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bipolarber -> RE: Clean up boys (2/20/2008 5:42:43 PM)
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A long time back, I was in an all gay household. At the time, since I was new, I was on the bottom end of the "pecking order." I'm not sure exactly how the situation you are talking about would really differ. It sounds great, especially if you are bi, but it really comes down to inter-personal dynamics. If you are being used in a very unemotional manner, that COULD work... but you have a better chance of success if all three of you like one another, AND have well defined roles and rules.
Sometimes, the best way of looking at this sort of position, is that it is a way of you "paying your rent." When I was in the aforementioned household, it was because I was out of work, had lost my apartment, and needed a place to live that didn't involve sleeping in my car in the middle of a Colorado winter. So it was "trade" of a sort. But, that also made it easier to walk away, once I got back on my feet again.
My best advice? Talk to everyone involved. Work out exactly what would be expected of you, and go into it with your eyes WIDE OPEN.
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