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Thank You, CollarMe! - 1/17/2008 5:27:01 AM

MsStarlett

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Thanks, CollarMe!

In the very short time that I have been here, I've spoken to (Ok, sent a lot of messages to) several wonderful people. I have never hidden the fact that I'm married to a wonderful, yet rather vanilla guy who just wasn't satisfying all of my needs. He knows all about my participation here and even took all of my current pics for me. I knew that playing photographer gets him excited, so that's always fun for both of us. Now, since I've been showing him more and more things, he's loosening up a bit and starting to get a few 'sprinkles' on top! He is looking forward to my next professional photo shoot and is helping me get things together for it. He even volenteered to make some dungeon furniture for me! Hubby refuses to get ON a stretching rack, but he'd be happy to build me one. That's a start. PLUS, he really liked the 'Oral Sex Chair' I showed him on a furniture site. He's not only going to build me one, he has admitted that he would enjoy lying under it. *Happy Dance!*

So, Thanks guys and gals! My life may not be so 'vanilla' anymore.

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RE: Thank You, CollarMe! - 1/17/2008 5:30:21 AM

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Good Luck to you. We all had to start somewhere and some of us aren't finished either.

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RE: Thank You, CollarMe! - 1/17/2008 5:58:36 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

Thanks, CollarMe!

In the very short time that I have been here, I've spoken to (Ok, sent a lot of messages to) several wonderful people. I have never hidden the fact that I'm married to a wonderful, yet rather vanilla guy who just wasn't satisfying all of my needs. He knows all about my participation here and even took all of my current pics for me. I knew that playing photographer gets him excited, so that's always fun for both of us. Now, since I've been showing him more and more things, he's loosening up a bit and starting to get a few 'sprinkles' on top! He is looking forward to my next professional photo shoot and is helping me get things together for it. He even volenteered to make some dungeon furniture for me! Hubby refuses to get ON a stretching rack, but he'd be happy to build me one. That's a start. PLUS, he really liked the 'Oral Sex Chair' I showed him on a furniture site. He's not only going to build me one, he has admitted that he would enjoy lying under it. *Happy Dance!*

So, Thanks guys and gals! My life may not be so 'vanilla' anymore.

Hey! things are working for you? fantastic. :)

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RE: Thank You, CollarMe! - 1/17/2008 6:11:13 AM

MsStarlett

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He's still hard lining against anything that hurts... But he's willing to explore other things...

Also, when I mentioned that I invited one of my favorits from here to attend a convention that we will also be attending, he just rolled his eyes and didn't say "No." We have always had an open marrage, so that's not unusual. He just doesn't want anyone showing up on our doorstep now that we have a teen son in the house. We used to 'swing' when our son was very young and went to bed early enough not to know what Mom & Dad did with our Special Friends after dinner. But we haven't done that in a very, VERY long time.

I'm just encouraged that as our son grows old enough to be GONE more often... maybe Mom & Dad can start having more fun in different, more interesting ways while he's away... and maybe have a toy over once in a while...

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RE: Thank You, CollarMe! - 1/17/2008 6:16:09 AM

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Sounds like great changes are underway! Good luck, and have fun :)

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RE: Thank You, CollarMe! - 1/17/2008 8:05:23 AM

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WHOOT! I am so happy for you MsStarlett!
Being in a similar situation myself with my significant other, I definately understand where you're comming from. I hope that the two of you can continue the exploration and discovey together.

~Kaylin

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RE: Thank You, CollarMe! - 1/17/2008 8:08:13 AM

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I AM ecstatic for you!!! Congratulations!!

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RE: Thank You, CollarMe! - 1/17/2008 12:35:24 PM

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This sounds great for you. And it reminds me a lot of when the training wheels were removed from my bicycle. Let me tell you: Even though it was over a month ago, I still remember it like it was yesterday.

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RE: Thank You, CollarMe! - 1/17/2008 12:35:40 PM

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I'm very happy for you.
I'm not sure you can 'develop' a pain slut per se' without them wanting to develop it, but, perhaps you could experiment without seeming to?
Like, if/when you're going down on him, and he's really enjoying it, maybe pinching his nipples, or pulling on his balls a bit? (I can't believe I just typed that)
Maybe if he starts to equate his pleasure with a little light pain, you all could develop from there.

Good luck!

~Christina

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