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Please explain age play, Daddys girls to me - 1/13/2008 2:44:54 PM   
winterlight


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Status: offline 		Thank you very much. Please give me examples of this...
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RE: Please explain age play, Daddys girls to me - 1/13/2008 3:00:08 PM   
LittleWolvenOne


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Status: offline 		I can't really explain Daddies girls as well as I can explain ageplay from a mommies point of view. I suppose if you replace mommy, aunt, step mother with daddy, uncle, stepfather the concepts are the same.

Feminine Dominant Archetypes in Ageplay By Miss Marie

Family member Archetypes include:

Celestial: The mother goddess, all powerful , maternal, protective,
creative and destructive force

Nurturing mommy: that is all about teaching manners and making sure your a good little girl or boy, maybe a spanking with a wooden spoon or spatula, or perhaps a using clothes pins and other house-hold pervertables to make sure her sweet heart behaves. (Sleeping beauty has *fairy godmothers* who embody these traits)

Wicked stepmother: who is more who is more sadistic and cruel, enjoys humiliation and punishment, forces her to do enless chores before sending the poor orphan to her room. (Cinderella's step mother)

Aunt: the strict disciplinarian, who is only enforcing the proper rules and discipline expected in her house. Memorising lines, setting essays, making the poor girl stand in the corner, perhaps using a cane. (The aunt and her siamese cats from lady and the tramp, Petunia Dursly and Aunt Muriel from Harry Potter )

Big Sisters: are commonly a combination of role models and mischief makers, both enforcing rules and encouraging mischief. They are the usually the breakers of rules that are being set for younger siblings.. Potential emotional bonding on an semi equal level with younger sisters or brothers.. Brats can frequently come in this category.

Step sisters: are usually a more entitled variation of the big sister theme. They frequently see them selves as being prettier, more popular and more worthy of submission and service. (cinderella's step sisters or ella enchanted)

School related Archetypes some times include:

Governess: is usually a combination of a teacher and parental guide who is responsible for care taking, guidance and upbringing. May be sadistic or sensual. (Miss Honey from Matilda by Roal Dahl)

School teachers: are usually responsible for education, as well as punishment and rule enforcement. May involve spanking or caning.

School bullies: are usually mediums or other littles who are known for being bossy and sadistic, using a combination of physical and emotional torment. (Janice Avery bridge to terabithia)

Clique leaders: are usually similar to school bullies, only more refined and subtle in their approach. May use emotional black male and humiliation. (Regina George from Mean girls)

Other:

Madames and prostitutes: There is often an age difference implied between a madame and her "girls" that has potential for sexual or erotic ageplay. This has alot of previously (to me) unexplored potential.


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RE: Please explain age play, Daddys girls to me - 1/13/2008 3:22:13 PM   
Amaros


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Status: offline 		I kinda had to sort this one out myself.

It can be a form of regression therapy, i.e., regression to the state before you were hung up by all the social conditioning - i.e., children tend to be very natural about sexuality and curious about bodily functions, etc, but as time passes we accumulate all kinds of social conditioning that can be very... claustrophobic. Age play is one way of circumventing these feelings and recapturing a simpler, more natural and playful attitudes toward sexuality, and thus more enjoyable.

There is also the aspect of being taken care of, of being protected, "special", etc., that can be very fullfilling, and may incorporate some or all of the more abstract aspects that Wolven mentions above, and may or may not be associated with imprinted incidents - I have some mild imprinting about bathroom play for example, which has nothing to do with ageplay, but the primacy effect of erotic incidents experinced in childhood may play some part for some people for better or worse - a traumatic potty training incident for example can result in an adult neurosis if not mediated at later stages.


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RE: Please explain age play, Daddys girls to me - 1/13/2008 3:35:02 PM   
Elorin


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Status: offline 		My Daddy is nurturing, caring, protective. I started calling him Daddy because he looked after me like a Daddy...kept me safe, told me to be careful when I went to play with others, was protective and set my friends to watch out for me at times. For me, being Daddy's girl means it is safe to be me, without a lot of the protective walls and masks I use as an adult to be safe. I am able to be young again, full of wonder. I drop the cynical realism that normally surrounds me and instead see the world through the eyes of a child, perpetually giggling, amazed, full of love and joy.

I'm sometimes sulky, I'm demanding, and I am kept in line by a firm hand that is not afraid to punish if need be. I am indulged at times, cuddled, put to bed and tucked in for the night, and I am corrected when I am too selfish or pettish.

Being Daddy's girl is being free to be playful, being free to be innocent, being free to say "I wanna pony...anna tiara, and a princess dress!" without being laughed at (meanly). It's feeling warm, embraced, loved, protected, safe. It's being able to cry when I smash my finger and curl up in my Daddy's lap and have him comfort me and kiss it better, and feel like all is right with the world because my Daddy loves me.

It's all of those things, but more. It's about the dynamic between us, and his acceptance of my inner child, and my love of his fierce protectiveness. It's about love with no reservations as a child because children trust so completely...and it's about his feeling of being needed by me.

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RE: Please explain age play, Daddys girls to me - 1/13/2008 3:56:50 PM   
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http://www.collarchat.com/m_668543/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#668698
Age play dynamics

http://www.collarchat.com/m_580865/mpage_1/key_age%252Cplay/tm.htm#580890
Ms and age play

http://www.collarchat.com/m_546688/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#546972
Another daddy dom question

http://www.collarchat.com/m_541638/mpage_2/key_daddy/tm.htm#541832
How does a dom decide to be a daddy ?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_540044/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#540129
Daddy's Girl

http://www.collarchat.com/m_278285/mpage_2/key_daddy/tm.htm#278992
What exactly is a daddy dom?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_259176/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#259184
Are there any daddies here?

Daddy/Daughter Roleplay

Daddydoms and Babygirls

Daddy?

Daddy/little girl

Hiding Daddy's Belt

Daddy doms

Daddy's little girl

Daddy? (2)




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RE: Please explain age play, Daddys girls to me - 1/13/2008 4:03:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		i don't know about other Daddy-daughter relationships but i know mine with Daddy, there's no age play involve. He's the long lost father figure i didn't have while growing military with my real dad. my dad wasn't around to be nuturing and loving since he was always on assignment for the government.

with Daddy, i'm cherished, loved, protected as well as showered with little princess gifts because it's His way of showing love for me. not only that, He guides me with His wisdom and advice which was sorely missing from my real one. He's quite proud that His lil girl is blossoming after a year and knows there's always room for improvement as i move towards the next phase of my life with my SO.

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RE: Please explain age play, Daddys girls to me - 1/13/2008 5:12:44 PM   
passiongirl


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Status: offline 		Ours has evolved over time- when we first identified it as such- I was very squicked out about it--However after long conversations and talking it through Daddy made it ok for me..
We don't do a age thing rather its a protective and caring dynamic that I wouldn't change for the world.  He makes me feel so safe and secure probably because I know he treasures his girl.  And his will prevails. ... 

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RE: Please explain age play, Daddys girls to me - 1/13/2008 7:44:12 PM   
lablancsecret


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Status: offline 		I'm actually looking for more or less the same answer. My Dom/Master (depending on how you want to look at it, or refer to him) told me, that he had a submissive in the past who refered to him as Daddy and sees himself as a Daddy Dom; or as I'm paraphrasing it, a disciplinarian who loves his "girl" and wants to pamper her, so long as she behaves well (i.e. cares for him).

This is something I'm comfortable with, as for some reason, all I seem to attract are Daddy Doms. Maybe its my age?

But still, I want to learn more about Daddy Doms from personal experiences.

(Obviously this is a bit derailing, and I appologize to winterlight, but if anyone could drop me a PM to discuss this kind of thing in detail so as to not take away from the meaning of the thread, that's be great!)

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RE: Please explain age play, Daddy's girls to me - 1/13/2008 9:20:55 PM   
MistressOfGa


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Status: offline 		I am Mommy for my sissy bri for exactly the reasons that the little girls have mentioned. Although it started out as age regression so that I could re-train him, it has opened many different avenues for us to look at and I didn't want him held back by all the bullshit his parents taught him.
I collared him two years ago and when I had to leave the state our relationship became a LDR. During that time, Brian became arrogant and dishonest. To punish him and to bring him back down to earth (He is NOT all that and a bag of chips, although I think so, he doesn't have to act as though he is) I chose a new temporary name for him and have treated him like a sissy girl. I thought it would strange for me to be called Mommy, but I rather like it and I think he is enjoying his role as my girl. It is working out for us, as he is more aware of how he has been acting out (Probably from going from Live In to LDR) and how it has effected me and our relationship as a whole. When I see that he has returned to the sweet humble boy that I collared, I will allow him to become a male again. As a reminder of the pain that he caused me, he has to wear girly panties to school and to social functions (Karaoke). I have allowed him to wear male underwear to work, since he has to change in a locker room with other male employees. I don't want to "out" him. I only want to re-train him <s>
Hope this helps, I know you were specifically asking about Daddy's girls, but I thought I would give you a different perspective from a Domina's point of view.

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RE: Please explain age play, Daddys girls to me - 1/14/2008 5:12:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lablancsecret
(Obviously this is a bit derailing, and I appologize to winterlight, but if anyone could drop me a PM to discuss this kind of thing in detail so as to not take away from the meaning of the thread, that's be great!)

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RE: Please explain age play, Daddys girls to me - 1/14/2008 6:39:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		My Daddy and I don't do the age play thing......I personally couldn't do that. Way too much of an "ick factor" for me...Besides my Daddy this zero interest in being sexual with little girls....even someone "pretending" to be a little girl (thank God) What Daddy and I have is a nurturing and loving relationship. 

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RE: Please explain age play, Daddys girls to me - 1/14/2008 8:38:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		You are very lucky to have the relationship you described. It is very similar to what I seek. I think that is what separates daddy/daughter from the rest of d/s in that it is generally, though not always, more nuturing and protective. Of course its possible to become involved with someone who is not as they appear and then of course it would merely be abusive which is a tragedy when it happens as it undermines ones sense of self, feelings of safety, etc. Care must always be taken in any kind of relationship but I think the good daddys are able to be more in touch with their caring nurturing side.

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RE: Please explain age play, Daddys girls to me - 1/14/2008 8:44:30 AM   
liminalRapture


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Status: offline 		I don't do the "Daddy" thing, but I get younger.  It isn't an act or play or anything like that.  I just go to a place that doesn't have sophistication or wit or the need to take care of herself.  I'm pretty innocent there--no guards or sense of how I protect myself.  It isn't a place I've ever been in real life--I had bullying (really bad--like a tooth knocked out bad) from the 1st grade on.  So going to this place where I can trust and not question is really lovely.

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RE: Please explain age play, Daddys girls to me - 1/14/2008 10:09:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		When I 1st started exploring the lifestyle, The whole Daddy/daughter/littlegirl dynamic totally squicked me out.  But recently, in addition to resuming my search for a Dom, I have come around to liking the idea of having a Daddy.  I like the idea of a Daddy Master. a man that can be both. (maybe at different times. like if I am feeling girlish. )

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RE: Please explain age play, Daddys girls to me - 1/14/2008 10:57:11 AM   
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RE: Please explain age play, Daddys girls to me - 1/21/2008 2:23:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have to agree with the person who said their "Daddy" was a kind of father figure where she didn't have that growing up with the military father. My father was gona a lot when I was growing up, & was very abusive when he was home, therefore, there was really no caring, nurturing, kindness, none of the things Daddys usually provide. That is why I call MY One Daddy. Has nothing whatsoever to do with the idea of sleeping with my own father. Ewwww!!!!

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