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InfiniteAnorak -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 8:40:00 AM)

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ORIGINAL: weneedyourhelp

Now the "whos viewing" button is red too?


That's probably my fault. The strain I was putting on the server by compulsively clicking on it every five seconds out of a mixture of fascination and self-obsession, is now a thing of the past :)



faerytattoodgirl -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 8:57:03 AM)

Admirers? LOL ya right they are just pervs who add your profile to their fav's so they can look at your pic's.  no admirer has ever written me and 7 out of 8 on my list are men!!



Politesub53 -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 8:58:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: michelleryder

I cant understand why we now have admirers and friends as most of my admirers are people id call online friends anyway. Whats the difference?


Sheeeshhhhh whats up with secret admirers ( ok only secret if you dont click the link ) Whatever happened to romance ?  [;)]



TMaster2 -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 9:05:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

Admirers? LOL ya right they are just pervs who add your profile to their fav's so they can look at your pic's.  no admirer has ever written me and 7 out of 8 on my list are men!!


hey, mine are too!  wonder if we have the same ones ;)



ghitaPVH -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 9:08:34 AM)

most of mine are actually people I consider good friends. two are people in other countries Ive never heard of before. one is an ex.



faerytattoodgirl -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 9:10:05 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TMaster2

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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

Admirers? LOL ya right they are just pervs who add your profile to their fav's so they can look at your pic's.  no admirer has ever written me and 7 out of 8 on my list are men!!


hey, mine are too!  wonder if we have the same ones ;)



More than likely yes...its like myspace the same men add anyone to their list.
only 1 on my list is someone that i actually know.  6 out of the 8 on my list dont have pics.



MissHarlet -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 9:16:20 AM)

I dont understand why someone puts themselves down as my admirer yet never contacts me..... oh well Im often clueless on here.



RCdc -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 9:18:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53
Sheeeshhhhh whats up with secret admirers ( ok only secret if you dont click the link ) Whatever happened to romance ?  [;)]


*clicks*
*fluttersflashes*

the.dark.



CalifChick -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 9:19:07 AM)

I just wish there was a way to take yourself OFF of someone's admirers list. 

Cali



Maya2001 -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 9:28:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

Admirers? LOL ya right they are just pervs who add your profile to their fav's so they can look at your pic's.  no admirer has ever written me and 7 out of 8 on my list are men!!


Some will be and some are not, I have had a quite a number on my list  that have written and they been extremely  respectful, and several have viewed my profile months ago  but continue to send messages saying hello, hope you are having a good day, your sir is a lucky man, I hope you are healing well etc without going back to look at my profile again .....the pervs  exist on every type of dating site, not just here , even when I had no picture I have had pervs writing asking for pictures... I find that most pervs tend to be very direct, vocal and demanding

, last thing I will do is make assumptions that they are a perv  just because they add me to their favorites and don't contact me , some are shy or feel they may be too far away considering I am not willing to relocate and may hope things will change later either for them or me, or they may have added me at a time I was involved with another Dom and may hope that possibly  things would not work out and a connection might be made in the future, or they may want to see how I conduct myself on these forums in terms of intelligence, openmindedness, respect, sensibility, attitude  etc before deciding whether to make contact,  or a number of other reasons



abytchgoddess4u -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 9:45:38 AM)

~fr~

I wish there was some way to take someone off my admirers list as well.

I've been wondering lately why it is that I have so many male Doms in my list. I have at least 20, seriously...none of whom have ever contacted me.

I think it's weird.



TMaster2 -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 9:55:19 AM)

actually, I have added people to my "Favorites" list (which is then called Admirers to the one whose list you get on) simply because I liked their profile and wanted to read it more at some later date.  I used that method to find them again.  I try to remember to send a msg to them that I've done that, but maybe I've forgotten a few times.  But, I don't even look at my list of Admirers all that often, so really don't know how it might change, who comes and goes.



abytchgoddess4u -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 10:15:57 AM)

That makes sense, I suppose.

I think it would be good to have the date you were added, as well. Sometimes I don't notice for weeks that I have new admirers, then there is a bunch.



philosophy -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 10:19:35 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Maya2001

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ORIGINAL: philosophy

...i have no admirers whatsoever......i'm crushed....[:D]


LOL I tried to resolve for you but there was no options  to click for friend invite or select as  admirer
only options was to add as favorite, block or hide ... Iam assuming favorite but can't even see how to select as a friend ....that is weird



...awww, thanks.....[:)]



liks2plzlf -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 12:08:23 PM)

You can view their profile, and immediately under, check the hidden or block box, and they will disappear form your list. Whether or not it removes you from their favorites list, I don't know, and I doubt it. I have several on my favorites list, because I like to read their journal entries, and their posts. Learn much more about them that way. Some I want to email but have not decided if I really would relocate to serve them. Not much use contacting them until I am certain I would move if we did hit it off.



Shawn1066 -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 12:30:31 PM)

I hate the admirers who are just around to oogle at me and don't respond to messages.  It's just -odd-

I didn't think I'd ever get that sort of attention. 



RCdc -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 12:42:18 PM)

Think of it as walking down the street and being admired or having your ass looked at and the men (or women) not talking to you.  It's really no different.
 
the.dark.



popeye1250 -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 1:39:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: philosophy

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ORIGINAL: Maya2001

quote:

ORIGINAL: philosophy

...i have no admirers whatsoever......i'm crushed....[:D]


LOL I tried to resolve for you but there was no options  to click for friend invite or select as  admirer
only options was to add as favorite, block or hide ... Iam assuming favorite but can't even see how to select as a friend ....that is weird



...awww, thanks.....[:)]


Philosophy, I'll be one of your Admirers too!
We wouldn't want you to feel all lonely!



philosophy -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 1:41:10 PM)

Awww, Popeye.......knew there was an ol' softie beneath that craggy exterior.....[;)]



Lordandmaster -> RE: New feature ? admirers (1/8/2008 3:06:52 PM)

I just think of it as my groupie list.



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