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BabyKittyKat -> Another Daddy/lil girl topic :) (1/14/2008 11:37:49 AM)

Hiii. Sorry to bother you again with my stupid questions, but it`s really important to me.

So, we have been into age play for some time and it comes very natural to me, since I have been sleeping with a fluffy toy for the last 12 years, also I have always behaved as a little girl, even before I knew what BDSM was.

We decided to try something like a step-father/little girl relationship (I usually identify with a 9-year-old, though I still suck my thumb when I sleep, not doing it on purpose!).
We have only tried age play where He plays the role of a much bigger boy. We play games, like the game "bondaging" *wink* which He showed me how to play, he reads bedtime stories to me before I go to sleep, cuddles me at night when I wake up after a nightmare, that kind of stuf.. So we want to evolve our age play dynamics.

But I am a little bit scared. I really want to call Him Daddy, but it`s strange to me.. It`s like an obstacle in achieving my goal.. And since my original father and my Owner have the same name it`s even stranger! Also in my language it sounds different, and usually it`s accepted to call your own father "Daddy" no matter how old you are. There isn`t another word.. Like in english there is a difference between "dad" and "daddy". I can`t stop thinking that if I take the step and call Him Daddy, I`ll be sick and perverted. I can`t get through that. Has anyone had the same problem? And how did you solve it?



Justme696 -> RE: Another Daddy/lil girl topic :) (1/14/2008 11:43:54 AM)

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About age play.. I`m ashamed to tell Him! :/  


and suddenly you do age play for a while? Or...



BabyKittyKat -> RE: Another Daddy/lil girl topic :) (1/14/2008 11:51:13 AM)

Yes, we`ve been doing ageplay, but with no incest roleplaying.. I think I wrote that in the topic [8|] We want to go from the "older, perverted boy/little girl to a Daddy/Daughter dynamics or something like that.



angelikaJ -> RE: Another Daddy/lil girl topic :) (1/14/2008 11:52:24 AM)

would a different name make it easier?
Papa instread of daddy...
is there an equivelent in your language?



BabyKittyKat -> RE: Another Daddy/lil girl topic :) (1/14/2008 11:57:02 AM)

There`s only one word. I thought about saying His name after saying "Daddy", but since my real dad and He have the same names.. :D It`s a strange situation!



tinoketsheli -> RE: Another Daddy/lil girl topic :) (1/14/2008 12:03:49 PM)

what language is it?



batshalom -> RE: Another Daddy/lil girl topic :) (1/14/2008 12:07:37 PM)

Practice it. I had trouble with some words, so I practiced when I was alone, practiced when he was around, practiced all the time. Act "as if" and soon enough it will be normal to you.

Oh. Edited to add that if you want a different word that is beautiful and easy to say (to me anyway) use "Aba."



BabyKittyKat -> RE: Another Daddy/lil girl topic :) (1/14/2008 12:10:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: tinoketsheli

what language is it?


Bulgarian :) The word is "tati" or "tate", it`s actually the same. Read as it`s spelled (not with english rules).



justheather -> RE: Another Daddy/lil girl topic :) (1/14/2008 1:11:14 PM)

Could you not use the word for "Daddy" in a language other than Bulgarian? Perhaps one of the ones suggested or Papa, Papi, or the English word "Daddy"?
That might make it different enough that you are able to enjoy the dynamic without the other stuff creeping into your psyche.



SingleRarity -> RE: Another Daddy/lil girl topic :) (1/14/2008 5:20:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BabyKittyKat

Yes, we`ve been doing ageplay, but with no incest roleplaying.. I think I wrote that in the topic [8|] We want to go from the "older, perverted boy/little girl to a Daddy/Daughter dynamics or something like that.


What does incest have to do with a Daddy/Daugter dynamic?  Maybe you need to do a bit more reading on this type of relationship. It has NOTHING to do with incest.  If you can get past that, then using "Daddy" would not be so difficult.

Here is a good link once posted on this board...it was very helpful to both my Sir and I.  If I am misunderstanding your reason for trepidation, from the above words, then I apologize.
http://www.vanilla-not.com/basics/daddydom.html



LadyLynx -> RE: Another Daddy/lil girl topic :) (1/14/2008 5:28:01 PM)

well to some, the Daddy/littlegirl dynamic is about that:) but that is usually fairly rare, and doesn't have much to do with BDSM.  Like with alot of things, certain things can take a while to fully process, and get used too.  how about a nic name that you associate with him being your daddy? it could be something cutesy or completely innocuous.  good luck!



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Another Daddy/lil girl topic :) (1/14/2008 11:56:52 PM)

Daddy/lg play can have to do with incest role play , if that's your reason for being in a D/lg relationship. There is no right or wrong way or one only way to do D/lg relationships.

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ORIGINAL: SingleRarity


What does incest have to do with a Daddy/Daugter dynamic?  Maybe you need to do a bit more reading on this type of relationship. It has NOTHING to do with incest.  If you can get past that, then using "Daddy" would not be so difficult.




BabyKittyKat -> RE: Another Daddy/lil girl topic :) (1/15/2008 2:48:28 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SingleRarity

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ORIGINAL: BabyKittyKat

Yes, we`ve been doing ageplay, but with no incest roleplaying.. I think I wrote that in the topic [8|] We want to go from the "older, perverted boy/little girl to a Daddy/Daughter dynamics or something like that.


What does incest have to do with a Daddy/Daugter dynamic?  Maybe you need to do a bit more reading on this type of relationship. It has NOTHING to do with incest.  If you can get past that, then using "Daddy" would not be so difficult.

Here is a good link once posted on this board...it was very helpful to both my Sir and I.  If I am misunderstanding your reason for trepidation, from the above words, then I apologize.
http://www.vanilla-not.com/basics/daddydom.html


Sorry. I forgot to put the incest betwenn "". I meant "incest" play.  Thanks for the link :)



Bamslilgirl -> RE: Another Daddy/lil girl topic :) (1/21/2008 2:20:16 PM)

As long as it's understood that there is no desire for you to be with your actual father, I don't see a problem. I call my One Daddy all the time (in private), & we both understand exactly why I call Him that. It's just an endearing term that people use for different reasons, which is fine. Just have an understanding.



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