SadistDave
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I'm a bit confused here. The original post is talking about total submission as a way of life AND as a purely sexual sensation. If you are looking for a purely sexual sort of thing, you're already on a good track. Tying someone up is just about the easiest way to make them physically helpless.
If this is something she craves as a way of life, there are several simple things you can do. They may not all be practical for your situation. After all, most of us live in the real world, and even those who don't are subjected to it from time to time. However, all of them can fit into your lifestyle in varying degrees.
You're talking about helplessness and total submission. These are psychological issues more than physical ones. They are control issues, so what you might want to consider are ways to assume control of her life.
1. Control her money. If it's at all possible, don't let her even touch money, credit cards, the checkbook, etc. Money represents fiscal freedom, and without it, she will be entirely dependent on you for everything she needs. If she works, make her deposit her money in an account that you control.
2. Do not allow her to wear clothing at home without your permission. Lock up all of the clothing in the household, including shoes. Locking these things away is important because it denies her the ability to choose to wear them. Pick out her outfits for work, nights out, etc. and lay them out in advance. Require her to put her clothing into a container that only allows one way access immediately upon entering your home. As a woman without shoes or clothing, your home will become a quite effective prison. She will not be able to go out unless she has your permission, won't be able to answer the door if someone shows up unexpectedly, get the mail, or even feel comfortable opening the windows in some parts of your home. If you have visitors, decide whether she can wear clothing or not.
While it's true that she can do some things close to the house by wrapping herself in a towel or blanket, those things are very limited...
3. If you have a home phone, disconnect it and get 1 cell phone to keep with you at all times. Password your computer, and do not allow her access to the internet when you aren't home. If she needs access to the internet, make her leave the room while you log in. Find a way to lock up your television and any other mass media devices. Having no contact with the outside world will mean she must rely on you for every shred of information. (Except what she may get at work.)
4. Put all of her personal possessions in storage. Photo albums, teddy bears, dishes... whatever... it all goes. The only personal things to keep are hygene related items. This may sound pretty stupid, but it isn't. Ownership is psychologicly empowering.
5. Do not let her drive. Anywhere! Drive her wherever she needs to go. Do all the household shopping with her, drive her to work and pick her up. If she has to go to visit someone, drive her and either stay with her for the visit, or keep to a strict schedule of when you will drop her off and pick her up. In this way, you control her professional and social activities. Also, do not let her pick the radio station in the car. See #3.
All of that sounds pretty difficult, but it's really not. Simply put, these 5 things combined will make her entirely dependant on you. Without clothing, cash, information, or personal possessions, she is effectively helpless, while still having limited amount of freedom within your home. While it may sound like fun to chain her to the bed 24/7, it's also not safe or practical to do so without someone monitoring the home, which is probably something you don't really want...
Give her tasks to do to keep her occupied when you aren't home, and make sure that some of them keep her active and stimulated mentally. Although she is not allowed to touch the money, make her responsible for the household budget. Provide open-ended tasks with clear objectives that allow for her to decide for herself how to accomplish them.
Good behavior should be rewarded though. When you take her out to dinner, let her order what she likes, but do not allow her to speak, except in polite phrases like "please" and "Thank you" to anyone. Order her food for her. When she is good, bring her home perishable treats like fresh flowers or baked goods like pastries or her favorite dessert. Don't reward her with anything that can be saved for more than a few days before going bad. Most candy and packaged treats can be saved for a long time, which may become a substitute for ownership.
Like I said, some (or all) of this may be completely unpractical for your situation. However, if nothing else, I hope it will get you thinking about how you can make your situation work out.
-SD-
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