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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 9:05:16 AM

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affirmative grunts?

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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 9:15:38 AM

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actualy......you can.......it's forcing the unwilling that gets you in trouble...:)

Hmmm...you speak like you have some experience in that matter. Possibly involving choking someone to death?

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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 9:20:43 AM

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At this time, I have no recollection of that event.

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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 9:26:24 AM

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At this time, I have no recollection of that event.

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Mr. President, is that you?

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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 9:37:30 AM

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I did not have sex with that young woman!!!

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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 9:52:29 AM

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You mean that you can have sex with young women? Dumps all of the old broads over 25

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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 9:57:28 AM

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i've never personally had a contract drafted, i've never really seen the need in the past as i have always explained in great detail where i'm at and what my limits are etc.....

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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 10:40:34 AM

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You mean that you can have sex with young women? Dumps all of the old broads over 25

Geez Ray... I thought you liked us old and broad.

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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 11:20:32 AM

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i was under the impression one could only "have" Ron if they gave him a blowjob!
Have i been "practicing" fo nothing?

I think that depends on "whom" you have been "practicing".

"Taggard"

I've been using the overseas support center, was that wrong?

'ok ma'am...let me see if I can help............do you have a firm grip?".." you do? ok.....are you giving the tip or.."head" the proper attention?.............you are?.....can you hold while I go get my supervisor?"

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I resemble.. errr, resent that remark. Could you please hold while I research this issue further? ::places you on mute, rather than hold, to listen to your personal conversations:: <EG>

(The Gods help me, I really do work in tech support.)

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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 11:46:45 AM

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In my opinion, it is BDSM's fault. There are plenty of terms that mean exactly how BDSM uses them, but they don't "feel" quite as "good". The fault does not lie in the terms available in a dictionary or their meanings. The fault lies in those who choose to use terms to mean what they do not mean. I have no issue with making things up as we go along, but I do have an issue with manipulating and prostituting those things that have already been made up and have an established meaning.

Language is not a static thing. It evolves and changes over time. For example, the word "submissive" used as a noun is not proper English, yet we use it around here quite frequently and it is a colloquial usuage to do so in the larger society. It is not prostituting a word to create new uses for it, it is just an evolution of that word.

I tend to get tense about certain "words" that are not "words" gaining acceptance too (like the so-called word "irregardless" for example), but I also know that if a word gets used enough in a certain way, then that definition will become an accepted definition... perhaps never the primary definition, but a secondary one nonetheless

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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 11:49:57 AM

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You mean that you can have sex with young women? Dumps all of the old broads over 25

Geez Ray... I thought you liked us old and broad.

Cali

Yeah, really, and here is lying to me all this time.

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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 12:03:02 PM

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At this time, I have no recollection of that event.

Jeff

Mr. President, is that you?

Depends on what your definition of 'is' is...

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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 12:21:55 PM

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Its amazing the conversation i missed by giving a massage! You guys are wacked!

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I think that depends on "whom" you have been "practicing".

"Taggard"

Well, i am not in the habit of "suck and tell" but UNFORTUNATELY for me it wasn't you!

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'ok ma'am...let me see if I can help............do you have a firm grip?".." you do? ok.....are you giving the tip or.."head" the proper attention?.............you are?.....can you hold while I go get my supervisor?"

Raji****techsupport.com

So it was YOU that kept me on indefinite HOLD! i am now suffering from an open locked jaw! Is there a complaint department?

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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 12:58:44 PM

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sadlly........no.......

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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 1:48:56 PM

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I still haven't figured out whom they are raising funds for. I think it's a scam that SimplyMichael is carrying out in order to fatten his wallet.

I have never trusted that guy.

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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 1:50:35 PM

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You should get a prominent spot on the CM calender!

Do you owe me money?

Be very careful...I hear he is collecting Doms. He already has Ron.

Taggard

Didn't I see this in "Silence of the Lambs"?

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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 1:54:47 PM

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I still haven't figured out whom they are raising funds for. I think it's a scam that SimplyMichael is carrying out in order to fatten his wallet.

I have never trusted that guy.

John

Maybe HE owes you money?....

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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 1:55:14 PM

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Language is not a static thing. It evolves and changes over time. For example, the word "submissive" used as a noun is not proper English, yet we use it around here quite frequently and it is a colloquial usuage to do so in the larger society. It is not prostituting a word to create new uses for it, it is just an evolution of that word.

Creating new uses for a word is not the same as creating new meanings for it. Is it any wonder that many people do not understand "us"?

John

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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 1:58:19 PM

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Actually the meanings of words evolve in different ways. Sometimes there are entirely new uses for a word that come into use, other times it is just a shade of meaning. People involved with different subcultures often have varying nomenclature for what it is that they are doing.. it is rather common and not unique to WIITWD.

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RE: Contracts - 1/11/2008 1:58:27 PM

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Perhaps if you dont like someones style of questions and responses you could just ignore the threads they start and then you wouldnt be frustrated by that person and there would be no need for flameing them and the rest of us wouldnt have to read thru the crap and everyone would be happier and we would all learn more.
That way you wont have to worry about a OPs age or intellect or anything and the OP can ask the questions in their own way and perhaps get answers from people that are willing to give them the benefit of their experience or knowlege.

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