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HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 3:19:36 AM

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RE: HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 4:02:11 AM

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So everyone understands, I am NOT a dominant, this is just a submissive girl giving advice since I see no one else has. Take it with a grain of salt.

Hmm... I would like to say the following:
Please add more info about yourself in your profile. It is always good to know a bit more about the prospective partner than dry-bone info. Put some personality into it! Try to write about your own skills, what you bring "to the table" so to speak. (I suggest this only because of the nature of the bare profile you did post.)
Also, chat-speak and caps lock are not your friends. (Just MHO)
Also, you've been a member for what? A day? Have patience woman!
If you mean, why do not you have luck in general, well that can be any number of reasons. Most of which I do not know since I am a newbie to all of this. Could just be you were not looking in the right places. I wish I could help you further.

Good luck though!
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RE: HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 4:15:20 AM

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Well, I do live too far away, but with so little info, I wouldn't know where to start anyway!!!!

Of course a photo always helps immensly. There's usually plenty of Doms around to take care of the subs, so what is your opinion as to what is wrong??? A sincerely submissive woman is rarely alone for long!

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RE: HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 4:41:10 AM

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And don't be stupid enough to jump at the first dom that comes along and emails you, it is just like any dating game get to know the person as a person, find out if you have similiar interests and are compatible before taking a leap

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RE: HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 5:07:30 AM

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for all that is holy - release the CAPS LOCK ...what harm have they done to you? second, take a look at your methods of attracting that special master. if your profile needs a little, try revamping in a postive view about yourself and what you have to offer. and since you've just joined yesterday, you'll have to re-read the 1st page of the CM Handbook - The Dominant or Master of your dreams does not fall onto your lap. It takes time and a whole lot of patience....

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RE: HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 5:43:44 AM

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it takes time and more time. Sometimes just when you are ready to give up the person for you will show up. Good Luck

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RE: HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 6:00:02 AM

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1) A little more about who you are would be nice in the profile.

2) Perhaps a pic. It doesnt have to include your face, if you have objections to that.

3) The last line in your profile about being a bad girl, reads like a bad tag line for a sex hotline in a porn mag.

4) Perhaps what you are looking for? It would be really absurd to have 32 males who don't match what you like to message you, now wouldnt it?

Happy Hunting!

edited because i cant think with no coffee...ugh.

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RE: HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 6:57:13 AM

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Your profile is pretty much a mess, You need to look at it, for it shows no imagination, no fore thought, and no maturity. It also looks like you took less than ten seconds to write it and didn't even bother to check your spelling. Also your profile states that you are loooking for anyone and everyone. It just doesn't sound real.

If you want omething real you have to be real. Take the time to write a sincere profile and you will see a big change. My one question is Why would a woman in her forties have a screen name like bug? A screen name should reflect you and maybe your personality.

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RE: HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 6:59:17 AM

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Hi Kyttyn! i was not replying to you directly. i was responding to the OP. Once again i pushed the wrong button. Sorry.

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RE: HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 7:09:43 AM

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Don't listen to what these bad people are telling you, bugs. Your profile is just fine and it expresses your soul perfectly. The only thing you need to do is add this:

NO FATTIES NO COCK SHOTS NO OLD MEN OVER FORTY YOU WILL GO ON IGNORE.
I MEAN IT I WILL IGGY U. NO ONE-LINE MESSAGES NO FAKERS NO MARRIED MEN!

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RE: HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 7:11:37 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

Hi Kyttyn! i was not replying to you directly. i was responding to the OP. Once again i pushed the wrong button. Sorry.

Sweetie, its all good! I take no offense at it, (partially cuz I know I always use spell check or I try to... lol)! *hugs*

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RE: HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 7:16:59 AM

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"Hugs" right back, Between fat fingers, poor eyesite and old age. The odds are always against me. :) Have a great day!

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RE: HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 7:19:55 AM

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Youre not old. Youre just taking the advanced classes in Life 101. And ugh...dont get me started on the fat fingers lmao. *goes off to make coffee*

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RE: HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 7:55:05 AM

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Let see with "i need a spanking right now i have been such a bad girl." as almost half of your profile text you sound like a WANKER.

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RE: HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 8:05:53 AM

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I'll echo what others have said.

For all people, men or women, dominant or submissive, if the only information on your profile is "I need someone to spank/spank me" you're not likely to get any sort of quality response.

Talking about who you are is much more likely to trigger responses from people who are more like you, and who would be more likely to like you for who you are. What are your hobbies? Passions? What makes you smile? What makes you cry? What is it about you that would make your partner want to be with you? Obviously, the majority of these things aren't going to be simply or strictly BDSM related.

Beyond that, of the last few people I've had a relationship with I met here on the CM message boards. There are a lot of people who read them even if they don't post often. Offering your thoughts and ideas here is a good way to get to know others, and for them to get to know you.

Good luck,

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RE: HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 8:17:20 AM

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LOL

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RE: HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 8:19:12 AM

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My guess is that the Op is about 14 years old.

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RE: HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 8:37:19 AM

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More information and give it time. IMO

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RE: HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 9:13:52 AM

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Echoing what everyone here has said. Flesh out your profile and write in what you are looking for inside and out of WIITWD. Put in your interests, wants/needs/desires etc. Describe who you are...as a person.....It'll take a bit of time but a Master who is suited for you and you for him will appear. The key to this is patience.

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RE: HOW DO I GET A MASTER?WHAT AM I DOING WRONG - 1/8/2008 9:33:43 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tigerstyle

The only thing you need to do is add this:

NO FATTIES NO COCK SHOTS NO OLD MEN OVER FORTY YOU WILL GO ON IGNORE. I MEAN IT I WILL IGGY U. NO ONE-LINE MESSAGES NO FAKERS NO MARRIED MEN!

Dammit Tiger! Stop perving my profile and giving my secrets away!!!

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