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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 1/15/2008 11:49:00 AM

LeatherBentOne

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No penetration of any type with my submissives. It's a power thing for me. However, they are encouraged to sexually please me in other ways. I will penetrate my submissive consentually in any manner I please at any given time.

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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 1/25/2008 8:33:39 PM

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I have had intercourse with only a submissinve I felted quite close to. He was someone who is special to me and we had bonded to each other. Intercourse is something I dont share with anyone. To me he has to be special.

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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 1/25/2008 8:36:29 PM

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A play partner I will not have intercourse with--for that is all he is--a pet. I have have had intercoures with with only one sub and he is someone who is special to me and has meant all the requriments of a sub and someone that I have known for sometime.

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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 1/25/2008 8:40:36 PM

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I have not had intercourse with a play partner for to me that is all he was to me--a pet. However, one that I have a bond to and someone that I have been acquainted with for sometime and have a mutal understanding and that has met my requirements--I would consider.

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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 1/25/2008 11:23:57 PM

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When a Domme has intercourse with a submissive, she is not being penetrated -- that is the obsolete male perspective. Rather, she is enveloping him -- she remains the one in charge and he is subject to the sensations and consequences of how she handles or exploits the envelopment.

(Just my two cents.)

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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 1/25/2008 11:28:17 PM

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I always enjoy intercousre but would never enter into a relationship with a mistress expecting intercourse. Just to please her.

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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 1/25/2008 11:56:15 PM

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Shes enveloping him? You make it sounds like an octopus, about to kill its prey.

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When a Domme has intercourse with a submissive, she is not being penetrated -- that is the obsolete male perspective. Rather, she is enveloping him -- she remains the one in charge and he is subject to the sensations and consequences of how she handles or exploits the envelopment.

(Just my two cents.)

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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 1/26/2008 7:15:06 AM

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Shes enveloping him? You make it sounds like an octopus, about to kill its prey.

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ORIGINAL: pleaserve

When a Domme has intercourse with a submissive, she is not being penetrated -- that is the obsolete male perspective. Rather, she is enveloping him -- she remains the one in charge and he is subject to the sensations and consequences of how she handles or exploits the envelopment.

(Just my two cents.)

Remember the old stories about teeth down there?

These fears and anxieties came from the perception that the female swallows the male during intercourse.

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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 1/26/2008 7:28:43 AM

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I have had submissives I have had intercourse with and others I have not. It depends on what the scope of their particular service with me encompases. The 2 I have now, Angle and Fox, are both my long term slaves (though neither technicaly live in) Fox is my sex pet among other services he provides. We have had days where we have had intercourse several times in one day, and weeks we have had none. Neither situation affected his service otherwise, since it is my decision when and where and which positions we use. Angel is a virgin. He and I have never had intercourse and most likely never will. Sex before marriage is his hard limit, put on the table before we even met face to face so I knew what I was getting into.
Now, I would not entertain the idea of sex with another partner, since I do have Fox. I might consider playing with someone else, or allowing aother to serve in some capacity but Fox is and will remain the only active sex partner. Loyalty and safety both favor a single partner in my life.

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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 1/26/2008 8:00:49 AM

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I heard from several Mistresses that they are against having sexual intercourse - penetration - with their slaves . I mean even their long term live in slaves . Why ? What's is the reason for this in your opinion ? And do you think it's a real phenomenon ???

well personally i wouldn't be against it but then i'm a really sexual person. i suppose though it's a matter of seperating emotional physical attention and just play.

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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 1/26/2008 8:17:18 AM

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When I was serving a Ma'am...She made me very aware one night that the whole dynamics of our reationship would change once she allowed me to fuck her....

She was right....

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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 1/26/2008 8:19:38 AM

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I don't like vaginal penetration. Does nothing for Me AND it's just way too male oriented. When I do it, it's because I feel like it at the moment, or to use it as a mind fuck with a sub.

I don't have sex with most subs. Dominance IS sexual, but it's not necessarly about doing sexual acts. Some people I Dominate without considering any sexual acts.

Subs with whom I feel chemestry and I'm attracted to, then, if I feel like it, I will demand oral worship or other sex acts.

I do understand why some Dominas wouldn't consider having sex with a sub. It's like any vanilla relationship. You don't have sex with everybody who has significance in your life. And in Domination, you have to add the owning aspect, the power exchange and superiority of one on the other. That can very easely equate to no sex in a Female mind.

I don't think there's a formal way about it. You choose to, or not to. That's all. It's personal.

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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 1/26/2008 8:20:28 AM

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No sex thankyou I am British lol

Many male submissive's are attracted to the fact I am unobtainable, unfuckable.

The dynamic would change and become destroyed, If I spread em lol.

My lifestyle and Domination is sexual and sensual,but the standard penetrative sex/oral sex I do not receive. I give strap on though, and find it sexually exciting, I prefer the "taking" aspect of strap on sex.

I can see the sexual fantasy of a Dominant Lady, tieing a male down and using him for her sexual pleasure, and maybe a popular fantasy or reality for some. Lucky them ;)

This is something I would never be tempted with ever, however gorgeous, handsome or wellhung as some of mine are ;)

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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 1/26/2008 12:05:06 PM

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On the flip-side, in my experiance; most dominant men become submissives when sick.

It's so true, I've seen it many times. The big babies! Then again I get a little whiney and "Take care of me" When I'm really sick too. Though maybe not to the degreee of submissiveness, I can still be a bossy b*tch when sick.

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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 1/26/2008 8:05:43 PM

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I heard from several Mistresses that they are against having sexual intercourse - penetration - with their slaves . I mean even their long term live in slaves . Why ?
Don't know why, but they are entitled to their choice.
What's is the reason for this in your opinion ? No clue!
And do you think it's a real phenomenon ??? Anything in this world is possible.

I have sex with My boy because he is My property and I Own him because he has agreed to please Me in every way. If I want his cock inside Me...damn right I'm going to have it...it's Mine after all!

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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 1/27/2008 9:16:43 AM

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I did have sex with Mistress, but it wasn't very often. Most of the time she chose to take my ass hard with her strap-on, as that was what she enjoyed the most and what she wanted to use me for. She also liked to watch me have sex with her other female slave, as that was also a turn-on for her. But she retained control, as she'd tell us what to do. It was like a little show for her pleasure.

Those times that we did have sex, she would usually tie me down and get on top and ride me - so she could keep in control and control my orgasm. This would also allow her to sexually torture me - decide whether or not to even let me have an orgasm. It was very rare that we would ever just have sex to have sex. That only happened if she was in a certain mood.

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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 1/27/2008 5:56:03 PM

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Not unless it was with my strap on in a lifestyle setting. I do use slaves for sexual penetration on my end.

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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 2/6/2008 5:52:09 PM

CuckoldSameh

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ThundersCry ,

Would you explain to me how the dynamics of your relationship with your Mistress have been changed after having sex ?

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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 2/6/2008 8:16:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: CuckoldSameh

I heard from several Mistresses that they are against having sexual intercourse - penetration - with their slaves . I mean even their long term live in slaves . Why ? What's is the reason for this in your opinion ? And do you think it's a real phenomenon ???

Yes I'll have relations with my slave. Why? Because I can.

Others are entitled to their own brand of dominance...whether it's with or without sex. It really doesn't bother me what they do in their beds.

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RE: Would you have intercourse with your slave ? - 2/6/2008 8:53:26 PM

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love you Jordan.....yes this is exactly true. I actually prefer vaginal to clitoral stimulation, I get that from my boyfriend, everyone else is much more interesting to me in a D/s dynamic-lick my ass slut but do not think you wil be able to fuck me without the love of my life there, and frankly I'd prefer putting you in the corner to watch.....

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