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RE: All play and no substance - 1/7/2008 9:20:29 PM

pompeii

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I can say not a day goes by that I don't see someone or something that reminds me of scening. For example, today, in the supermarket, there she was, a lovely lass in her forties ... with buns that just begged to be spanked and a long graceful neck that screamed to be adorned with a black leather collar and leash ... alas ...

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RE: All play and no substance - 1/7/2008 9:39:11 PM

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Somethings never change. I view life through dominant eyes, it is who I am.

I see others think that way also, either as a top or a bottom. It is who they are. It comes from within.

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RE: All play and no substance - 1/7/2008 11:23:40 PM

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I like relationships for a lot more than fucking around.

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RE: All play and no substance - 1/7/2008 11:34:38 PM

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subtee hit it on the nail. I'll be 42 this June and I don't have much interest in casual anything these days. There aren't enough hours in the day as it is, without trying to squeeze in casual play. Life is intense and I'm enjoying that intensity much more than I ever did the casual relationships of my younger days.

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RE: All play and no substance - 1/8/2008 5:27:45 AM

catize

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Casual encounters can certainly be fulfilling, a means to gain experience and develop friendships that include play as well as D/s.
There are a certain percentage of people, myself included, who are not capable of, or at least have never found a deeply abiding ‘love’ connection with another. Monogamy, 24/7 is not everyone’s goal. I would, however, define the bond I do have with the two dominants in my life as much more than casual and not just sport.
I am quite content with the way my life is, I am more than satisfied to participate in wiitwd part time. These two men have helped me reach within myself to find joy in submitting to them. I have discovered deep wells of giving that I did not know I possessed. Whenever I am in the presence of one of them, they then have power over all that I am; they own that fountain of service.
And when we part, we are smiling.
My life is a jig saw puzzle, the picture of who I am and the people in my life emerge from the interlocking solid pieces. Each piece is substantial on its own but creates the whole.

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RE: All play and no substance - 1/8/2008 1:40:42 PM

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You situation is play WITH substance.

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RE: All play and no substance - 1/8/2008 3:44:47 PM

catize

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quote:

ORIGINAL: dogobedience

You situation is play WITH substance.

I like that phrase, it is very descriptive. Thanks!

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