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new level of play - 1/16/2008 1:15:51 PM

mhawk

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i know this has been posted before but i couldn't find much of what i was searching for so jsut figured to ask anyway.

my Mistress and i have spoken about my knife fetish.She was a little shocked by it at first but recently we have talked about it more.i've only even been on the receiving end of kinfe play,what would be the best way to help Her go about this sicne this is something She has stated She wants to start working on this week.

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RE: new level of play - 1/16/2008 3:23:48 PM

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type the words "knife play" in the search area you will find a ton of advice. Lots of different threads to read on of those supporting it & those against it. I can't give you any other reccomendations than that. People get touchy with edge play. So do some research if your interested in persuing it.

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RE: new level of play - 1/16/2008 5:10:44 PM

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If you're just doing knife play and no cutting, then it's not that serious in itself- now add forceplay and fighting and other issues and you'll be asking for trouble at this point.

Perhaps describe and have her start with her fingernails- the knife can become just an extension of her hands.

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RE: new level of play - 1/16/2008 5:24:38 PM

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well, as LA mentioned...what do you mean by knife play? just laying there stiff as a board and having a knife run over you...or resistance play with knife play incorporated and you do not want the skin broken...or do you want the skin slightly broken....or do you actually want shallow cuts done? this is such a broad area of play, depending on what both people want, and that is why it scares some...elaborate? if not to us, to your Mistress at least....but if you elaborate to us, we can give you an idea of where to go...

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RE: new level of play - 1/16/2008 5:58:04 PM

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quote:

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well, as LA mentioned...what do you mean by knife play? just laying there stiff as a board and having a knife run over you...or resistance play with knife play incorporated and you do not want the skin broken...or do you want the skin slightly broken....or do you actually want shallow cuts done? this is such a broad area of play, depending on what both people want, and that is why it scares some...elaborate? if not to us, to your Mistress at least....but if you elaborate to us, we can give you an idea of where to go...

chelle

Quite right chelle. *nods*
I have knife play listed, but I don't elaborate and that does put some people off. I rarely expose anyone to fluids though, so cutting for me is out of the question (except with a chosen few)
For me its mostly psychological and more like a rather prickly massage.
There has to be great care taken in any case because accidents happen. Make sure that you have at least a basic medical kit ready.

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RE: new level of play - 1/16/2008 6:28:56 PM

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My local Munch offers classes for free for things like knife play and so does our local dungeon. You might want to call them.

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RE: new level of play - 1/17/2008 1:54:47 AM

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*bit off topic*
can some one please tell me in short what is done when people talk about knife-play

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RE: new level of play - 1/17/2008 6:22:06 AM

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well apparently little to my knowledge Mistress did some reasearch on Her own regarding this matter.which is fine i think it's great She did so.

as mentioned early on to Her seeing as everyone had different levels We aren't going further than just slightly breaking the skin.the mainr eason She told me that She did do some research on this was She wanted to find out for Herself as best She could.

needless to say when She came in last night She surprised me quite well. instead of doing O/our normal flogging She chose to take a first try at this last night,oddly enough used a very sharp letter opener of all things but it worked. for me it's part of placing my full trust in someone.Goddess knows if i didin't fully trust Her this would have not happened. what i can say is this. She had a good idea from what She learned Herself about it and now it is going to become part of O/our regular time together.

i'm not sure if any of that made sense but figured i'd at least drop this line this morning after going forward with it last night.

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RE: new level of play - 1/17/2008 6:53:35 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mhawk

well apparently little to my knowledge Mistress did some reasearch on Her own regarding this matter.which is fine i think it's great She did so.

as mentioned early on to Her seeing as everyone had different levels We aren't going further than just slightly breaking the skin.the mainr eason She told me that She did do some research on this was She wanted to find out for Herself as best She could.

needless to say when She came in last night She surprised me quite well. instead of doing O/our normal flogging She chose to take a first try at this last night,oddly enough used a very sharp letter opener of all things but it worked. for me it's part of placing my full trust in someone.Goddess knows if i didin't fully trust Her this would have not happened. what i can say is this. She had a good idea from what She learned Herself about it and now it is going to become part of O/our regular time together.

i'm not sure if any of that made sense but figured i'd at least drop this line this morning after going forward with it last night.

Of course it made sense. :) A dream got full filled for you .
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RE: new level of play - 1/17/2008 4:55:25 PM

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knife play puts me in a wonderful head space.

From hearing the sound of a switchblade opening....

to having a sharp blade at my throat while being forced onto my knees....

to having knives and daggers of various weights and sharpness poking and gliding across my body...

but to get back to the original question:

Knife play isn't called "edge play" for nothing. There is a proper technique to playing with knives (and other pointy things, too!). i would suggest finding someone in the local BDSM community who is skilled at knife play and have a mini-hands-on-workshop. i've also seen knife play workshops at BDSM group meetings in the community.

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RE: new level of play - 1/17/2008 8:07:21 PM

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there is a range of things that can be done with knife play...my strongest recomendation would be to learn from someone first hand, in person...however, if you are not going to do that, my second strongest recomendation would be to start slow and with lots of communication...as for what blades to use....long blades look interesting but they can cause problems when it comes down to control - the further the end of the blade is away from your hand, the less control you have...so start small...as for sharp or dull, my contention is that it doesn't really matter if you are aware of what you are doing....what does matter is if the blade has any kind of knicks or barbs or any other sort of imperfections on it...be absolutely sure that whether the blade is dull or sharp it is smooth...the only unintentional injuries i have ever seen from knife play have been from imperfections on the blade....so always check each time you play, no matter how long the blade has been perfect...other than that...be aware of any potential triggers for both the bottom and the top...i have known tops that have been triggered durring knife play, when they were holding the knife...they freaked out and dropped it and went into a ptsd reaction....just be prepared for all possibilities...it's been suggested not to tie down a bottom for their first knife play scene...i don't know if that is a universal truth, but if you think it is wise not to do so with your bottom, don't....
thats all i can think of at the moment...

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