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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/8/2008 5:55:22 PM   
Maya2001


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From: Woodstock ONT,CANADA
Status: offline 		It could be a new person whose profile was not approved yet,  I have seen that happen before

and  right now trying to get things approved with all the changes that are occuring is going very slow I  still waiting for my new profile pic to be approved on the second day now,  also it could be a person who had a profile but it got screwed up, like other system problems are occuring  with the system changes, I know a few members were complaining earlier this morning that they had sent email that were getting lost in cyberland yet showed as opened and read, I am not saying there are not some that do not fill out profiles but that there could be reasons other than that

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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/8/2008 6:17:03 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


Posts: 2464
Joined: 1/26/2006
From: North Carolina
Status: offline 		I don't have my profile up because I am not looking for anything. I do email people occasionally and if they ask I tell them why. People don't have profiles for alot of reasons. I got tired of the trolls and Master and I decided I would disable it for now. I can email and get mail back. I can tell them what my profile said if they are really, really interested.

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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/8/2008 6:45:29 PM   
NaiveTempest


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19


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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

just received a message from a dominant without an active profile ...even received one from a Nigerian who said "i was the woman he's looking for"


yes, I got one from a Nigerian too. He was looking for a woman with a couples profile. Said he wasnt a couple, What a ninny.

HEY - we both got hit on by the same guy!! he told him the same thing about looking with a couples profile



I've been hit on here by a Nigerian (twice), probably the same guy; I just deleted it. So many of these guys send out pat/bulk messages, and expect you to really think they wrote it personally for you. And as far as profiles, I've been hit on my men saying they want one-on-one when their profile says looking for couples  or poly and such; I've even had subs contact me after "reading" my profile.
I prefer a person have something in their profile, the more the better. If they have posted in ther forums before, even better. If they have neither, then that first message better be so damn good it could be published, lol.

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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/9/2008 6:25:38 AM   
sweetstorm


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ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

...long haired thoughtful musician seeking  family- oriented subs for deep, thought provoking conversations and hi-jinks
-Charlie


Yep, see. I'd be all over him.   

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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/9/2008 6:33:34 AM   
IrishMist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

What do you think of those who contact without a profile? I hve been contacted by those with no profile. Some gives excuses like, "I got tired of all the fakes and wannabees", so I turned it off? Is anyone else here suspicious when a Dom doesnt have a profile or do you give someone a chance anyway?

This is just a cuiosity. I am not looking any longer. However, I am always suspicious of those who dont have a detailed profile. the ones with none at all get no chance.

Who here is suspicious too? Who has had sucess with those who are profileless?

Since I am not looking for information on a person ( not looking to hook up with someone that is ), a blank or inactive profile means little to me. 9 times out of 10, I only respond to an email if I know the person's name from the boards.

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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/9/2008 6:58:04 AM   
Owner4SexSlave


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Status: offline 		Geeeeesh...  I actually have had accounts on here with long wrote out profiles and a picture of what I look like.   Now, I know I am really real and actually a number of people from here know me as well.    I really don't have much to hide.  As Whiplashsmile I made over 1,600 message board posts, and think I'm a little over 200 with this account.

I don't know what to tell you, there are a lot of people on the otherside with and without profiles that are full of shit.  There are very real people without a profile wrote up that are very real.   I actually know a few other people that don't have much of anything on their profile, cause they got tired of all the Fakers and Wanna be's.   The fact is that, it makes email a lot more easy to manage too.   If you don't have much on your profile you actually spend less time on here. 

The fact is that, it can become a real waste of time and a time pit responding to every email that lands in your CM inbox.   It's not the fakes and wanna be's that is the problem, it's the time they take up with their emails. 

I've come to the conclusion some of the more real people, don't have much of a profile up. 

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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/9/2008 7:09:09 AM   
sweetstorm


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Status: offline 		On the other hand, the way my profile reads makes a HUGE difference in the quality and quantity of messages that I receive.

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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/9/2008 7:28:32 AM   
littleone35


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Joined: 2/17/2005
Status: offline 		I have very little written in my profile Master told and helped me add my interestes.  I would respond to most anyone who contacted me.  I usually don't ck the profile until i talked them a couple of times.  Now i am with my wonderful Master i don't get much mail so no problem.  I am not suspicious i just am curious why they don't have one.

Matt's littleone

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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/9/2008 7:29:18 AM   
lusciouslips19


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave

Geeeeesh...  I actually have had accounts on here with long wrote out profiles and a picture of what I look like.   Now, I know I am really real and actually a number of people from here know me as well.    I really don't have much to hide.  As Whiplashsmile I made over 1,600 message board posts, and think I'm a little over 200 with this account.

I don't know what to tell you, there are a lot of people on the otherside with and without profiles that are full of shit.  There are very real people without a profile wrote up that are very real.   I actually know a few other people that don't have much of anything on their profile, cause they got tired of all the Fakers and Wanna be's.   The fact is that, it makes email a lot more easy to manage too.   If you don't have much on your profile you actually spend less time on here. 

The fact is that, it can become a real waste of time and a time pit responding to every email that lands in your CM inbox.   It's not the fakes and wanna be's that is the problem, it's the time they take up with their emails. 

I've come to the conclusion some of the more real people, don't have much of a profile up. 


I believe profile or not, the real people are on this side. Not to say that there are no real people on the other side. But when people hang around to give their opinion, help, support or encouragement then they are real.

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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/9/2008 7:32:17 AM   
KatyLied


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quote:

the real people are on this side.


? Do you really believe that?  Just because people post on a message board doesn't make them any more real or twue than anyone else.  You see what people allow you to see, both on this side and the other side.


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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/9/2008 7:57:15 AM   
Jeffff


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

the real people are on this side.


? Do you really believe that?  Just because people post on a message board doesn't make them any more real or twue than anyone else.  You see what people allow you to see, both on this side and the other side.



Tall, bearded Professional QB in the Pitsburg area, seeks sarcastic female sub.

Ben

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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/9/2008 8:00:08 AM   
Kalista07


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Tall, bearded Professional QB in the Pitsburg area, seeks sarcastic female sub.

Ben



Yeah...................Jefff............About that..................We've been meaning to tell You.............This is what NONE of us see's when we look at You.... :P


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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/9/2008 8:23:43 AM   
KatyLied


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quote:


Tall, bearded Professional QB in the Pitsburg area, seeks sarcastic female sub.


lol


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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/9/2008 9:07:06 AM   
SubbieOnWheels


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Joined: 12/14/2007
Status: offline 		I'm not replying to any specific message, just to the thread in general.

When a Dom with little or no profile contacts me with an interesting-sounding message, I will respond by saying something like, "Thank you for contacting me. Your profile is rather sparse. Could you tell me a little bit about yourself?"

OTOH, if the first contact is something like, "Hi, sexy," I ignore it.

The Nigerians are on every dating site on the internet - I'm on several, including those for disabled people, and I've learned that there are an amazing number of American men temporarily posted to Africa on business - men whose wife (and in most cases daughter) was killed in a car accident 6 years ago.

I give a man the benefit of the doubt, but if he's really interested in me, he'd darn well be forthcoming with the details pretty quickly.

SubbieOnWheels

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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/9/2008 12:14:23 PM   
lusciouslips19


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

the real people are on this side.


? Do you really believe that?  Just because people post on a message board doesn't make them any more real or twue than anyone else.  You see what people allow you to see, both on this side and the other side.



So isnt that the way life is in general?
I have found that the scammers dont post here. Just my opinion
and I am able to have them.

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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/9/2008 1:21:32 PM   
ModeratorEleven


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Status: offline 		Scammers post here all the time.  Their posts just have an amazingly short lifespan.

XI


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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/9/2008 2:06:15 PM   
lusciouslips19


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ModeratorEleven

Scammers post here all the time.  Their posts just have an amazingly short lifespan.

XI



And the people here seem to be wise to them. They are outed quickly.

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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/9/2008 3:54:09 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		I'm pretty sure they're no longer approving profiles.  That was a thing of the past.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Maya2001

It could be a new person whose profile was not approved yet,  I have seen that happen before

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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/9/2008 4:11:36 PM   
KindLadyGrey


Posts: 358
Joined: 11/6/2007
Status: offline 		(FR)
It really depends on what they say in their initial message. My boy right now has no profile to speak of, and the most ridiculous and useless picture ever, but his initial message to me was so sweet and polite that I happily exchanged yahoo nicks and started chatting with him, and eventually met for real and everything worked out wonderfully.

If their initial message is something lame like "Hey, you seem interesting, wanna chat?" I might, MIGHT reply to it if they have an interesting and detailed profile.

Of course, if you have both, it's even better, but if someone with no profile wants a reply from me then their initial message better stand out. I wouldn't say to distrust people without profiles as a general rule. If the initial message is nice and personal and interesting, go ahead and reply. If the initial message does nothing for you and they have no profile to save them from mediocrity, then delete them and move on.

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RE: being contacted by those without profiles - 1/9/2008 4:23:08 PM   
Griswold


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Joined: 2/12/2007
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quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

What do you think of those who contact without a profile? I hve been contacted by those with no profile. Some gives excuses like, "I got tired of all the fakes and wannabees", so I turned it off? Is anyone else here suspicious when a Dom doesnt have a profile or do you give someone a chance anyway?

This is just a cuiosity. I am not looking any longer. However, I am always suspicious of those who dont have a detailed profile. the ones with none at all get no chance.

Who here is suspicious too? Who has had sucess with those who are profileless?


I got contacted by a woman with no fingers and toes.

(But she did have a tinfoil hat).

(That's how she communicated with me).

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