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lusciouslips19 -> have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 2:05:50 PM)
My Master/Daddy is a really good guy. Last weekend instead of sceneing like we were suppose to, I fell asleep (the food was good). So neither one of us got our fill in that department. The next day I was feeling very playful so when he turned to walk away , I gave him a swat on the rump( I'm not a switch, the idea stresses me out). He gave me such a look. He told me the look on my face was, "oh oh, what have I done?" He grabbed me and bent me over the arm of the couch and spanked me until I was red and said. THAT was your first punishment!" I'm so glad he gave me what was coming to me. Tee hee. What have you done mischevious or bratty? Please tell me I'm not the only one who has done something that I knew would get me in trouble? So what, silly, coniving or mischevious things have you done? ( i hope these are good)

Justme696 -> RE: have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 2:10:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 My Master/Daddy is a really good guy. Last weekend instead of sceneing like we were suppose to, I fell asleep (the food was good). So neither one of us got our fill in that department. The next day I was feeling very playful so when he turned to walk away , I gave him a swat on the rump( I'm not a switch, the idea stresses me out). He gave me such a look. He told me the look on my face was, "oh oh, what have I done?" He grabbed me and bent me over the arm of the couch and spanked me until I was red and said. THAT was your first punishment!" I'm so glad he gave me what was coming to me. Tee hee. What have you done mischevious or bratty? Please tell me I'm not the only one who has done something that I knew would get me in trouble? So what, silly, coniving or mischevious things have you done? ( i hope these are good) I love when my girl was play full by times. It is a sign she is happy and comfy

lusciouslips19 -> RE: have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 2:13:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Justme696 quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 My Master/Daddy is a really good guy. Last weekend instead of sceneing like we were suppose to, I fell asleep (the food was good). So neither one of us got our fill in that department. The next day I was feeling very playful so when he turned to walk away , I gave him a swat on the rump( I'm not a switch, the idea stresses me out). He gave me such a look. He told me the look on my face was, "oh oh, what have I done?" He grabbed me and bent me over the arm of the couch and spanked me until I was red and said. THAT was your first punishment!" I'm so glad he gave me what was coming to me. Tee hee. What have you done mischevious or bratty? Please tell me I'm not the only one who has done something that I knew would get me in trouble? So what, silly, coniving or mischevious things have you done? ( i hope these are good) I love when my girl was play full by times. It is a sign she is happy and comfy Oh phew!. I thought someone was going to say, "Oh you bad girl, I would never do that". maybe they still will. i always think I am the worst sub around. I have to be reassured that I am better than I think I am.

Justme696 -> RE: have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 2:15:50 PM)
well you got your punishment for it not ? [;)]

wisteriaV -> RE: have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 2:18:03 PM)
For me there is a line that I never ever cross with Master. We can joke around and play and be silly, but I will never swat at him for any reason. Master treats me like an adult and there is no room for brattiness....when we first got together I purposely tested the limit ( I swatted at his leg near his knee, then giggled) and found out it wouldnt be crossed again. My punishment..no play for a month, I couldnt serve him or call him Master for a twenty-four hours. Asking for a spanking because your feeling playful or reaching to kiss or be affectionate or groping him is one thing, showing your immaturity isnt allowed in Masters home.

Jnj -> RE: have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 2:22:21 PM)
Barak and Sheba out of the midwest give an amazing presentation on Brat Play. If they are at a convention near you any time soon, I would highly recommend attending.

venusinblu -> RE: have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 2:37:55 PM)
you're not alone lusciouslips! .. i was bratty with Master recently, he asked me to do something and i stuck out my bottom lip and said 'no, i don't want to!' ... i was <smile!> punished for a few hours .. i couldn't sit down without wincing for two days! ;-) ...

lusciouslips19 -> RE: have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 2:41:19 PM)
Well, I guess thats why you have a Master and I have a Master/Daddy. Theres nothing wrong with it. The limits are different and your Master doesnt have a sense of humor in that area. Yes, he treats you as an adult. I am mine's little girl. He likes it that way. All I got was some spanks. I would never do it again either if I was to lose out on play for a month. I would be very sad indeed.

camille65 -> RE: have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 2:45:31 PM)
I don't do it often but yup there are times when I act out a bit. Nothing major, usually just a 'look' or a pout letting him know that inside of me something is off kilter and I need something like a spanking to untangle me.He is fun, and we have fun. Being at ease with each other is important to us and I'm glad we match that together. It usually comes out when I have difficulty verbalising a need or when I'm totally unsure of what the need is.. just that there is 'something' going on. He encourages it from me because despite my prolific use of the written word, the spoken word is a bit harder for me. So any communication is good communication in his mind.

littlebitxxx -> RE: have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 2:45:47 PM)
Methinks that there is "bratty" and there is "playful". Bratty to me is a spoiled, petulant princess type that pouts when she doesn't get her way or, on the other end of the spectrum, pushes limits in order to get punished. Playful-brat is just fun. Like Justme says, it is a sign of being happy and comfortable in the relationship. You can have fun and play around without fear of punishment or overstepping bounds. There are a couple old threads on here about SAM's (smart ass masochists) that give oodles of ideas for playful brattiness. Your Master may or may not want you to look them up. ;) I showed up for a session one time with a tin pie plate duct-taped to my ass and a sign on it with the red crossed circle "No Spanking Zone". He laughed uproariously as he was ripping off tape and reddening said ass. During a flogging scene, I've been known to count the strokes like the "Count" from Sesame Street. Got lots of chuckles until he switched to the cane. Then it became "Ow! One....Ow! Two". Depending on the scene and situation, there is lots of room for play and fun and brat and mischievious imp. Watching him walk away naked toward the shower and whistling at the bare bum going down the hall. When he says "Oh, you're gonna really get it now!" and saying "Ooh, promise...er...threaten me again!" When you've been goofy and he gives you the look, put your hands on your hips and raise your eyebrows. Now that's bordering defiance but if in a fun-type scenario, can be hilarious....and lead to a wonderful spontaneous OTK spanking.....[;)] Love and light, Brat....er....Sage, I meant Sage

xxblushesxx -> RE: have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 3:09:02 PM)
I swat HoneyMaster on the bottom all the time. I did it once to my former Master. (He was so confused that He laughed.) I have never gotten in trouble for that. I do, however get in trouble, when I lift a hand to Him in a non-joking way. (yes, it's been known to happen. He's Italian, I'm French...it's bound to happen) As to the original question..."have I ever been bratty?" I'm taking legal classes now, and uhm...I plead the fifth.[:-] ~Christina p.s. I happened to look at His profile today, and it has 'obedience training' as an interest, and He has Himself marked as an 'expert'...I laughed and laughed, and then when I caught my breath, called Him and laughed some more. But, I'm very naughty.

gorgeous1 -> RE: have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 3:15:26 PM)
I like being a brat every now and then. I'll stick out my tongue or deliberately lag when being told to kneel, and give him a sly smile. I was being bratty last night. I didn't answer his questions with a "Sir" and I got caned pretty good. Yeah, I'd say it was worth it!

christine1 -> RE: have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 3:38:58 PM)
i get playful, but not bratty really. i love to laugh and connect with a dominant in that way....the last time i got into a bit of trouble was with my last dominant and i was cooking for him and had a can of whipped cream....i walked up behind him and pulled the top of his pants out and squirted whipped cream on his ass. i was laughing so hard that he started laughing too., of course he made me clean it up and i won't mention how but it was a fun thing that turned into some fun and sexy play. afterward, i did get a bit of a talking to about this and that etc, and i understood why he brought up certain points. this isn't something i'd do all the time, but sometimes levity is a good thing, especially if it isn't meant in a disrespectful way.

adoracat -> RE: have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 3:44:35 PM)
Daddy says that yes, i am a bit of a brat at times...then says "not really bratty, spirited is better". but he likes that because i understand EXACTLY when its ok, and when i need to be a good girl. kitten

daddyncherry -> RE: have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 4:04:05 PM)
i rarely do it....and when i do he usually fails to see my humor in it...but occasionally i can say something playful or act a wee bit bratty and he will joke with me on it. The first time i did something a bit off was he was driving and yelled at someone and i responded with a "Reooowwww...Hisss Hiisss.." sounding kinda like a mad cat....he just looked at me and said "Young lady you will save things like that for your girl friends."....so i haven't done that again. lol Once or twice i accidentally tapped his butt...not as a swat or a spank even... i was totally unaware of it and he pinched my nipples really hard and told me that i was NOT allowed to do that...so i just don't ever even come close to grazing his butt. i can get away with sticking my tongue out and rolling my eyes sometimes...if i do it in a silly-ish kind of way...but then there are times like that when he goes all Bill Cosby (i think it was he who said this) on me and tells me "Roll your eyes....and I'll roll your little head." So needless to say...being even cutsey bratty is not something i do often.

chellekitty -> RE: have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 4:42:18 PM)
FR in my opinion, that was not bratty, that was manipulative...but if that is what works for you in your dynamic because that is how your Dominant approves of being asked to play, go for it.... to me being a brat is not about being manipulative or childish to get what i want...it is about being playful and child-like in order to keep spirits up...but again, that is just me...whatever works for you... in case you couldn't intepret my answer, yes i have been bratty, but no, not in the way that you were... take care chelle

angelslave77 -> RE: have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 5:05:28 PM)
I would say I am playful more than bratty, and kinda in a defiant way, I dont do it to get punished, but I do sometimes do it to see just how sadistic he is feeling and because often it helps him push past the "cuddly, I love her so much" feeling and step back into said sadist shoes. I think a big part of the reason he needs that is he came from a pain for punishment back ground, and so inflicting pain for pleasure has been new to him. He is however getting better at it and so now I pick my playful defiance moments carefully no point making an evil sadist worse. Our relationship is very playful generally though so outside of s/m play, we can at times be like a couple of hyperactive kids, so silly, bratty nonsensical stuff is just part and parcel of who we both are.

snowandsub -> RE: have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 5:05:36 PM)
i second littlebitxxx's post really. I do playful - imp like stuff but never disrepectful - more jest than defiance. and yes the effect is a positive play one. I would never consider being defiant towards my Master at all becuase that would just lead to non play :( but then humour is a big part of our dynamic.

piercedntattooed -> RE: have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 5:44:06 PM)
bratty...yep i have been punished for it...sure have

Maya2001 -> RE: have you ever been bratty? (1/16/2008 5:55:39 PM)
With the first dom I also playfully swatted his bottom, and in returned got a light playful scolding, but he is a very good humored person and loves to playfully tease, so I knew I could get away with, my last dom I doubt very much that if I did the same, that I would get off anywhere near as easily.

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