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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Well, of course all that leaves is... what do you feel comfortable with?

smiles  -  it's hard isn't it?  A certain shyness... on either side of the slash.  Well... i have been known to have an idea or two, so if i may....

When he's in the shower, soap up your lovely breasts and wash him with them...
leave little notes that say "Yes, Sir" on post it note pads all over...
wear his shirt and ask him if you can help him dress and then take off the shirt, with some kind of fetish wear under it...
ask him to show you HOW something is done - dripping candle wax, putting clamps on nipples, etc. and see what happens... 
when he arrives in the bedroom, be standing in a corner, nekkid, with an blindfold on, and an implement or two laid out...
go shopping with him at Home Depot (or other hardware store) or kitchen supply store and slap yourself with the one or two of the items and giggle...
buy a dog bowl, make dinner, put yours on the ground and eat that way (without words)...
leave a lock of your pubic hair in a place where only he can see with a not that says "yours"..
leave clothespins in his pockets...
when going to bed at night, read a fetish book that has pix (and really read it)... and say hmmmmmm or oooooooooo at appropriate times.

That's all i could come up with on short notice.... If you do a few little things, he'll see what you are thinking and know what to do.  If that doesn't work, you can always lay over his lap with a note attached to your bum that says, "please spank  me".