Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore?

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wankerforuse -> Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/8/2008 5:22:29 PM)
Does anyone know as ten years ago in England/the uk,alot of ladies and men were wearing it for a night out on the town.But thesedays if i go out for a night out on my own or with friends,i no longer see people wearing fetish gear but why oh why?

AquaticSub -> RE: Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/8/2008 5:25:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wankerforuse Does anyone know as ten years ago in England/the uk,alot of ladies and men were wearing it for a night out on the town.But thesedays if i go out for a night out on my own or with friends,i no longer see people wearing fetish gear but why oh why? I see collars and cuffs all the time in the punk/goth culture. I wear mine sometimes.

Daddysredhead -> RE: Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/8/2008 5:29:42 PM)
I dressed up as a goth girl for Halloween at my office this past year. It was fun and it was the one time that I was able to wear my thick leather collar in a nilla setting without so much as a second glance. I enjoy wearing fetish type stuff, but most of my things would leave little to the imagination and a whole lotta bosoms in plain view. LOL... [8D]

amayos -> RE: Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/8/2008 5:48:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wankerforuse Does anyone know as ten years ago in England/the uk,alot of ladies and men were wearing it for a night out on the town.But thesedays if i go out for a night out on my own or with friends,i no longer see people wearing fetish gear but why oh why? But why wear "fetish gear" in public when it looks so foolishly out of place? We can dress elegantly and live beautifully, harboring the mystery of our proclivities and savoring them privately. I would rather that than become a t-shirt for a "lifestyle." I've met individuals who unabashedly wear their "gear" out on the streets of the city. While they tend to be numb to the notion of how utterly absurd they look, it does not keep them from looking like (and being treated like) freaks by the general public.

MsLadySue -> RE: Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/8/2008 6:29:25 PM)
In my case it's because I don't own any. I prefer to spend my money on evil toys. [:)]

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/8/2008 6:34:55 PM)
Cuz you're older and your mind screens you from all the hotties who don't look at you anymore so you won't have to feel rejected.

sexyred1 -> RE: Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/8/2008 6:41:52 PM)
Because we don't have to broadcast our interests by what we wear in public? Unless you feel you need to wear a uniform that shows the vanilla world what you are into, go right ahead. I don't think it makes you less hot to be more discreet, either. I think it gives you a bit more class and taste actually.

popeye1250 -> RE: Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/8/2008 7:28:57 PM)
I often wear a pistol on my hip, does that count?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/8/2008 9:02:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 I don't think it makes you less hot to be more discreet, either. I think it gives you a bit more class and taste actually. Discretion to a certain point, but trust me, I've looked more like a classy woman in my leather corset and black skirt than a whole lot of well dressed bland women on the street not to mention either of the Olsen twins in the past three years and they cover themselves in fabric.

Suzykeu -> RE: Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/8/2008 9:04:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Cuz you're older and your mind screens you from all the hotties who don't look at you anymore so you won't have to feel rejected. Outch!

Owner59 -> RE: Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/8/2008 9:09:55 PM)
There is very cute girl at my drugstore,who descretely wears corsets under her street closes.Not sure if she`s in the lifestyle, but man,!!

sexyred1 -> RE: Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/8/2008 9:20:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 I don't think it makes you less hot to be more discreet, either. I think it gives you a bit more class and taste actually. Discretion to a certain point, but trust me, I've looked more like a classy woman in my leather corset and black skirt than a whole lot of well dressed bland women on the street not to mention either of the Olsen twins in the past three years and they cover themselves in fabric. I am going to have to agree with you on that point!! And a leather corset and black skirt, I think that is classy; I thought they were talking about chains and cuffs in public.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/8/2008 9:27:50 PM)
Well I've done those too, I think most things (other than tights and lame) can be classy if done well.

eevin -> RE: Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/8/2008 9:44:11 PM)
Wearing it all the time takes away the special feeling of it all. And there's people who just never understand and won't leave you alone when you're dressed like that in public. Plus the term 'fetish wear' varies from person to person: One person's fetish might be leather...another person's cotton. So how do you know no one is wearing their fetish in public?

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/8/2008 9:53:37 PM)
I personally think most fetish clothing looks horribly unflattering on most people, and I think it's a waste of money for me personally to spend any money on.

petdave -> RE: Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/8/2008 10:09:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Cuz you're older and your mind screens you from all the hotties who don't look at you anymore so you won't have to feel rejected. Hm, what age does that kick in? The David Berkowitz voice in my head is really wearing me down [&:] Personally, i had to stop because i just don't have the balance to walk on vomit in platform heels... Doesn't anyone live by "If thy eye should offend thee, pluck it out" anymore??

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/8/2008 10:12:54 PM)
Trust me, if I could rip off offensive tights and exposed bra straps without dealing with trouble afterwards, I'd happily spend a few weekends doing just that.

Nosathro -> RE: Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/8/2008 10:24:03 PM)
I think the closest thing I come to wearing anything different in public is a T-shirt that says "My other T-shirt is a Tunic"

Aneirin -> RE: Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/9/2008 12:06:49 AM)
I got accused of turning up at a munch in fet gear, I always wear leather, even for art college.

MistresssAria -> RE: Just out of interest why does'nt anyone where fetish clothing in public anymore? (1/9/2008 2:43:17 AM)
I almost always wear it if I'm going out to a bar/club/event.........I live around a lot of sports bars though, walking by them is always entertaining.........I get a lot of drunken high-fives! I like to wear what I have fun in! Cops have looked at me kinda funny-like though!

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