posts: 10717
Joined: 10/28/2007
From: California
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

I hope that you dont out me CalifChick. I still love you I think.


You know you do, Ray, you know you do.

Cali


_____________________________

AKA "The Undisputed Goddess of Sarcasm", "Big Bad Cali" and "Yum Bum". Advisor to the Subbie Mafia, founding member of the W.A.C. and the Judgmental Bitches Brigade, member of the Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair-a's and Team Troll

(in reply to Dnomyar)
Profile   Post #: 20
Page:   [1] 2   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Master >> I need help. Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.109