ObeisantNovice -> Brand (ohh, the desire for bad puns here) New... (8/26/2005 3:24:47 AM)
Hello, all-- newbie, novice, pick your word, it'd probably describe me. Am here to learn, chat, get comfortable with something I've been interested in for a time. Looking forward to meeting Masters, mentors, etc., et. al!
onceburned -> RE: Brand (ohh, the desire for bad puns here) New... (8/26/2005 5:25:17 PM)
Great! It sounds as if you will fit right in. [:)]
Read the message boards for as long as you need to get comfortable, then just add your voice to the discussions. Your comments and questions will be most welcome.
As are you! Welcome to Collarme/Collarchat.
Plcy -> RE: Brand (ohh, the desire for bad puns here) New... (9/3/2005 1:45:23 AM)
I agree with "onceburned" Read and read some more. While you are learning avoid the personal contact. Get for yourself a mentor. One that is truly interested in being a mentor and not just using that ploy to intice a newbie into their bedroom.
A mentor will help you with your questions ... help you get the personal experience that you seek while you stay safe. A mentor will remind you to first meet in public because the mentor is not under the trance of subspace.
The title of your posting, "Brand". Are you telling the world that you have the fantasy of being branded? If that is your desire / lust / fantasy then I would say you have this submissive desire in your system to stay. Find the mentor that you can trust! You might even consider two mentors. That is a friend for both sides of the coin. One "female" sub and one dominate. Then you can compare notes.