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kiwisub12 -> RE: blood as hard limit? (4/29/2008 7:18:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

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ORIGINAL: decstorm37

I have noticed that things we do in our day to day mundane lives that could be a kink generaly are the opposite to us.
Gwyn
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I work in surgery, and if my Sir wanted to cut me or use needles, he could.  However, it would do absolutely do nothing for me. Period.   Now , if he were to cane me until i bleed, that would be hot!!!   ssshhh though - don't tell Sir!




ResidentSadist -> RE: blood as hard limit? (4/29/2008 8:43:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: OmegaG
I'm apathetic about blood.  It's not erotic to me in anyway but since I worked in an urgent care for years (and have kids) it doesn't squick me out either...

I think that I would not like blood play because it seems to be quick and intense, I prefer activities that build and last for a while...

Interestingly enough he wants to experiment with knife play, but for him it would be all about the sensation...

First, a salute to a fellow health care provider. 
 
Because of alI the surgery I have assisted in (after being a lab tech I got promoted to OR assist) I am apathetic to a degree in that I don’t get “shock value” or “taboo” sensations from bloodsport.  However, I can be empathetic enough with my partner in a symbiotic connection that builds my passion through interaction. 
 
I have performed many medical scenes, even mock surgery using Trilene gas as an anesthetic and it is my partners enthusiasm that helps put spark into it for me.  I am not sure how quick knife play is because time stops for me when I amcarefully using deadly or disfiguring gear.  However, with the needles and all, the scene in that pic (above reply) was about 30 minutes long.  I guess with restraints, teasing and foreplay, a knife play scene can be as long as any other scene even though the actual cutting part doesn’t really take that long.
 
I'm not trying to sell you on bloodsport, just sharing the avenues I have found that made it appealing to me should you care to explore. 




christine1 -> RE: blood as hard limit? (4/29/2008 9:00:14 PM)

i don't mind blood play either, but i really have to be in the right mind set for it.




Corvidae -> RE: blood as hard limit? (4/29/2008 11:38:08 PM)

I've always been needle-phobic. I can't watch when I get my blood drawn, and I hate watching medical TV shows because they always eventually show someone getting an injection, and I have to quickly hide my eyes. I'm not normally the squeamish sort, so I don't know why needles bother me so much. Intellectually I have nothing wrong with them (within a medical context, or for play)... but the minute I see a pointey thing go near some skin (especially a vein) my stomach does a loop-de-loop and that's it for me. As for blood play in general... . I don't like it for the same reason I don't like cauliflower or music by the Decemberists.... I just don't. Who knows.




apiercedkitty -> RE: blood as hard limit? (4/30/2008 6:52:39 AM)

i just had to stop during my reading and say what a hot pic that is...
 
Blood play is a huge turn on for me - i hope to someday end up in a relationship where the trust is that strong...




bornsynner -> RE: blood as hard limit? (4/30/2008 6:51:47 PM)

thanks so much for all the responses.. and btw i love love love that pic.. wish i knew a way to get to more like that




HornyToadsMI -> RE: blood as hard limit? (4/30/2008 7:03:21 PM)

Guess it just never really interested me.  To each his own.....enjoy!




CarrieO -> RE: blood as hard limit? (5/1/2008 5:38:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: topcat

"No blood sport"
 
For some, they say disease- And I agree- it's tough to mainatian a proper sterile field...
 
For some- thay say scars- and true enough, I have seen the slightest of cuts leave scars (the one on my nose? cat scratch, twenty years back!)...
 
But really, IMO, it's about comitment, intimacy...
 
Lawrence



Well said......commitment and intimacy is what's needed for me.  I wouldn't feel comfortable sharing that with a stranger or an aquaintance. My opinion only and I can't judge others at all.
I deal with needles daily and find the taste of my own blood......hmmmm.....nice. [;)]
The sight of it doesn't really bother me and I like the idea of exploring the sensations behind the blood-letting.
Limits are there to explore.....maybe not cross, but definitely explore.




pettingdragons -> RE: blood as hard limit? (5/1/2008 6:10:35 AM)

i throughly enjoy blood play...with Master and i....only....W/we are safe together and do not playwith others in this manor. Safety is the key, cleaning of toys, after care etc....
just my 2 cents

pettingdragons
**Master Dragons considered slave**




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