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RE: New feature ? admirers - 1/8/2008 3:21:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

Think of it as walking down the street and being admired or having your ass looked at and the men (or women) not talking to you. It's really no different.

the.dark.

Do you mean "Arse" looked at, or have you been on these forums too long. Next you will be saying gas or fries !

Thanks for the click, i was feeling neglected.....

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RE: New feature ? admirers - 1/8/2008 3:21:50 PM

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i don't like the new feature. i just realized two dominants (1 of them is my stalker dom) in which i turned down flatly and blockeed added me to their favorites list. i was better off not knowing since i never really look at my Admirers list.

I concur (for different reasons however; it's a nuisance...it societally obligates you to offer the same thing in return when someone "friends" you. I like all the people that have "admired" me on their buttons...I just find the whole thing juvenile and reminiscent of junior high).

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RE: New feature ? admirers - 1/8/2008 3:34:59 PM

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Is there anyway possible to delete ppl that have add you to their "admirers list"...

When i asked a person to please remove me from their list, that i was not interested; they said i had no choice, it was "THEIR" choice...

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RE: New feature ? admirers - 1/8/2008 7:50:00 PM

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I think the "Favorite Users"/"Admirers" are the same area.
I have clicked on people's profiles as my "favorite users" because I wanted to read their profile again since it was probably interesting, or they are someone I chit-chat with or whatever... LOL
However... on "THEIR" side they see me listed as an "admirer".
KWIM?

P.S. At this time I believe that IF you want to remove the "favorite user" from showing you as being an "admirer" on thier side, you click the "X" next to their name on you list of "favorite users".

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RE: New feature ? admirers - 1/8/2008 9:42:53 PM

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I am not sure what I think, I just back online and the entire collarme experience is taking ages to load, I cannot get anywhere. I hope the new features are not slowing it down; maybe it is my system.

As far as new features, the friend thing is cute, but the red admirers is confusing me from messages and the admirers are always people I don't know who never write and some of them are blocked, so that is always interesting.

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RE: New feature ? admirers - 1/8/2008 9:53:24 PM

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Just looking for a place to give my two cents worth about the changes... hey! I like them! weeeeeeeeeee

thanks to those that work on these types of things... and btw... I just noticed that spelling errors show up with a red underline when composing an email! I loveeeeeeeeee spell check!

Thanks again!

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RE: New feature ? admirers - 1/8/2008 10:50:31 PM

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When you pull up their profile there is a button that says "add as friend". The favorites you are correct about, then you show up on their admirers list.

edited to add: that was to Maya2001 on page 1, apparently it is bedtime, I did not notice there were two more pages of replies, and I'm sure someone already answered this.....lol, night folks!!!!! Thinks I just proved to myself it's bedtime!

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RE: New feature ? admirers - 1/8/2008 10:54:13 PM

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Smooch.

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RE: New feature ? admirers - 1/8/2008 10:56:23 PM

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Thankies, with that good night kiss I'll sleep well and have yummm dreams...big smooches back at ya!

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RE: New feature ? admirers - 1/8/2008 11:44:42 PM

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Oooooo.... I have just been chastised by politeone - I'm all a tingle.
I accept my punishment...

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RE: New feature ? admirers - 1/9/2008 4:32:20 AM

Politesub53

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dark..... Now ive spilled my coffee...... Thanks a million.

And good morning

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RE: New feature ? admirers - 1/9/2008 4:52:04 AM

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S'ok, I make good coffee... there is always more!
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RE: New feature ? admirers - 1/11/2008 5:31:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: Griswold

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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

i don't like the new feature. i just realized two dominants (1 of them is my stalker dom) in which i turned down flatly and blockeed added me to their favorites list. i was better off not knowing since i never really look at my Admirers list.

I concur (for different reasons however; it's a nuisance...it societally obligates you to offer the same thing in return when someone "friends" you. I like all the people that have "admired" me on their buttons...I just find the whole thing juvenile and reminiscent of junior high).

I'm quoting myself (is that like masturbation?).

I was thinking about this the other night, and it occurred to me that the site owners are attempting to make the site more "sticky"...a term often used to indicate whether or not users are not only using it more...but encouraging others to do so as well.

Which only makes sense...the site costs somewhere between $5,000.00 a month and $15,000.00 a month to operate (I'm only guessing...I'm sure I could be wrong on either end of the spectrum....but I would lean certainly towards the higher number), and anything they can do to encourage users to be more active would lend itself more towards the liklihood that users would punch vendors (advertisers) buttons.

This would be in direct contrast to years past when the owners were focused on asking users to not copy and paste full OP comments because each paragraph took up additional bandwidth...let alone storage...and rightly so, as they were the only ones writing the checks (thank you again...truly, for all these years of a blank slate for me to run off and be a pain in the ass on far too many occasions...on your nickel).

And thankfully, they opted to find a new resource to allow that (advertising)...they couldn't stop people from doing so...and along the way, presumably (sp?) they also discovered that following the curve of users...adding in the potential for advertising revenue as an offset, was more than a useful balance....so....

I would like to correct myself as to my earlier (above) comments on the "friend" button thing...and allow me to say...while I'm not a big fan of it (for the above posted reasons)....I not only understand it...I encourage it.

FRIEND ME GAWDAMMIT!!!!!

(I have succombed).

I am Borg.

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