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How old is too Old? - 1/11/2008 3:14:00 AM   
impishlilhellcat


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Status: offline 		I'm sure this subject has been broached many times before and I am sure I will get a lot of posting of links on the subject and also I'm not quite sure this is the proper space. BUT with that being said I've seen quite of bit of banter on a lot of the forums and I enjoy it and hey I don't mind my post being hijacked. Out of curiosity, yes I am quite the curious little critter. Age differences between partners how does everyone feel about the issue and if there's a connection between two people does the age difference really matter and at what point is it too much?

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RE: How old is too Old? - 1/11/2008 3:35:39 AM   
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Age differences between partners how does everyone feel about the issue and if there's a connection between two people does the age difference really matter and at what point is it too much?


Love is love, and it's rare enough, so.... don't let the difference in age prevent something good, IMO.

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RE: How old is too Old? - 1/11/2008 3:36:11 AM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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Status: offline 		"if there's a connection between two people does the age difference really matter and at what point is it too much?"

Age doesn't really matter..the point of no return in my opinion is when the sub wants children and the Dom believes he is too old or just too old for children.......

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RE: How old is too Old? - 1/11/2008 3:58:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: impishlilhellcat
Age differences between partners how does everyone feel about the issue and if there's a connection between two people does the age difference really matter and at what point is it too much?

As I'm sure many will say, age is simply a number.  If the levels of maturity between two people match then the chronological difference between them shouldn't matter.   Chronological age and maturity are two different things.  I've met people who are chronologically 20 but have the mind and maturity of a 40 year old, and vice versa.  The maturity is what's going to matter, at least insofar as physical health doesn't become an issue.

The problem of physical health is what may ultimately be the more looming issue as time goes on.  A 60 year old with a 40 year old partner will most certainly see issues arise in many fronts, simply from the natural aging process.  I know that there are plenty of very active 60 year olds and I hope to be one when I grow up.  However time does march on and maladies accrue.  That doesn't mean that it can't happen and if both parties are ultimately happy, who's to say boo otherwise?  Certainly not me.

There are many "formulae" out there for determining the age that one should seek in a partner.  The most common one I know is for the male to halve his age and add 7 to arrive at the "perfect" age for a female companion.  In my case, that would be.... let's see.... carry the one... 28.    I would certainly look toward an intelligent and capable 28 year old as a very good match for me.  My desires to live a life in both the D/s and vanilla world, complete with the potential of family, means that a 28 year old partner and I would be able to get to know each other and have "grown-up" fun before moving on to raising a family.  (Not that it isn't possible to have grown-up fun while being a parent, I mean this only in the sense that priorities change focus.)

All of the above is my opinion and thought only.  I certainly speak for no one else, I have enough voices in my head already.



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RE: How old is too Old? - 1/11/2008 4:00:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		My maid is 21 years younger than me, so I'd say anything over a 21 year difference is terrible and wrong. 

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RE: How old is too Old? - 1/11/2008 4:00:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am 60+ and when I grow up I want at least 3 18year old wenches...bounty

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RE: How old is too Old? - 1/11/2008 6:42:33 AM   
cautiousiasub


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Status: offline 		Hmmm...guess I'm too old for Bounty...

Seriously though, age is just a number and nothing else. It all comes down to compatiblity.

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RE: How old is too Old? - 1/11/2008 8:17:00 AM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		Doug is six years older than me.  Yes, age mattered when I was searching.  With my experience in the lifestyle I was getting people 30+ years older than me.
I didn't want to have to change my dominants diapers a year or two after we got together.  I wanted someone to grow old with.
I didn't have a maximun age at that time.  It pretty much depended on their own well being...etc.


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RE: How old is too Old? - 1/11/2008 12:55:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		i have never placed an age limit on any prospective relationship.  i have met men that are 20 years older that still act like they are 12.  Conversely i have met some 20 year olds that act far older and wiser than their years would indicate.  So i try to take each person for who they are, not what number happens to be listed on their DL

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RE: How old is too Old? - 1/11/2008 1:08:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yesterday I was too old.....today I am much younger

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RE: How old is too Old? - 1/11/2008 1:20:54 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		Too old is too old to do what I tell her to do.

Or Peach just said: "Plus if they have to wear Depends."  OK, she's probably right about that.

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RE: How old is too Old? - 1/11/2008 2:07:14 PM   
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Too old is too old to do what I tell her to do.

Or Peach just said: "Plus if they have to wear Depends."  OK, she's probably right about that.


Now you never know, that might be someone's kink!


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RE: How old is too Old? - 1/11/2008 2:21:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		it all boils down the attraction. typically im attracted to much older guys
But Master is actually a few months younger than i am. It all lies in chemistry with who you are with.
Hope you get the answer you are looking for.
-bobcat

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RE: How old is too Old? - 1/11/2008 2:36:21 PM   
KnOcala


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Status: offline 		good question that there is no answer for, as long as they are legal and desiring the relationship.  What could be the problem?
Sounds easy enough but I have started seeing someone 15 years younger and I am wondering the same thing.  If I didn't have daughters closer in age to her, maybe it would be different.  So I question myself.  I will continue to see her and see how things go but I am more apprehensive then  if she was closer to my age.


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RE: How old is too Old? - 1/11/2008 4:38:23 PM   
FullCircle


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Status: offline 		Age difference = Wealth Index*Ugliness of Woman + Annual Viagra Expense Factor/Age of Man*Limpness Ratio
 
Where
 
Ugliness of Woman = Nose length*Nose straightness factor/(hair length + Personality Constant+(0.00001*Brain Index))
 
You can’t go wrong with the above formula.
 
Guideline figures are published each year for wealth index and limpness ratio.
 
http://www.lse.ac.uk/


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RE: How old is too Old? - 1/11/2008 4:59:29 PM   
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Status: offline 		For the most part, age difference isn't a too huge of a factor though persinally I have this ick issue with playing with anyone 20-30  yrs younger than myself and I'm 47. In my case I have to admit to a reverse age discrimmination as my taste run towards playing and or dating someone who is older. My last relationship was with a person who was 26 years older. My former owner is 13 yrs older than me. 

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RE: How old is too Old? - 1/11/2008 5:00:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER

I am 60+ and when I grow up I want at least 3 18year old wenches...bounty


You are incorrigible and somehow I can't picture you growing up!  LOL


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