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What were You feeling - 1/9/2008 6:49:48 AM   
takenbyjohnr07


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Status: offline 		the very first time You Dominanted someone? was it a good experience for You? were You nervous at all? Thanks

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RE: What were You feeling - 1/9/2008 7:51:36 AM   
kinkypuppy2


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Status: offline 		I LIKE IT  and why did i not do this 20 yrs ago

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RE: What were You feeling - 1/9/2008 8:00:56 AM   
Rushemery


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Status: offline 		best way for me to describe it is, you get an endorphin rush

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RE: What were You feeling - 1/9/2008 8:22:12 AM   
takenbyjohnr07


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Status: offline 		i am so glad that it was a positive experience for both of You. :)

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RE: What were You feeling - 1/9/2008 5:26:03 PM   
signusnova


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Status: offline 		WOW I thought this has to be done more often.
regards, Signus

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RE: What were You feeling - 1/9/2008 7:39:23 PM   
RoughFN


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Status: offline 		I only vaguely remember it. We'd talked online quite a bit and I think we'd gone out to lunch or dinner at some point. A few days later, very late in the evening we started talking online and she was free so she came over. I think she was over around like 11pm.

But I don't remember what we did. I think I probably handcuffed her and probably gave her a light whipping. Not that I had any serious equipment at the time or really knew how to use it by that point. Then she blew me on the couch.

I wasn't that nervous, but very excited. But it clearly didn't leave much of an impression on me. We only got together a few times.

Subsequent first encounters have gone much better for me, since now I know what I want to do and how to do it. So I don't just go into 'em excited, I do it prepared.

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RE: What were You feeling - 1/9/2008 8:17:28 PM   
takenbyjohnr07


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Status: offline 		Very wise. Thanks for sharing.

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RE: What were You feeling - 1/9/2008 8:21:37 PM   
junecleaver


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Status: offline 		I was thinking, 'I hope he does this to me later.' LOL

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RE: What were You feeling - 1/9/2008 8:43:13 PM   
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RE: What were You feeling - 1/9/2008 8:55:31 PM   
takenbyjohnr07


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Status: offline 		That's funny, because i grew up in a big city and was ashemed for the things i felt. i didn't think anyone was thinking like me. Now i know better. :) They are out there.

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RE: What were You feeling - 1/9/2008 9:05:35 PM   
Asherdelampyr


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RE: What were You feeling - 1/9/2008 9:15:57 PM   
takenbyjohnr07


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Status: offline 		That is so cool!

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RE: What were You feeling - 1/10/2008 2:37:04 AM   
Bear88


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Status: offline 		I had had a little experience prior to what I consider my first “real scene”, but nothing at all substantial. It consisted of some private bedroom play with my then girlfriend (light bondage, spanking, and some D/s), and a short taste of co-topping once with an experienced master and his slave.

I had also set about preparing myself as best as I could for the real thing. Reading, going to workshops, joining an organization and attending a national event, and getting advice and guidance from a wonderful Mistress/mentor.

About four months into my journey I met someone at a workshop, and we hit it off rather well, continuing to chat via e-mail and meeting for coffee and such. One night after a trip to a local club, we went back to her place, finished negotiating a scene, and….

It was incredible. The moment of truth – finally. Yes, I was nervous, but didn’t seem to show it. I concentrated on staying focused and paying attention, being safe, and of course, enjoying the unbelievable rush throughout the scene. Something inside me again really clicked into place that night.

So yeah, it was darn good, and she enjoyed it too. I’m still out there learning what I can, slowly gaining more experience, and loving every minute of it.

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RE: What were You feeling - 1/10/2008 11:55:10 AM   
FRSguy


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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

the very first time You Dominanted someone? was it a good experience for You? were You nervous at all? Thanks


Was a great experience and yes I was very nervouse.

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RE: What were You feeling - 1/10/2008 12:03:20 PM   
KnOcala


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Status: offline 		It felt good the first time I held a flogger in my hand.  It felt right.

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RE: What were You feeling - 1/10/2008 12:12:53 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		It was better than the best high ever! It still is.

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RE: What were You feeling - 1/10/2008 12:17:33 PM   
MissHarlet


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Status: offline 		I started in the lifestyle as a submissive more than 20 years ago .. and mentored many submissives and believe it or not many newbie dominants.  I also trained many submissives in protocol and posture and proper service .. but never topped anyone or used any toys on anyone.  For years I was told ... "one day you will wake up and realize you are truly a dominant" .. I laughed and thought they were crazy. I was told Iwas an excellant submissive by many and that is why dominants asked me to mentor their submissives.

Then one day about 8 years ago .. I talked to a male sub that triggered a desire in me to make him mine..  and the rest as they say was History. 

I was not nervous with him when I started teaching him service and protocol etc.. but the first time I bound him and picked up a flogger I was nervous.. and wondered if I had a clue what I was doing.  I took a deep breath and thought " Im going to do to this man what I KNOW I liked and what I know is right "   I drew my hand back and swung the flogger and when it connected with his back .. I smiled and tears of joy ran down my cheeks for I KNEW that I was finally where I belonged. 

I had a world of knowledge of what not to do .. and had learned what to do from some people I respected a lot. I consider myself very lucky to have started this journey in what I call the old school way.  Its not for everyone but worked for me.

So for the short form .. it was exciting .. scarey ... fulfilling .. and I was finally complete.

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RE: What were You feeling - 1/10/2008 1:06:27 PM   
TMaster2


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Status: offline 		The first time I can remember actively doing this was in college, many many years ago.  I was taking a girlfriend from the rear, and I hauled off and started spanking her and going all Dom'ly on her.  She started having little orgasms with each spank, each grip and twist.  She told me later she'd never had anything like that happen, nor had I, and needless to say, I was hooked.  My inner beast had emerged ;)

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RE: What were You feeling - 1/10/2008 2:15:44 PM   
ElanSubdued


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takenbyjohnr07:
What were You feeling the very first time You Dominanted someone?


...I was feeling/thinking "gee her ass looks so much sexier with welts" so I hit her some more. :-)

Many stripes and a few hours later, I was worried that I'd actually hurt my charge so I called her at work.  She assured me everything was fine and that she had a wonderful time.  I still wasn't convinced.  It took a few more phone calls (this time her calling me because she was concerned about my feelings) for me to realize that everything was okay.  Later that day, we had dinner together and shared some vanilla time.  The whole thing was a powerful experience for both of us.  Belts are such wonderful things (as are willing yet willful submissives).  And I must say, I smiled quite fondly watching her try to sit down; what delicious squirming on raw, still-tender flesh.

Elan.

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RE: What were You feeling - 1/10/2008 5:22:01 PM   
SirJohnMandevill


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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

the very first time You Dominanted someone? was it a good experience for You? were You nervous at all? Thanks


Some butterflies, but they departed as soon as she walked through the door. And yes, all our times together were extraordinary...especially the first.

It's really just like when you hit it off with someone on a first date...but much more intense and satisfying.

I'm currently waiting for my next first time....

Les (Purveyor of Fine, Handcrafted Kink)

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