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RE: What was your first time like? - 1/14/2008 12:18:09 PM

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My first bdsm experience was an online/phone thing as a sub to a Domme. It was fun, but was not what I was looking for.....it just did not click as being a piece I was looking for. No worries. All of these type of life experiences bring us closer to what we want.

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RE: What was your first time like? - 1/14/2008 1:07:51 PM

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Thats what we like to hear :P

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RE: What was your first time like? - 1/29/2008 10:44:35 PM

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I'm sorry, I need to be all gushy and romantic..

I met this guy in high school and for whatever reason I just knew he was a dominant before I knew what BDSM even was (he didn't know either). It was just by the way he was, very attentive to my needs but guided me in a lot of ways, but he didn't baby me either (I was a bit of a brat). I felt this submissive draw towards him, but then he graduated, joined the army, we were just casual friends so I knew I'd never see him again.

For five years I looked for a guy that gave me that "feeling" and never found one, I was even engaged for a while and it fell through... and then after the sixth year I found him again. He was still in the army, so I visited where he was stationed and sure enough we just... easily fell into this lifestyle. (Of course everyone has a lot to learn, but I didn't know there was a community like this, I just thought I was crazy at first... well, we probably all our in a healthy sense.)

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RE: What was your first time like? - 1/29/2008 10:56:15 PM

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Geez, my 1st BDSM experience was in Dec of 06. I was scared to death, as I was driving to Virginia Beach to the ocean front. I really had no clue what to expect. He was a nice man, and we talked a bit before we went up to the room. When that door closed it was ON!...He "acted" like a "Dom"...but I didn't know what that was like so it scared me some...I hope it didn't show too much LOL. The "session" lasted 26 hours. I had things done to my body I didn't think sane people did. I was tied so tightly that I thought my arms were gonna fall off....I was beaten... hair pulled.... slapped....pissed on....spit on....called horrible names.... drug across the floor by my hair(and I;m not a small woman) and tied up some more for a tens unit to be used on me. I was given no privacy when I had to use the bathroom. Then he fed me Ben and Jerry's ice cream and told me what a lovely woman I was and what a great time he had! LOL....Thats the readers digest version.

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RE: What was your first time like? - 1/30/2008 5:45:11 AM

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RE: What was your first time like? - 1/30/2008 7:20:20 AM

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absolutely amazing....and i miss her more than anyone could ever know but, then again if i hadn't left i probably wouldn't know my Owner....so i'm happy i left.

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RE: What was your first time like? - 1/30/2008 4:31:20 PM

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It was so divine...I've tried many times to get a vanilla woman to spank me, spank my balls, administer pain some where!

I finally met a woman online, believe it or not, but a local board. She wanted to meet in public, of course, which I would have demanded as well. We met, she didn't seem like too much of a psycho, so we made a date for about a week away. I fantasized, of course, about what was going to happen to me. I had hoped she would have me naked quickly, since I enjoy being naked with a clothed Domme. Well, I knocked on her door, she answered it, and the first thing she said was, 'take off your clothes, and fold them neatly, and put them on the sofa. Then stand at attention, eyes forward, and let me inspect you.'

Heaven! I of course did as I was told (I'm very obedient), and I spent a wonderful few hours with her that first evening.

I shall remember it as long as I am alive. Bliss...

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RE: What was your first time like? - 1/30/2008 5:49:24 PM

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It was fun, romantic, dirty, exciting, scary, and certain site rules bar me from speaking about it in detail. ;)

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RE: What was your first time like? - 1/30/2008 8:10:35 PM

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