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lusciouslips19 -> being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 1:41:49 PM)

What do you think of those who contact without a profile? I hve been contacted by those with no profile. Some gives excuses like, "I got tired of all the fakes and wannabees", so I turned it off? Is anyone else here suspicious when a Dom doesnt have a profile or do you give someone a chance anyway?

This is just a cuiosity. I am not looking any longer. However, I am always suspicious of those who dont have a detailed profile. the ones with none at all get no chance.

Who here is suspicious too? Who has had sucess with those who are profileless?



sweetstorm -> RE: being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 1:45:42 PM)

I was contacted the other day by someone who had not filled out their profile. I sent back a "not interested, thanks." When he asked what he could do to gain my interest I told him "You could start by filling out your profile and attaching a pic. I don't even know which state you live in."

Just seemed like a DUH to me.  [8D]



beargonewild -> RE: being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 1:45:49 PM)

I do get to wondering why someone who contacts me has no profile themselves! Kind of wonder what they have to hide and besides, even a simple bare bones profile is better then no profile. Yes it is easy to be suspicious and sometimes it is warranted to be so!



Aylee -> RE: being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 1:49:15 PM)

Depending on what the cmail says, yes I give them a chance.  Think of it as going to a dinner party and being seated to someone you do not know.  Would you be suspicious and not talk to them either?  Of course I will talk to most people in meat life as well. 



SirMIkeSD -> RE: being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 1:50:51 PM)

I am been contacted by a couple of subs without profiles as well.  They were scammers or wankers always wanted my email address or to direct me to some web site.  Normally I won't waste my time, but once or twice I played along for bit (ok I was bored), it did not take long before the scam started.  Of course these have been "22" year old very submissive boys willing to do anything to serve me.  Yeah right and for $19.99 I can get eternal salvation as well from the a TV preacher.

Mike




mnottertail -> RE: being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 1:52:06 PM)

only $20 bucks?  What salvation show you shopping at?

BrotherLove



camille65 -> RE: being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 1:55:05 PM)

It doesn't mean anything to me if someone has no profile. Some people just don't want the hassle of having one and I understand that because I've whittled mine down to the very barest of bones.I sure don't assume they are any sort of wannabe or have nefarious intentions, I just assume they don't want a profile. If I get curious, I ask them.



SirMIkeSD -> RE: being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 1:56:24 PM)

mnottertail,

I am cheap and if it costs more then that to be saved I am not interested.

Mike




beargonewild -> RE: being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 2:05:40 PM)

ROFLMFAO



SingleRarity -> RE: being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 2:05:47 PM)

I didn't have a profile when I contacted Daddy, and he came very close to sending me a "No, thank you".  Thankfully, I'd written a very intelligent, thoughtful introduction which intrigued him greatly.  I'd yet to create a profile because I'd only been on the site for a few minutes before running across his profile.  While my case may be rare, the least one could do is respond to a potential partner.  When I think about not having my Sir.....uggh it just makes me sick.





YourhandMyAss -> RE: being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 2:06:46 PM)

No I am not suspicious when someone with no profile contacts me, I will tell them however that if they want optimal sucess in contacting people they should have something that makes another interested in returning the persued attention.



charlotte12 -> RE: being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 2:08:41 PM)

When Master contacted me his profile said "just here for the forums." or something like that. ( i think it might have even said "Go Away!!) But i had seen him on the message boards and he was commenting both on my profile and something i had said on the boards so i wasn't suspicious. As a general rule though i don't really understand why someone would be surfing profiles without having made one themselves.




sambamanslilgirl -> RE: being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 2:16:03 PM)

just received a message from a dominant without an active profile ...even received one from a Nigerian who said "i was the woman he's looking for"



ottRopesandKnots -> RE: being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 2:17:37 PM)

I have a relatively new friend who contacted me from a 'fake' profile (I think she was listed as 270 pound transgendered guy living in the uk).  She explained in her introductory email many of the normal things one might find in a profile and also explained that she uses a 'fake' profile to keep her inbox from filling up with crap.  I thought it was a relatively creative way of participating in the site for someone with the intent of doing the seeking but with no intent of wading through the crap of being sought. 

I've made a few female friends who seem to feel the need to switch profiles repeatedly, not something I'm a fan of but if that's how this site works best for them so be it.




MrKite -> RE: being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 2:23:58 PM)

I won't contact anyone without the basic stats in a profile.  I always assume they are hiding something, and they usually are.



lusciouslips19 -> RE: being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 2:31:45 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

just received a message from a dominant without an active profile ...even received one from a Nigerian who said "i was the woman he's looking for"


yes, I got one from a Nigerian too. He was looking for a woman with a couples profile. Said he wasnt a couple, What a ninny.



lronitulstahp -> RE: being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 2:33:40 PM)

quote:

 I am always suspicious of those who dont have a detailed profile
  i spent time with a "dominant" here who had an amazingly descriptive, clever, articulate and well written profile...he was a douche.  Losers can write thoughtful profiles as well as anyone else.  For instance, i bet Ted Bundy would have had an amazing profile here...and Charles Manson has quite a way with words.[;)] 



lusciouslips19 -> RE: being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 2:38:43 PM)

I give detailed profile. They say what a lovely smile I have and make a comment about my poem or something I said they thought was intriguing. I put in the effort to show myself, hopes, dreams, personalty,and desires. I really resent those that have full advantage of my genuineness and display none of their own. I know there might be exceptions to the rule. But come on, I showed you mine and you wouldnt have selected me without it? I dont want to spend time asking 20 questions to get the info I could have got if you had just completed your profile in a thourough way.

Other annoying thing is the same ones with no profile e-mail...hi or
hi heres my yahoo Im whats yours [:'(]



lusciouslips19 -> RE: being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 2:41:35 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

quote:

 I am always suspicious of those who dont have a detailed profile
  i spent time with a "dominant" here who had an amazingly descriptive, clever, articulate and well written profile...he was a douche.  Losers can write thoughtful profiles as well as anyone else.  For instance, i bet Ted Bundy would have had an amazing profile here...and Charles Manson has quite a way with words.[;)] 


ok, so no garantee they are not well written killers. At least you know they are not idiots if they can write.



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: being contacted by those without profiles (1/8/2008 2:43:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19


quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

just received a message from a dominant without an active profile ...even received one from a Nigerian who said "i was the woman he's looking for"


yes, I got one from a Nigerian too. He was looking for a woman with a couples profile. Said he wasnt a couple, What a ninny.

HEY - we both got hit on by the same guy!! he told him the same thing about looking with a couples profile



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