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signusnova -> Horror Realities! (1/9/2008 6:09:04 PM)

Dear Masters and slaves who read these posts:
Submission is a very intimate relationship.  It has to be done with the right person.  Doing it with the wrong person can be disappointing...Sometimes even scary?
In rare times it can go so wrong.  what experiences have you had in which a sweet little slave turned on you and nearly tried to harm you?  Have they turned into psychos... withpout even laying a finger on her?

I had an experience once. A really bad one. 
After my first experience Dominanting a slave girl here in my home country I thought I have seen everything.  I started to go out with one really nice and sweet woman in her late twenties.  She seemed like a good person at first.  We played a few times and every time she seemed to like everything was ok.  One night after our play session and after telling ME to chain her to the bed post we went to sleep. I woke up with a knife to my neck (I am still clueless on how she got unchained in the first place).  She demanded money.  She took Lps. 1500 lempiras ($75 dollars) out of my wallet. Then she left.  I called the police and naturally they captured her and I got my money back.  She then told them I had belted her earlier (the police did not seem concered about it though). She got 6 months in jail.

She did not appear to need money.  She certainly fooled me.  Ever since I sleep with one eye opened and with a loaded 9mm Glock under my pillow when ever I have submissives over.

Your thoughts,
Signus



Rover -> RE: Horror Realities! (1/9/2008 6:11:42 PM)

Evidently I choose my partners more carefully.
 
John



KatyLied -> RE: Horror Realities! (1/9/2008 6:15:29 PM)

quote:

Your thoughts,


Men can be psychos too.
If you feel the need to arm yourself you probably shouldn't invite that person into your bedroom.



Maya2001 -> RE: Horror Realities! (1/9/2008 6:27:50 PM)

That is why most of us subs want to get to know the doms in non d/s terms  and meet in safe places at first to get to know them  to ensure we are not getting mixed up with psychos before we start playing 



darkpassenger434 -> RE: Horror Realities! (1/9/2008 6:33:07 PM)

Just a note from someone who works in security. If someone is stealthy enough to unchain themselves and get a knife while you sleep all sleeping with a gun under your pillow is likely to do is just give them a really great way to shoot you in the face that isn't traceable. Might just be a little more careful with sub choice.
-R



MasterFireMaam -> RE: Horror Realities! (1/9/2008 7:27:40 PM)

Any weapon you have handy can be used against you...especially if you aren't aware of it (like you're sleeping). Learn to disarm someone.

Master Fire



Missokyst -> RE: Horror Realities! (1/9/2008 7:33:39 PM)

That is so true.  I have slipped cuffs, reversed zip ties, and loosened ropes if I want to badly enough.  And taknig someone down is not that hard if you are determined.
I would advise against keeping a gun (glock or not) near the bed.  A better idea might be to get to know your partner well before inviting them to spend the night.
Kyst
quote:

ORIGINAL: darkpassenger434

Just a note from someone who works in security. If someone is stealthy enough to unchain themselves and get a knife while you sleep all sleeping with a gun under your pillow is likely to do is just give them a really great way to shoot you in the face that isn't traceable. Might just be a little more careful with sub choice.
-R



SirMIkeSD -> RE: Horror Realities! (1/9/2008 7:42:56 PM)

You are in Central America, it's a whole another story there, I spent 2 years in Sounth America and 6 months in Panama.  I will assume that it is similar at least the culture.  I recommend that you take things a little slower, knowing that BDSM is no where near as accepted there as it is in the EU and North America (and it's not very here).  My boy and I found it very hard to find play mates while we where down there and I have to say that when we did after spending time with them first to make sure that it would work, with most of them we decieded against playing with them.

Also not to sound negitive here but petty crime was very rampant where I was and a few of our non-kinky friends had simpilar things like what happened to you happen to them on sleep overs.

Just spend more time with them to make sure next time.
Mike



junecleaver -> RE: Horror Realities! (1/9/2008 7:58:47 PM)

You should wait a little bit longer to see if they exhibit any symptoms of craziness.  It must be hard to find kinksters in Honduras.



sunshinemiss -> RE: Horror Realities! (1/9/2008 8:22:32 PM)

Hmmm... I'm surprised by your post because I just read the other one in which you wonder why subs and slaves are rather reluctant to just drop to their knees for you.  Well, now you know...  It's a safety thing. And by the way, if I ever was with a man who felt he needed a gun under his pillow, I would RUN.  But, let's see... oh yes, GET TO KNOW YOUR PARTNER.

peace (and no guns) 



KnOcala -> RE: Horror Realities! (1/10/2008 11:13:00 AM)

No gun.  Bad idea.  I would have a gun locked away and never mention it.
Sleep with one eye open. 
if you wake with a knife to your throat, you won't get to the gun anyway



AnimusRex -> RE: Horror Realities! (1/10/2008 5:32:46 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: signusnova
Ever since I sleep with one eye opened and with a loaded 9mm Glock under my pillow when ever I have submissives over.


In My country, when a sex partner asks if you have protection, this isn't really what she means.



Leatherist -> RE: Horror Realities! (1/10/2008 6:27:07 PM)

Push them a bit to see if they go nuts BEFORE you let them sleep over.



MzMia -> RE: Horror Realities! (1/10/2008 7:10:03 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Rover

Evidently I choose my partners more carefully.
 
John


As John said, and ONE big reason I don't deal with strangers or play "casually"
with folks I have not taken the time to get to know WELL, before we do anything.[;)]



AtlantisKing111 -> RE: Horror Realities! (1/10/2008 8:43:04 PM)

That's why I insist on meeting anyone I don't know at public vanilla places the first few times, and only play privately with people I have known awhile and trust.



TMaster2 -> RE: Horror Realities! (1/10/2008 9:13:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: darkpassenger434

Just a note from someone who works in security. If someone is stealthy enough to unchain themselves and get a knife while you sleep all sleeping with a gun under your pillow is likely to do is just give them a really great way to shoot you in the face that isn't traceable. Might just be a little more careful with sub choice.
-R

My thoughts exactly!



laurell3 -> RE: Horror Realities! (1/10/2008 9:55:07 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AnimusRex

quote:

ORIGINAL: signusnova
Ever since I sleep with one eye opened and with a loaded 9mm Glock under my pillow when ever I have submissives over.


In My country, when a sex partner asks if you have protection, this isn't really what she means.



LOL

The whole loaded gun under the pillow thing isn't at all sexy or promoting a feeling of intimacy for me either.  Being psycho because someone was psycho to you isn't really an answer.  While I agree we need to be careful, people can fool you even when you are careful.  You have to balance caution with being able to trust though, which can be hard.



Sabella -> RE: Horror Realities! (1/11/2008 6:30:06 AM)

Next time tie them to the wall covered with jingle bells? Better yet, tied up in the closet covered with bells with a chair under the doorknob. Sleep soundly!

I'm curious why she felt the need to put a knife to your throat. If she was stealthily clever enough to get unchained, she could have rummaged thru your wallet herself and slipped out while you slept.



DesFIP -> RE: Horror Realities! (1/12/2008 6:21:28 PM)

It seems obvious that she claimed to be into wiitwd in order to rob you. Maybe if you would get to know women as friends first, you could judge their intentions better.



vampchick88 -> RE: Horror Realities! (1/12/2008 6:36:38 PM)

  It could have been worse, trust me I had an awful event happen to me last year. I trusted somone who I had been playing with for a few months and what that SOB did I'll never forgive. At least she didn't cut you or worse. Damn its getting to be a world where you can hardly trust anybody!!



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