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composer83 -> advice for a new Dominant (1/11/2008 12:15:19 PM)

Greetings Everyone!

i am a submissive male, who has had several years experience in the 'lifestyle,' in relationships varying in dynamic from vanilla with a little play, to 24/7 TPE. I have been seeing this woman for several months now & she is absolutely wonderful. She knows of my reverence for women & my intrinsic, submissive qualities. we've talked about it alot, & she has recently expressed her desire to share this with me. She has virtually no experience as a Domme, & i've already tried to impliment my more service-oriented desires by doing my best to please & 'spoil' her when we are together, & she enjoys this aspect... but we are talking about kicking it up a notch & she is anxious about starting out.

Can anyone lend advice as to how to begin exploring this dynamic physically & sexually? Can anyone reccomend some good literature that speaks to a woman wanting to try dominating her submissive boyfriend?

Thank you so much for your input,

~m




GoddessTeaze -> RE: advice for a new Dominant (1/11/2008 1:54:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: composer83

Greetings Everyone!
Can anyone lend advice as to how to begin exploring this dynamic physically & sexually? Can anyone reccomend some good literature that speaks to a woman wanting to try dominating her submissive boyfriend?

Thank you so much for your input,

~m
Hello m,
a site I always recommand to read is :
 
I hope Yyou will enjoy the site.
I wish Yyou both loads of goodtimes.
Warm Greetingz
 
GoddezzT`




composer83 -> RE: advice for a new Dominant (1/14/2008 1:30:24 PM)

that was an EXCELLENT resource! Thank You, GoddessTeaze...

~m




ValMari -> RE: advice for a new Dominant (11/1/2008 1:08:43 PM)

You let her stumble on this...after she already knows and wants to go on this adventure with you...Though I never heard about the book. Perhaps I should look into that. Poor darling, it's been so long.




StrictnSaucy -> RE: advice for a new Dominant (11/1/2008 7:26:48 PM)

Bring her along to your local munch.  Reading is fantastic but talking to people who have been there done that can be more benefical.




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