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Tigrita -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 10:01:18 AM)
When I first started looking on here, I considered myself only sexually submissive. I realized though that sexuality extends beyond the bedroom. Initially I meant things like just the psychological foreplay of flirtation and interaction outside the bedroom. But the more I thought about it (with encouragement from someone special), the more I realized that sexuality does, or can, bleed into pretty much everything. I don't think it is necessarily a hard and fast distinction between BDSM and vanilla, because there are BDSM relationships that aren't sexual and only service and discipline based, and vanilla people and relationships that bring a bit of sexuality into just about everything they do, but thinking of everything, like service and reverence and whatnot with a bit of a sexual context did help me realize a deeper level of submissiveness for me that is fulfilling.

geishagurl -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 10:04:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterHardxdrive A wise dom many, many year ago told me the differnce between the vanilla lifestyle and the bdsm lifestyle is that whatever you do in the bdsm lifestyle. There is a touch of sexuality on it. Do you agree? I agree....

Lordandmaster -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 10:24:27 AM)
I wouldn't say that it's "the" difference between vanilla and BDSM, but I do agree that in a BDSM relationship, there is what you're calling a touch of sexuality in everything you do, even if it's not overtly sexual. quote: ORIGINAL: MasterHardxdrive A wise dom many, many year ago told me the differnce between the vanilla lifestyle and the bdsm lifestyle is that whatever you do in the bdsm lifestyle. There is a touch of sexuality on it. Do you agree?

AquaticSub -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 10:57:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterHardxdrive A wise dom many, many year ago told me the differnce between the vanilla lifestyle and the bdsm lifestyle is that whatever you do in the bdsm lifestyle. There is a touch of sexuality on it. Do you agree? No. I've met very sexual vanilla people. They just aren't interested BDSM as a lifestyle.

AquaticSub -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 10:58:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Phin High heels where not part of the bargin... just tights a tiera and a feather cap. that is enough... [8D] This is sounding better by the minute! We have to arrange to meet up now. [:D]

PsyVamp -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 11:51:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterHardxdrive A wise dom many, many year ago told me the differnce between the vanilla lifestyle and the bdsm lifestyle is that whatever you do in the bdsm lifestyle. There is a touch of sexuality on it. Do you agree? I am the way I am even before acknowledging that I am dominant. It could be deemed "sexual" because most of the things I do, I do because they turn me on. Hearing a man whimper, moan, beg, cry....how could it not be sexual? *disclaimer: just because its really hot, doesn't mean anyone is getting laid...rofl Lady Jag

kittinSol -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 2:42:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterHardxdrive A wise dom many, many year ago told me the differnce between the vanilla lifestyle and the bdsm lifestyle is that whatever you do in the bdsm lifestyle. There is a touch of sexuality on it. Do you agree? The notion of a 'BDSM lifestyle' has always eluded me, personally, as I'm not a member of any kind of club (though I'm well into members, and clubs... huh...), but as I am sexually bent in a D/s kind of way (I have been all my life, but it gets worse with age), I concur enthusiastically with the Dom you spoke to. Everything in my life is flavoured by sexuality. I am obsessed with twisted sex; a trip to a public library is sexual. Getting ouf of a car is sexy. Chopping carrotts turns me on. I get off from watching a man wearing a shirt with double-cuffs and cufflinks. I find a sexually twisted connotation in nearly everything - and that's without even trying. Help!

MissHarlet -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 2:54:36 PM)
No I dont agree ... no more than there is a touch of sexuality in everything some people do that are vanilla .. it depends on the individual. As many have said .. its hard to find any touch of sexuality in doing laundry or having it done for me, or in cleaning toilets or having them cleaned for me, or in having a meal cooked for me or in cooking. Can one feel sensual doing these things? yes .. but not every time .. at least not in my opinion.

LRODANDMASTER -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 2:55:02 PM)
OK BUT YOUR AN INTELLECT AND CHICKS LIKE THAT SOMTIMES HAVE A HARD TIME FINDING A MAN WHOSE LIKE UP TO THE TAX.

MissHarlet -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 3:00:36 PM)
That is not the case I assure you ... not even at my advanced age .

kittinSol -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 3:03:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LRODANDMASTER OK BUT YOUR AN INTELLECT AND CHICKS LIKE THAT SOMTIMES HAVE A HARD TIME FINDING A MAN WHOSE LIKE UP TO THE TAX. Fucking hell... were you Lordandmaster, and you went through the wringer? Or WOT? I'm sure I'm not alone in worrying. I think we should be told.

domiguy -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 3:08:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterHardxdrive A wise dom many, many year ago told me the differnce between the vanilla lifestyle and the bdsm lifestyle is that whatever you do in the bdsm lifestyle. There is a touch of sexuality on it. Do you agree? A wise dom many, many year ago told me that there is a touch of sexuality in every shaving cream advertisement.. ...He sounds wiser than your Dom. It hasn't been seen out here for quite some time.....But I challenge you to a Dom-Off!

Lordandmaster -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 3:09:25 PM)
Every once in a while he gets out of his cage. quote: ORIGINAL: kittinSol quote: ORIGINAL: LRODANDMASTER OK BUT YOUR AN INTELLECT AND CHICKS LIKE THAT SOMTIMES HAVE A HARD TIME FINDING A MAN WHOSE LIKE UP TO THE TAX. Fucking hell... were you Lordandmaster, and you went through the wringer? Or WOT? I'm sure I'm not alone in worrying. I think we should be told.

heartcream -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 6:59:04 PM)
Laundry is a very hot thing at times, those big machines humming and buzzing can be pretty sexy --to me anyway. We come from sex. Every one of us (Not including clones, I suppose.) came from the sexual act. In my opinion sex is a very prevalent thing in our world.

AquaticSub -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 7:03:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: heartcream Laundry is a very hot thing at times, those big machines humming and buzzing can be pretty sexy --to me anyway. We come from sex. Every one of us (Not including clones, I suppose.) came from the sexual act. In my opinion sex is a very prevalent thing in our world. Nope. Some of us come from injections of sperm via syringes and test tubes, or sperm in turkey basters. [:)]

MissHarlet -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 8:52:04 PM)
I for one want to watch the " Dom off "

heartcream -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 9:17:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: heartcream Laundry is a very hot thing at times, those big machines humming and buzzing can be pretty sexy --to me anyway. We come from sex. Every one of us (Not including clones, I suppose.) came from the sexual act. In my opinion sex is a very prevalent thing in our world. Nope. Some of us come from injections of sperm via syringes and test tubes, or sperm in turkey basters. [:)] Personally, I think that speaks volumes of how messed up we are still, fundamentally sexually, than the fact that it has nothing to do with it.

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