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Tigrita -> RE: subs attracting subs (1/15/2008 12:29:04 PM)
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ORIGINAL: phear215
are the sub guys you attract usually unable to identify themselves? or are they in denial of being submissive? they probably are arrtracted to you not because they feel youre dominant, but more of they feel they have something in common with you and they cant identify what that is. that and with us guys psychological aspects dont usually have much to do with lust....lol. i guess you could take that as compliment?
This is a really good question. So, I have been described as 'putting out a lot of top energy' in my social interactions, and that is in part why I think these submissive guys come out of their shell with me, more than bonding over submissiveness. I don't feel submissive except with a very rare few people, real alpha male types.
One specific person that inspired this post is just the most perfect, sweet submissive man who would be a domme's dream come true, and I think he'd really, really enjoy a structured D/s relationship and I've been really, really tempted to clue him in on the scene, but I don't want to freak him out with all the whips and chains crap that is most prominent. That is another question I have, how to introduce someone to BDSM without freaking them out? I don't think he identifies with kink, but knows he wants a woman to take charge of him. He's not attracted to my submissiveness, he'd never seen it untill he saw Stephan whack me on the ass and I whimpered and batted my eyelashes at Stephan, and subbie friend said, in shock and confusion: "wow, that is the most feminine I've ever seen you!" (by feminine I think what he meant was submissive; soft and sweet and compliant).
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