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lkn4Uslave -> Where do you go? (1/12/2008 2:33:17 PM)
Hi there! Well I've been on CM @ 2+ yrs looking for another (add to) slave for my house ...but I get a little confused I quess....people on here (chat things) seem to have thier shit together pretty well ...BUT try to find an honest , not fake ,real person to accept as your new slave is f&%#%*g impossible! The question is....(drum roll!).....is ther anywhere , other than here to look for a good , honest , sincere slave ? sooooo sick of fakes

AquaticSub -> RE: Where do you go? (1/12/2008 2:38:14 PM)
Nope. The last real slave in existence was collared last month and we aren't due for a new batch until checks clipboard sometime in late '09. We are terribly sorry for any inconvience.

lkn4Uslave -> RE: Where do you go? (1/12/2008 2:39:03 PM)
lol I want to put in a reservation !

AquaticSub -> RE: Where do you go? (1/12/2008 2:40:13 PM)
We are very sorry, but all our pre-orders have been filled. I can put you in for the batch scheduled to come out in 2015, would that be all right?

lkn4Uslave -> RE: Where do you go? (1/12/2008 2:42:01 PM)
ah hell.,,,,just forget it....I will by that time ;-(

takenbyjohnr07 -> RE: Where do you go? (1/12/2008 2:43:32 PM)
In the Munch that i go to there are many single women looking for that and they are real with good hearts. So you might want to try your local munch or local dungeon. i am very fortunate to have the group of people that i have in those two places. i have been to others and they were not nice or organized at all, but i would at least start there if you haven't already. Good luck!

lkn4Uslave -> RE: Where do you go? (1/12/2008 2:46:18 PM)
That would be good advise ....but I live way out in the country and there is NOTHING like that near me at all (not even 100 miles!) but I thank you anyway!

AquaticSub -> RE: Where do you go? (1/12/2008 2:48:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lkn4Uslave That would be good advise ....but I live way out in the country and there is NOTHING like that near me at all (not even 100 miles!) but I thank you anyway! In all seriousness, have you tried attending non-BDSM events that would just get you out socializing and meeting new people and making friends? Many would prefer to meet someone at a book club than a munch.

LadyHathor -> RE: Where do you go? (1/12/2008 2:50:28 PM)
*uhm, slaves R us?[8\|]*

lkn4Uslave -> RE: Where do you go? (1/12/2008 2:58:42 PM)
Never been to a munch , but from what I've heard I'm not missing much....Oh yea...me and my slave are activly looky locally always but as I said we are in the country and even though we "fall into the group" most of these people are stone cold rednecks and not into the lifestyle .....the real problem is I/we have a very good home to offer and can't for the life of us figure out why it hasn't been taken advantage of other than the fakes on here and trust me , I think we have met them all (at least I hope so!) Sooooo there has GOT to be another site where it is REAL I have been on CM for @ 4-5yrs and I swear it's gotten worse!!!!!!!!!

lkn4Uslave -> RE: Where do you go? (1/12/2008 3:01:52 PM)
yea ok........we-b-slaves closed last month !

AquaticSub -> RE: Where do you go? (1/12/2008 3:02:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lkn4Uslave Never been to a munch , but from what I've heard I'm not missing much....Oh yea...me and my slave are activly looky locally always but as I said we are in the country and even though we "fall into the group" most of these people are stone cold rednecks and not into the lifestyle .....the real problem is I/we have a very good home to offer and can't for the life of us figure out why it hasn't been taken advantage of other than the fakes on here and trust me , I think we have met them all (at least I hope so!) Sooooo there has GOT to be another site where it is REAL I have been on CM for @ 4-5yrs and I swear it's gotten worse!!!!!!!!! If you are missing out depends greatly on the munches in your area. However, if I may make a suggestion... I would pass you by simply because you use the terms "real" and "fake". It's my experience that fake is simply the person who won't be with you, like a slut is the woman who will sleep with everyone but you. Finding a partner is a long process. The fact that you are looking for a third makes it even longer since many aren't interested in poly and those who are are in great demand - which means they get to be picky and get exactly what they want. You've mentioned you aren't close to any munches, so I assume there isn't much of a BDSM scene in your area. That will also narrow down the number of potential partners - I wouldn't want to move to an area without a local scene since I enjoy it too much.

lkn4Uslave -> RE: Where do you go? (1/12/2008 3:10:58 PM)
thank you for that imut...however I don't use "real" or "FAKE" in my profile nor do I use it when speaking to a prospective person....I only used it here in conversation....and , yes , agian , agreed ...it is (and should be ) a long process...u need to know a person VERY well on either end to accomplish this (poly) BUT ....the seriousness of most of those I have encountered was about as long as they could "get off" on the computer !!! IT IS FRUSTRATING !!!!!!

lockmeupplease -> RE: Where do you go? (1/12/2008 3:23:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHathor *uhm, slaves R us?[8\|]* I prefer The Home Slave-Pot. They have one near me next to Bed, Bath & Bisexual.

AquaticSub -> RE: Where do you go? (1/12/2008 3:27:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lockmeupplease quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHathor *uhm, slaves R us?[8\|]* I prefer The Home Slave-Pot. They have one near me next to Bed, Bath & Bisexual. Damn it... What do I have to do to get one of those to open up near me?

lkn4Uslave -> RE: Where do you go? (1/12/2008 3:30:20 PM)
REALLY! You don't have one yet!!!!

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Where do you go? (1/12/2008 3:37:30 PM)
You can find slaves at any mcd's...the employee's are all slaves there...some with many years of experience. [:D]

SageFemmexx -> RE: Where do you go? (1/12/2008 3:41:21 PM)
I read the profile and the journal. It's full of negativity and complaining. The terms real and fake are only relative to the people involved that are doing the judging. Someone else's real could very well be labeled as fake by others because their standards are different. In my opinion if you have something to offer--be real and positive about it. When I see whining, complaining profiles--I click NEXT. Any woman with a sense of self worth would know better than to bother with people that label others and think they are uber wonderful themselves. Be well and Blessings,

AquaticSub -> RE: Where do you go? (1/12/2008 3:49:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lkn4Uslave REALLY! You don't have one yet!!!! NO! Can I get one that matches my curtains there or do I need to buy a set of curtains, sofa pillows and bisexual?

SadisticBastid -> RE: Where do you go? (1/12/2008 3:49:12 PM)
LOL... people lie anywhere... its no just on collarme, and not even exclusive to the BDSM lifestyle. Sad part is that we in the lifestyle profess that the most important thing is trust and honesty, yet very few people ever practice it... funny how that is eh? :)

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