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Nipples - 1/11/2008 4:18:03 PM   
hoover22007


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Status: offline 		Is there anything that you can use or do to not have your nipples so sensitive...I want to have my friend play with them and use clamps but can only tolerate a little while of playing....
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RE: Nipples - 1/11/2008 4:21:10 PM   
TwistedSin


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Status: offline 		Im not really sure if there is any sure way to desensitize your nipples.  I do know that after awhile of having them clamped and roughed up a bit, you get used to it and can slowly take more and more.  Sorry I couldn't be of more help, love

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RE: Nipples - 1/11/2008 4:23:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		try piercing them...have been told it will decrease the sensitivity.... but funny that i have also been told the opposite that increases sensitivity.... 5050 chance...try your luck 

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RE: Nipples - 1/11/2008 4:31:28 PM   
TwistedSin


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Status: offline 		I had a friend get her nipples pierced and she would orgasm whenever someone touched them, for at least six months.  Crazy

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RE: Nipples - 1/11/2008 4:31:54 PM   
Politesub53


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Status: offline 		Catch a bit more skin in the clamp while playing. Its not as painful as clamping directly onto the nipple.


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RE: Nipples - 1/11/2008 5:50:25 PM   
darchChylde


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Status: offline 		i do NOT have nipples, so don't even think about going there!!! *he runs and hides from a certain beautiful redhead that he just happens to be incredibly devoted to*


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RE: Nipples - 1/11/2008 6:16:32 PM   
Macslittleimp


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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

i do NOT have nipples, so don't even think about going there!!! *he runs and hides from a certain beautiful redhead that he just happens to be incredibly devoted to*



haha oh yes you do!!  I remember biting them and pinching them hehehe

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RE: Nipples - 1/11/2008 6:29:51 PM   
darchChylde


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haha oh yes you do!!  I remember biting them and pinching them hehehe


*pouting* Well, they are small enough to not exist.  I mean, they can both be covered with the same dime.


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RE: Nipples - 1/11/2008 6:34:57 PM   
PsyVamp


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Status: offline 		It could be that you just need to build up to it. 
I also notice that my pain tolerance varies with my hormones.

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RE: Nipples - 1/11/2008 6:38:44 PM   
ElanSubdued


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TwistedSin:
Im not really sure if there is any sure way to desensitize your nipples.  I do know that after awhile of having them clamped and roughed up a bit, you get used to it and can slowly take more and more.  Sorry I couldn't be of more help, love


I second this piece of advice.  Work up slowly.  You'll be surprised how much you can take with a gradual approach.  Ugh.  Clover clamps.  Nothing gradual there. :-)  If you want to play with clamps, start with tweezer style clamps and get used to them at a light tension.  You can tighten these up as you feel more comfortable.  Later on you can graduate to more intense clamps (such as the clover style).  I find it helps if you've got other play going on simultaneously to distract you.  Yes, the clamps may hurt a bit when you put them on, but you'd be surprised how much you forget this when someone is playing with your pussy.

Once you've had the clamps on for a while, you'll stop feeling their bite as much.  If anything, it's when you take the clamps off that they hurt the most.  When you remove a clamp, blood and sensitivity comes rushing back into your nipple.  This can hurt... a lot.  So unless your partner is going for sadistic value, ask him to warn you before he takes them off.  Whether you or your partner takes the clamps off, I suggest you do some breathing to ease the pain.  Of course, with more experience, this pain actually becomes quite delicious so you may want to feel it at this point.  Like I said, work up slowly.

Politesub53's suggestion about catching more of the skin behind the nipple (instead of just the nipple itself) may also help.  Essentially, you're spreading out the tension across a greater, less sensitive area.  You'll still catch the nipple too, but just not as intensely.

Elan.

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RE: Nipples - 1/11/2008 6:44:18 PM   
MrKite


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Status: offline 		Try Aloe Vera Sunburn lotion with lidocane.  It will numb you up for awhile.

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RE: Nipples - 1/11/2008 7:06:21 PM   
SlaveTurtleFL


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Status: offline 		I have found that a softer bite decreases both the immediate intensity and the pain that comes upon removal.  Also, in general, the shorter the amount of time the clamps or clips are on, the less they will hurt upon removal.  I would stay away from clamps with bare metal, "teeth," or very small contact surfaces as they will be more intense than clamps covered by rubber sleeves, clamps with a larger contact surface, or clamps with softer materials like wood or smooth plastic with a warmer "footprint." 

Another trick would be to use wooden clothespins or those larger office-type paper sheaf clips, and prepare them for use by baking them in an oven for an hour at 400 degrees F.  (No, let them cool before using them, you sadists!  And not plastic, it will melt.)  The heat will temper the spring qualities of most metals and reduce their "bite," and clothespins and the paper clips I described have much wider "footprints" or contact surface than many nipple clamps.  Even so, keep their use below about 15 minutes if the nipples are sensitive.  The longer they are on the more they will hurt taking off.

Also take into consideration this curious fact (from my experience):  The larger the clamp, the less intense it is (given the same tension in the spring.)  Reason?  Wider contact surface.  Use bigger ones.  Use those big potato chip bag clips if you have to.

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RE: Nipples - 1/11/2008 8:13:08 PM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear hoover22007, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
Sensitivities are due to nerve bundles and sensory organs around the nipple and breast area.
 
I prefer swabbing the entire nipple area with Oral-Gel or the dental numbing agent used for toothaches.  Clove oil will also help however, it really must be hit home that the sensitivities come from blood trapped and straining against the vessel when trapped as well as feeder veins as well as nerve bundles.
 
I use rat traps [American wood rat trap] and gently ease it onto the nipple.  Being a round bar it has a gentle grip as it is round--not flat surfaces like wood clothespins.
 
If you wish to be kind to the novice, which I would support--squeeze the nipple gently and increase the pressure until you have it pinched and then place your clamp on. Remove it by placing your fingers firmly in a pinch; remove the clamp and then ease your fingers outward from a pinch to slow the rush of blood back into these feeder veins.  This is where the majority of pain comes from-- the rush of blood back into the veins.
 
It may also be a good assignment for the novice to pinch their nipples as often as they can and for as long as they can in private.  Desensitivities if you will.  I then put the rat trap on, then mice traps and then wood clothespins that have been seasoned (baked) and then unbaked wood clothespins and work on up.
 
Tissue death, according to Dr. Leather is within 10 minutes with areas like genitals and 15 minutes for ankles and wrists as far as bondage and or clamping goes.  Veins are meant to remain moist and blood flowing at all times.  So, without blood flow--it is like drying out a hose and dry rots.
 
Just some thoughts.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
 
 

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RE: Nipples - 1/11/2008 8:18:55 PM   
LadyHugs


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Status: offline 		Dear darchChylde,
 
I have an acquaintance who has tiny nipples also.  I can use medical pickups and can use a pickle puller as well.  One can also take more skin from the chest/breast and then clamp.
 
Before the over the counter 'nipple clamps' -- old fashioned 1950's sweater guards were all the rage; used two matching tweezers and used a wire as a 'ring for an adjustment to make it shut tight/clamp.  Similar clamps are sold like tweezers.  We also use to pull a nipple out and someone use a bread's wire twist'um as to capture the nipple but, we always had the tail so we could unwind it--freeing the nipple.
 
Just some thoughts.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
 

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RE: Nipples - 1/11/2008 8:48:06 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Good luck!  My nipples are a no-fly zone as far as pinching goes, though for some reason biting is fine.  I am sad, because I had the cutest set of hair clips with dragonflies on them that were such cute nipple decorations!  I could manage them for about sixty seconds. 

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