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New and a bit shy - 8/28/2005 6:52:42 PM   
Bluetemptation


Posts: 16
Joined: 8/28/2005
From: Germany
Status: offline 		So I am new here, found the link to collarme.com somewhere on lj
I am a 22 year old female with submissive tendencies and wishes and a rather dominant attitude in public.
The dominant attitude in public has more to do with being insecure and trying to keep myself safe and being known for getting violent with touchy feely guys who touch me/feel me up without my permission.
I kind of want to explore the lifestyle a bit more, never went further than a bit of rope bondage and some spanking, some games with clothespins (spelling?).
About me? I am blond 5'3 and have big green eyes a pout that is really good for manipulating people and a tendency to the gothic scene.
I am a snarky, witty bitch and I won't take shit from just anyone.
Now you might ask, how does that fit with feeling/being submissive, well I am the kind of girl that needs reassurances about the strength of a man who wants to dominate her and I won't take shit from others just because I am a sub.
Well back to the introduction thing. Hello and I hope this will help me to find more information and more about myself.

Bluetemptation
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RE: New and a bit shy - 8/28/2005 7:26:24 PM   
MstrHellsFury


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Status: offline 		welcome to the site...as you're from germany..it's a long streach form my short arms to reach you..(smile)...anyway... I'm sure you're find lots of friends on the boards here..and lots of information...look around...kick back...aks questions..and just enjoy...

Fury

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RE: New and a bit shy - 8/28/2005 7:55:42 PM   
BalletBob


Posts: 1645
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Status: offline 		Hi Blue and Welcome to the group. WOW....Germany? I am half German, but not sure which half...LOL It's either my top or bottom, or my left or right. As for Clothespins, that's a good start, though I am a little more sissy, and have to use Rubberbands to cut down on the tension some.

Once again welcome to the group, and ENJOY and be Happy.

Wish I was Tied and Gagged En Pointe, BalletBob

< Message edited by BalletBob -- 8/28/2005 7:56:34 PM >

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RE: New and a bit shy - 8/28/2005 8:13:25 PM   
Bluetemptation


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Joined: 8/28/2005
From: Germany
Status: offline 		oh well as I said, I was just experimenting a bit
I am kind of too strong to be dominated by any of the men in my relationships,
I am a rude, snarky, bitchy and a bit volatile girl, that can get violent, so I need someone who is more dominant than me.
Meh this sounds bad but I don't mean it that way ... . I kind of need to be sure that my dom would be able to really dominate me and has the strength to back it up.
Most of my own dominant streak is just a mask to hide behind - in order to stay safe and not be hurt that bad again

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RE: New and a bit shy - 8/28/2005 8:22:13 PM   
BalletBob


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Status: offline 		Hi Again Blue. I am quite sure you have a better chance in finding someone here, than I do...and I am sure you'll be happy too...if you like it or not...ha ha ha

Take care, and always be Bound and Gagged, BalletBob

PS Do you like Gags too? I love them for the MOAN factor.

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RE: New and a bit shy - 8/29/2005 5:19:55 AM   
Bluetemptation


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Joined: 8/28/2005
From: Germany
Status: offline 		As I said, the bit I taste yet was good. So yes, the gag too.
even if it was more used like you would use a muzzle on a bad dog *bites sometimes

by the way is it normal to get interesting messages by would be (?) doms who search someone who would be allowed no rights,no freedom at all, and no fucking safeword sounds well not inviting to me

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RE: New and a bit shy - 8/29/2005 5:30:37 AM   
imtempting


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Joined: 2/11/2005
Status: offline 		do you live anywhere near Mainz?

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RE: New and a bit shy - 8/29/2005 5:33:25 AM   
Bluetemptation


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Joined: 8/28/2005
From: Germany
Status: offline 		uhm no,
we did a tour to go clubbing in mainz once, but we had to stay over with a friend afterwards because we had a long way home
think kind of north of the harz mountains.

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RE: New and a bit shy - 8/30/2005 5:48:45 AM   
Bluetemptation


Posts: 16
Joined: 8/28/2005
From: Germany
Status: offline 		so my picture is up and I so much mails, that I think I have to say sorry to some of the persons behind them.
first please read my profile.
I would neither relocate or marry you right now, especially not if you live a continent away and are older than my dad or over 50.
I don't want to get into something 24/7 right now at all, I am new to this and more interested and info and all that as in men from thousands of miles away trying to relocate me to their home. I am new but not insane guys.

I am sorry if I snapped at some of you, confused mails, or forgot to answer at all.
There are just too much mails and proposals to get it all straight and with manners

oh and to the people out there, who call me fake, either because I went away in the middle of the mailing attack, (it was after 4 am local time, kind of need some sleep too, I tried to answer everything that arrived up to that point before going to bed) or because I said what i thought (too old too far away etc) or told them that I am not insane enough for 24/7 with strangers. Grow up! I might be a sub but that does not equal, idiot, insane or anything like that. And I warned you in my profile, my defenses against stupidity dumb pickuptries and all that is being a snarky bitch.
If you think that makes me a poser, ah well can't help you with that.

Blue

< Message edited by Bluetemptation -- 8/30/2005 5:52:39 AM >

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RE: New and a bit shy - 8/30/2005 5:05:09 PM   
sweetpettjenny


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the board and please be rest assured ...there are real and kind people on here

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RE: New and a bit shy - 8/31/2005 9:51:19 PM   
BalletBob


Posts: 1645
Joined: 7/14/2005
Status: offline 		Hi Bluetemptation, It is very odd to get messages from Doms like that. I wouldn't reply to them. There is no reason that you shouldn't be able to use a Safe Word. Enen when I use to have Sessions with MADAM, and Gagged, she always checked on my welfare. I would for surekeep away from anyone who wouldn't give you any rights or freedom. That's what makes a Sub/Dom relationship...both have give and take.

Like someone said, submissive doesn't mean Doormat (I hope I quoted it right).

Busy counting my Mary Janes, BalletBob

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RE: New and a bit shy - 8/31/2005 10:04:21 PM   
BalletBob


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Status: offline 		Hi Again Blue. I agree with Sweetpettyjenny (Hi Jenny), that there are a lot of good people here. Just take your time, and wait till the right one comes along. I hear this all the time, when a female joins the group, right away they get bombarded by guys. I have e-mail a few ladies myself, but not for anything, except to say hi or write them more, after they wrote me first.

Take care, Fraulein Blue, Tied to my Ballet Barre, BalletBob

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RE: New and a bit shy - 9/1/2005 5:21:51 AM   
mundens


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Status: offline 		Go for it girl!

It's damn stupid of people to expect you to do anything at all immediately, and calling you fake is certainly the worst possible way to impress you with their strength.

If it helps, I know subs very similar to yourself, quite pushy and confident (to put it nicely!) when not in scene, but they still enjoy submitting.

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RE: New and a bit shy - 9/1/2005 8:37:14 AM   
GADomCpl


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Status: offline 		blue,
Just wanted to welcome you to the group. We are pretty new on here too. I (Troy) have a been playing with the lifetyle off and on for a few years, but Liz is still pretty new to it. Best word of advice I can give is just have fun with it, find someone that you are comfortable with and who is willing to work at your pace and just try some things out, never know what you will find and enjoy.

Troy and Liz

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RE: New and a bit shy - 9/2/2005 7:52:36 PM   
MasterBenedict


Posts: 309
Status: offline 		Well, HOWDY there girl!!
Whreabout(s) are you now?
I recall you saying something about being FROM Germany but is that where you are NOW?

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RE: New and a bit shy - 9/3/2005 8:03:10 AM   
slavedesires


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quote:

It is very odd to get messages from Doms like that.


Bob...lolol..... it is NOT very odd. Have you read the unusual first email thread yet?



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RE: New and a bit shy - 9/5/2005 7:30:32 AM   
Bluetemptation


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Joined: 8/28/2005
From: Germany
Status: offline 		I have the feeling the weird messages are the most common ones.
by the way, I had some computerproblems and if I forgot to answer some of your mail, or promised you a longer mail, that did not arrive, please send me a message again, and I will answer it when I am back home again ...
promise

oh and about your question MasterBenedict, I am living in Germany
Northern Germany to be a bit more precise

< Message edited by Bluetemptation -- 9/5/2005 7:32:29 AM >

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RE: New and a bit shy - 9/5/2005 10:15:59 AM   
ElektraUkM


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Joined: 2/19/2005
Status: offline 		Hello and welcome to the boards, Bluetemptation...

You will find that indeed, the weird messages are the most common

~ Elektra

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RE: New and a bit shy - 9/7/2005 12:26:53 PM   
BalletBob


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Joined: 7/14/2005
Status: offline 		Hi Slave....Your right, it's just that I am not a female, so I don't get the crazy e-mails.....and B&D attracts them out of the woodwork too.

I love your CHEEKS (In your poast picture)....are you Blushing because you done something Naughty, or because you got caught?

In my new Blue T Strap Mary Janes (and Blushing too), BalletBob

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RE: New and a bit shy - 9/12/2005 11:49:40 AM   
Bluetemptation


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Joined: 8/28/2005
From: Germany
Status: offline 		yeah, the weird messages are really common ...

but I found some people who are not that weird ... I think around 4 or 5 out of over 150

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