This is such a new experience and yet the need has been there for quite some time.
I am slowly learning of not only my wants but needs in a relationship. I began to notice that there was a desire within me that stretched beyond simple spanking and into an area of yearnng for control. I am, however, not entirely inclined to control every situation and this left me in a state of confusion for some time. Only recently, with the help of a wonderful friend, did I find my true interest to be that of a switch relationship. In this capacity, I have learned and taught.
My first interest is that of learning to be comfortable with my partner. Trust is of the utmost importance in order to truely enjoy the experience. Caring for my partner is the other. So simple and yet so very important.
I am here to learn.
